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February Testing Thread **Fabulous February BFP's!**

If you think you could be approaching peak don’t use these until next cycle as it can give false results x

@RainbowMama girlllll don’t be silly I’ll test at 4DPO :rotfl: thank you xxx
I dont think im approaching at the moment they havent got any darker for 5 days - feel like giving up
 
That looks like a line to me @RainbowMama! x

congratulations @night owl x

AF is definitely here with a vengeance for me. Horrible. We had a discussion last night and we’ve decided to stop trying for a few months. After my chemical last month, I just don’t think I can handle the stress of ttc at the moment. I wish you all good luck xxxx
 
@bellecat, I'm right with you. If this cycle is a bust and that's just a false line then I'll also be taking time out for mental health. I'm so sorry love <3

The test is a One Step and all the comments on FB think it's positive too - but I can't trust it!

I had a HUGE blow last night, found out via facebook - and not even an announcement post that my mother-in-law-to-be is pregnant. To rub salt in the wounds she's 12 weeks. If I didn't miscarry in December I'd be 11 weeks.
To add further salt in the wounds they're both alcoholics, he beats her up & he takes drugs (and then drives!). I won't lie, I spent yesterday evening sobbing my heart out to the point I couldn't breathe. Hours later I calmed down, had mild AF type cramps which didn't last long and I've woken up this morning at 5am with a wet feeling, thought for sure AF is here. Wiped and it was just watery CM - which I never usually see. <3

How am I supposed to face life knowing that her baby survived and ours didn't? Every birthday card, every christmas card from her, him and their baby. Every time we go over, the baby is going to be a stark reminder that our baby died. How am I supposed to live with this pain? I've even taken off my engagement ring as - I don't know if I can go through that. :confused::shakehead:
 
@bellecat, I'm right with you. If this cycle is a bust and that's just a false line then I'll also be taking time out for mental health. I'm so sorry love <3

The test is a One Step and all the comments on FB think it's positive too - but I can't trust it!

I had a HUGE blow last night, found out via facebook - and not even an announcement post that my mother-in-law-to-be is pregnant. To rub salt in the wounds she's 12 weeks. If I didn't miscarry in December I'd be 11 weeks.
To add further salt in the wounds they're both alcoholics, he beats her up & he takes drugs (and then drives!). I won't lie, I spent yesterday evening sobbing my heart out to the point I couldn't breathe. Hours later I calmed down, had mild AF type cramps which didn't last long and I've woken up this morning at 5am with a wet feeling, thought for sure AF is here. Wiped and it was just watery CM - which I never usually see. <3

How am I supposed to face life knowing that her baby survived and ours didn't? Every birthday card, every christmas card from her, him and their baby. Every time we go over, the baby is going to be a stark reminder that our baby died. How am I supposed to live with this pain? I've even taken off my engagement ring as - I don't know if I can go through that. :confused::shakehead:

Oh @RainbowMama i don’t know what to say :(

Wet cm is a good sign though have you tested this morning? Xx
 
I’m skeptical as the top one is 25miu/ml and the middle is a lot more sensitive - 10miu/ml, so if any should have picked it, it should have been the middle one.

Have you BD? Are you going to symptom spot in your two week wait?
 
@bellecat, I'm right with you. If this cycle is a bust and that's just a false line then I'll also be taking time out for mental health. I'm so sorry love <3

The test is a One Step and all the comments on FB think it's positive too - but I can't trust it!

I had a HUGE blow last night, found out via facebook - and not even an announcement post that my mother-in-law-to-be is pregnant. To rub salt in the wounds she's 12 weeks. If I didn't miscarry in December I'd be 11 weeks.
To add further salt in the wounds they're both alcoholics, he beats her up & he takes drugs (and then drives!). I won't lie, I spent yesterday evening sobbing my heart out to the point I couldn't breathe. Hours later I calmed down, had mild AF type cramps which didn't last long and I've woken up this morning at 5am with a wet feeling, thought for sure AF is here. Wiped and it was just watery CM - which I never usually see. <3

How am I supposed to face life knowing that her baby survived and ours didn't? Every birthday card, every christmas card from her, him and their baby. Every time we go over, the baby is going to be a stark reminder that our baby died. How am I supposed to live with this pain? I've even taken off my engagement ring as - I don't know if I can go through that. :confused::shakehead:

Aww sorry @RainbowMama, I can never understand why people with such toxic chaotic lives go on to get pregnant, I just feel sorry for the babies born into those situations, it makes me so sad

I do think I can see faint lines on your tests, praying for you that they get darker!
 
I’m skeptical as the top one is 25miu/ml and the middle is a lot more sensitive - 10miu/ml, so if any should have picked it, it should have been the middle one.

Have you BD? Are you going to symptom spot in your two week wait?

the FRER is the most sensitive though and I see lines there!

We did BD but my lines are stronger again this morning going to test again at lunch time and I’ve got absolutely no chance of BD tonight as the football is on! I have told him how upset I am about that though so we will see! I was crampy yesterday though so I dunno what to think, can’t see it happening I can’t even track by cm although I did have some watery a few days ago I think the ummm swimmers mess with it x
 
Aww sorry @RainbowMama, I can never understand why people with such toxic chaotic lives go on to get pregnant, I just feel sorry for the babies born into those situations, it makes me so sad

I do think I can see faint lines on your tests, praying for you that they get darker!


