Closed - old IVF thread

[greekgirl84]

I wee'd at half 4 will that affect me testing at 7:15 when hubby wakes up ??? 6 minutes time

 

[mishi]

Oh hon, wake him up the suspense is killing me!!!xxxx

 

[blondy13]

Any news gg? Fingers crossed xxx

 

[greekgirl84]

Bfn ! So upset

 

[mishi]

Oh honey
I'm sorry it wasn't good news this morning.xxx

 

[LouiseB]

I'm really sorry Greek

Maybe stay at home today and have a good sob and a rest

 

[greekgirl84]

Wish that was possible I'm
Gutted. After when I wiped there was clots. I have 2 frozen ones. If this embryo was so perfect why didn't my body accept it.

 

[Jennymarie]

GreekGirl I'm so sorry. I think Lou is right, if u can stay home. Can u call in sick to work? xxx

 

[LouiseB]

Greek, sometimes the uterus isn't ready for implantation right after all the drugs and those women tend to have success with FET. Plus if those embryos survive the thaw then they already showing themselves to be tough ones, so try not to forget that those 2 frosties are still waiting for you xx

 

[hayes]

Im so sorry hun.

Michelle. x

 

[Gizzy Kelly]

Sorry hon that is such a dissapointing result for you.

What Lou said is totally right though. It was in the guardian as well this week. Have a google when you feel ready.

I really am sorry though hon. Big big hugs

Gizzy xxxx

 

[Kay Kay]

So sorry greek girl. Take the time you need to sob and let it out. You still have 2 frosties what Lou says is right. I read that online this week too, there seems to be a high success rate with.frosties. hugs xxxx

 

[JJ Mum]

Oh Greek I am so sorry , hope you didn't go to work, its a day for loafing , and ligitamate moaping and chocolate TLC, don't put it off, your'll only have to do it soon otherwise, I couldnt have coped in work on the day..

They really are right about the sucess with Frosties, well thats what I'm hanging on too, I don't think my body suits implantation right after all those horrible drugs, sure it messes things up and confuses it. But the controlled stats say its true , so we have got to believe it , you have the lifeline of the two embies now , it's so so not over X

 

[ScotchEgg]

Big hugs hon. I know just what you mean about how a perfect embryo can go in and come to nothing. It still makes no sense to me.

Look after yourself.

The best advice I was given is to allow yourself to grieve. In ivf you know there's an embryo so you're grieving for the child you could have had not just a frozen cycle. It's so different to a natural cycle. Give yourself permission to grieve and don't berate yourself if it's hard

We're all here hon

 

[Bellarina]

Bellarina - Hello and welcome to this thread - sorry that your here (if you know what I mean), but at least you won't waste another 6 mths on clomid if it's not doing anything for you, 5/6 mths really will go fast.
I would cut back and try to save every penny from now like your having to pay for your cycle and then if you don't get many go's in your area , your ready, or if you get one go and need another, you have used your wait to get an advantage.. (which will also leave you feeling like your in control, doing something towards ttc still and not in limbo. With only min 3 mths between failed cycles , that's not enougth to try to find the cash, but if you start now, your be ahead of the game, or when you get your bfp first time round like Rea, yourll have all the baby money you will need....win win..

hey hun thank you for the message, i really hope the time does go quickly, im going to continue with the clomid until my consultation as if nothing else its shortned my cycles significantly. just dont really know wot to expect tbh.
yes im using this time now to save money (incase we need to do private rounds) and im also making a conscious effort to eat healthier and exercise more so that when it does all start my body is ready.
xxx

Bellarina - I'm sorry that they have abandoned your clomid cycle, but if it's not working then it's not working

Try not to read too much into it, I'm sure IVF will sort you out, and 5-6 months might sound and feel like a lot but it will pass and there are things that you can be doing like making sure you have all the requirements met xx

yeh the first 2 rounds dont seem to have worked hun (but that happened with Nicky and she got her bfp on 3rd round so im not ruling the clomid out just yet)....what sort of requirements do you mean hun? sorry this is all very new to me xxx

just wanted to say to greekgirl im so sorry you didnt get the result you wanted hun (*cwtches*) xxx

 

[Tinkerbell3]

Big hugs greekgirl xx

 

[greekgirl84]

Thanks scotch. I feel heartbroken and I feel I am grieving for a lost bby. I saw it put in . I knew it was perfect! How can perfect still not be enough.

 

[LouiseB]

 

[skeando]

Awww so sorry to read this greekgirl.

I guess you need to take a wee time out, and you and your OH spend some chilled out time together, and when your ready look forward to your icicle embies.

 

[LouiseB]

Bellarina - I meant the tests for STIs, rubella, HIV/Hep, healthy BMI, etc Some you'll probably have had already, but any that you haven't will delay you starting treatment xx