You'll do what's right. I took off of work for a day and probably cried every night (and initially many times per day) for the first few weeks. My compounding problem was a very insensitive emerg doctor - make sure that if you need emotional support in the form of a counsellor or psychologist that you get it - this is a loss and you won't "get over it" but you will learn how to place it in your life. Our doc told us that the body recognizes chromosomal or other abnormalities and terminates the pregnancy as a response to this; I miss the few weeks I knew I was pregnant but am also looking forward to having a healthy baby if we are ever blessed with another.