100%, She's 40 and she fell pregnant so easily. Last we heard was 'I've got the implant, god. Not having any more'. Her twin girls were taken off her and are with their father. I am so angry at life right now. I know these tests look hopeful but honestly, I just ''feel out''. I've never had a BFP this late into my cycle so I highly suspect I'm out and that's okay. I'd rather be out than have a third miscarriage in a row!
Hows the pregnancy going? <3

@Mrsbridge17, Can you not BD this afternoon before the football starts? Praying so hard for you right now girl! <3
 
100%, She's 40 and she fell pregnant so easily. Last we heard was 'I've got the implant, god. Not having any more'. Her twin girls were taken off her and are with their father. I am so angry at life right now. I know these tests look hopeful but honestly, I just ''feel out''. I've never had a BFP this late into my cycle so I highly suspect I'm out and that's okay. I'd rather be out than have a third miscarriage in a row!
Hows the pregnancy going? <3

@Mrsbridge17, Can you not BD this afternoon before the football starts? Praying so hard for you right now girl! <3

@RainbowMama that is awful! I really hope you get your BFP.

Sadly not I am working until 7pm x
 
Completely off topic - but....
Who said make up is JUST for girls?
Foundation, concealer, highlighter, contoured his cheekbones, eye shadow, mascara and lipstick. He totally drew the line at eye liner though haha.
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Please be kind, I don't usually wear make up and have no idea what goes where to be honest... I just wing it. :rotfl:


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@RainbowMama that is awful! I really hope you get your BFP.

Sadly not I am working until 7pm x


Did you BD last night? It only takes one, so hopefully you're covered! You should ovulate 12-36 hours after the FIRST positive, so you could already have ovulated and the sperm got there! <3
 
100%, She's 40 and she fell pregnant so easily. Last we heard was 'I've got the implant, god. Not having any more'. Her twin girls were taken off her and are with their father. I am so angry at life right now. I know these tests look hopeful but honestly, I just ''feel out''. I've never had a BFP this late into my cycle so I highly suspect I'm out and that's okay. I'd rather be out than have a third miscarriage in a row!
Hows the pregnancy going? <3

@Mrsbridge17, Can you not BD this afternoon before the football starts? Praying so hard for you right now girl! <3

I bet you 100% she has been careless with contraception here, the implant only lasts a certain amount of time before the hormones run out I think, honestly I can guarantee you half of people who fell ‘accidentally’ it wasn’t as accidental as they would make out! I know how upsetting women who are having fertility issues find these accidental pregnancies but it’s only half the story

pregnancy is going ok I think but I’m back to obsessing over line progression, done a test today but it isn’t much darker then yesterday, but my urine wasn’t as strong I think, arghhh why do we terrorise ourselves like this, I’m going to step away from the tests and just go a digital weeks indicator on Friday and hope for a 2-3 weeks, I would be happy with that! I’m getting paranoid about whether my body can do this while I’m still breastfeeding

keeping everything crossed for all you lovely ladies on here x
 
Did you BD last night? It only takes one, so hopefully you're covered! You should ovulate 12-36 hours after the FIRST positive, so you could already have ovulated and the sperm got there! <3

Yeah we did. I’ll be gutted if it doesn’t work out this month as we do need to put it on pause for the next couple of months but we will see! Xx
 
I bet you 100% she has been careless with contraception here, the implant only lasts a certain amount of time before the hormones run out I think, honestly I can guarantee you half of people who fell ‘accidentally’ it wasn’t as accidental as they would make out! I know how upsetting women who are having fertility issues find these accidental pregnancies but it’s only half the story

pregnancy is going ok I think but I’m back to obsessing over line progression, done a test today but it isn’t much darker then yesterday, but my urine wasn’t as strong I think, arghhh why do we terrorise ourselves like this, I’m going to step away from the tests and just go a digital weeks indicator on Friday and hope for a 2-3 weeks, I would be happy with that! I’m getting paranoid about whether my body can do this while I’m still breastfeeding

keeping everything crossed for all you lovely ladies on here x

Awww don’t stress @night owl it’ll be ok. Is your LO still feeding regularly or just a couple of times? I stopped when my LO was about 13 months old and I still haven’t fully recovered from it my hair falls out horrendously still and she’s two! You can do it though the body is an amazing thing x
 
@night owl, I know what you mean, just makes me super frustrated. Hopefully the tests darken up for you! Fingers crossed for a 2-3 weeks! <3



@Mrsbridge17, Fingers crossed lovely, I have every faith in you <3
 
Awww don’t stress @night owl it’ll be ok. Is your LO still feeding regularly or just a couple of times? I stopped when my LO was about 13 months old and I still haven’t fully recovered from it my hair falls out horrendously still and she’s two! You can do it though the body is an amazing thing x

thanks hun, it’s just a waiting game now isn’t it,I always find the first trimester so stressful and it drags on so much, she can be a bit of a milk monster and likes to just sit there suckling between meals sometimes! It is getting less and less now though and I’m finding she can be distracted from it so I’m trying that, oh god I dread the hair loss afterwards, my hair is so sparse as it is, I’ll be getting a wig made ha ha
 

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