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[phonixgirl]

It's so sad

Mine happened very early - think I was only pregnant for a few days - but I was upset when I passed it all. It's such a difficult thing to go through anyway, but it's a bloody kick in the teeth when you try for so long. Your baby was very much loved. It's awful how it's going to take you so long to get your levels down too. That must be so hard.

Here if you need xx

 

[Clover]

Hi Katie
Thanks for your post hun, I know you've recently had a early loss , how are you doing?

I'm feeling sad this morning but I know I'm lucky to have my children and I am considering giving up TTC as it completely took over my life

I really hope you get your sticky Bfp hun you deserve it so much, have you decided if you're going to do another FET?
Big hugs sweetie

xxxxxx

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[sarl1967]

Sorry for your loss. All my miscarriages were early and natural I seemed to ovulate straight away n got periods the next month I understand how when uve have children u feel like u should b grateful for them ive that feeling when don't get a bfp for number 3 love n best wishes. X

 

[Charlotte9]

Gail, it's very sad. Just don't make any decisions about giving up TTC as yet sweetie. Take a little break perhaps and then see how you feel xx

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[Clover]

Just got these delivered

xxxxxx

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[Clover]

Charlotte I don't know if I should continue ttc, I want my last baby so bad but then I feel bad that some ladies don't have any children and I shouldn't be ttc
I think my hormones are all over the place !!

xxxxx

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[Slb24]

Gail take your time to decide Hun. You're blessed to have beautiful children already but you shouldn't feel guilty about carrying on TTC. I imagine you want another just as much as they want their first. Maybe try and take a not trying, not protecting approach. If it happens it happens. But I'm sure it will
Give yourself some time to grieve first.
I'm so sorry this has happened Hun and I hope you stay strong xx

 

[Clover]

I just broke down and cried and cried , I just want so bad to be pregnant again I want my baby back

xxx

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[Charlotte9]

Gail, sorry sweetie you are upset. Please never ever give up on baby number 4. This baby will try and join you very quickly. The body is gone but the soul remains near you. X

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[Charlotte9]

Beautiful flowers someone really loves you x

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[J9nine]

Big hugs sweetie. I am sure you will be pregnant again, I know it is easier said than done but maybe #teamchill is the way forward. I hate the idea of NTNP but there is something about the stress free approach that NTNP gives that is very appealling. Maybe though it should be TWE (trying without effort) lol x

 

[Slb24]

Crying is good hun. You are managing your emotions. I honestly can't imagine what you're going through. But all I can say is that you have been so strong. Crying is not a weakness it's a coping mechanism. And something you need to do.

Your baby is forever sleeping in your heart. Take comfort in that, and that nothing can every take your little one away.

I'm so sorry Hun xx

 

[MelH999]

Just reading this makes me cry. For you and myself. It's so weird even tho I've had 4/5 periods since. I've not been ttc for the last 2. Just laying low, I went into overdrive after the mc. I kinda put BF off sex I was so pushy during ovulation. I still get sad, but it does get more manageable. I'm usually a really strong person- prob too hard faced, but this mc really hurt me.

I hope you recover quickly, it's sounds like things went smoothly which is great you avoided medical intervention. Really well done. It takes weeks/ months to get back into a reg cycle, so try not get too upset if things are up and down. Bleeding can be so start and stop, just when you think it's gone it comes back again.

I found a really useful site that said, once you stop bleeding for at least 20 days in a row, you can consider your next bleed is a real period. I would go 9, then 5 then any number just not 20! So try be patient... Which I know is like impossible.

I booked a holiday to LA. On a credit card! On a whim! But it was to give me something else for me to focus on. I now have to focus on not getting preg! Because I don't want the sickness and everything whilst on hol, so I think I will try the first cycle I'm back. .....

I really understand the need to just cry and cry. Do it when you need to. It really is better out than in. My BF was rubbish too after. My BF came to hospital with me to have help getting it out.... So your not alone in that either. Some men are just.... Well men!! Xxxx

 

[Clover]

I've just passed more clots
I don't think it's over just yet
And I've done a test and it's still quite a strong positive

xxxx

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[Clover]

Could I pm anyone a picture of my ?? Clot/sac that I lost on Wednesday night
I'm not sure if it was the pregnancy or not, I'm so scared I haven't passed it yet

xxxxxx

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[MelH999]

You can inbox me clover i can remember what mine looked like, the nurse showed me the difference between clots and ( I'm not sure what the right word is to use) so I will say baby sac X

 

[Clover]

Thanks Mel I will PM you x

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[Slb24]

Clover, pregnancy tests won't tell you much at this time. Your levels were in the thousands.

With my first MC my levels were 800. It took a full week for them to drop back to 0. And that's with blood tests.
Urine is a few days behind. So whatever your hcg was 1/2 days ago will be showing.

I know it's hard but you need to wait. Sorry Hun xx

 

[Clover]

3 weeks ago my levels were 13535 and if the sac has grown each week I suppose they will of risen until I passed ?? Baby on Wednesday so it's logical that my hormones are still high I suppose

xxxxx

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[Slb24]

They probably have risen. I'm sorry to say this Hun but it can take a few weeks for all the hcg to get out of your system. The higher they are the longer it can take. Xx