Hi ladies sorry to bump my thread back up ... i didnt mean my post horrible sorry, its just that i was driving myself crazy and sometimes reading negative stuff online doesnt help GOOGLE especially (my own fault)
Sorry it was me, i was testing everyday, worrying 24/7and making myself and it was affecting me and my OH. I'm very glad to say i last tested on monday . on frer, out of curiosity and i have NOT tested since even with internet cheapies and with my son i tested everyday until my first scan .
I feel so much better, more relaxed, yes i am still worried, but i feel more positive now and i think it was what i needed, ive been on google lol driving myself mad but i dont talk about it constantly now.
Just thought id update my situation as you were all so supporitve

I have been my doctors today (adviced by hospital) to be referred to the midwife who i wont see until im 8 weeks anyway but thats if everything goes ok from now until then. I have rang epu today as the A&E wanted me go back for a follow up scan in 2 weeks, i have just got my date, 14th january at 9.30 im soooo nervous and excited! I'm just glad ive got the date now i know its 11 days away but ive got something look forward to or get answers from if that makes sense?
I've still been getting the pains in my back, and i went my doctors today anyway as they wanted me to go to be referred and basically my mum rang up yesterday for me ( i had a sickness bug) and asked if they could please prescribe me folic acid because thats what the hospital told me to do to get some however i cant swallow tablets so ive had to have it in liquid form. There was some form of confusion and my doctor prescribed me iron LOL but my mum definitely said folic acid because i was there on the settee feeling sick.
But i have been feeling tired a lot just lately, not sure if its just because i go bed late ish and get up early ish but i just feel constantly tired ... doctor let me have the prescription so theres no harm taking it for a few weeks see if it helps. Also just after id had my son i had very low iron and she had to give me some then, i know i havent just give birth lol, but just saying x
Also i said about the pains in my back and the hospital said that there was white cells in my urine and he said that there either wasnt enough to detect a infection or show infection, something like that. But she said the hospital are really strict she goes off symptoms and i think im going wee a lot recently so shes prescribed me anti biotics too, hopefully that will ease my back pain and in my sides.
I've had no bleeding, no brown or pink nothing so i am hoping thats a good sign i know its very early days but i just worry.
I've had the sickness bug yesterday grrr lol felt so ill !! But feel so better now, got headache again. Not sure if its from worrying still or my doctor said it could be hormones, but i did suffer with headaches with my son a lot but not sure if it was early on but i definitely had some.
Also i got my bfp on 20th december and on the 21st i had a temp tooth filling as i was like trying put it off and wait until 2nd tri again if everything goes ok and basically i was up every night taking tablets and not sleeping i was so drained getting up with my son i had to go the dentist told her i found out i was pregnant and she was nice she said they say its safe but they dont advice because of 1st trimester is the most important for growth, etc.
But she said it would be ok so i had a temp filling with anesthetic now i told my doctor today and she said its too late worry about it now.
I feel absolutely awful i dont drink i dont smoke i dont do nothing bad and i just hope i dont cause myself a miscarriage by having anesthetic. It was either that or keep taking tablets, and that isnt safe either is it.
And also in my tww i was taking a lot of tablets (for my tooth) again i feel awful about that, someone said to me on a group on facebook it would be ok because that was only the implantation ... but i dont know.
I've only took paracetemol now and thats been for my headaches and back i try to just carry on but it was literally knocking me sick and i was in agony. I've currently got headache at the moment, grrr. But just gonna try sleep it off tonight.
So anyway, my scan date is 14th january at 9.30 and im soooooo happy its worked out great my boyfriend can come because hes off work that week and his work is really strict and wont let him make his hours up etc or have the morning off, or book it off holiday (with notice)
So its worked out great. Not sure if i will see a hb if everything is ok because the sac measured 3-4 weeks on sunday. BUT i am hoping that because there was a sac .. and from what ive read you usually have a sac around 4 weeks on google? not sure if thats correct, just what ive read. I'm hoping i was/am near to 4 weeks then 3. But i ovulated on 10th december so i dunno ... i got my bfp on 20th, and it was very faint, but got 1-2 on cb digital that date.
Sorry for the long post and rambling. I feel so much better for taking a break and not constantly going on google. Sorry for posting on the miscarriage section on my update, but i first posted on here with my doctor saying ive had a mc.
Happy new year ladies! And hope you are all well.
Sorry for my last post again, i really do appreciate the support its fantastic, i just needed a break for myself stressing i know its only been a few days but i feel so much better. And i will be counting down the days now lol!
Hopefully on the 14th january i can post and say my scan went great .. there was a hb, etc etc. Fingers crossed!! Sorry again for rambling xx