Aside from the obvious risks and issues with a section, out of 4 babies , I had 2 of them go to special care after sections (elective sections too, not as you say more risky emergency ones). Both babies had wet lungs, one went straight from theatre and had an infection and stayed in hospital for 2 weeks, (I only got my first hold/cuddle on day 3 , for 30 seconds, and I was chucked out as fit and well and had to go home without baby - awful feeling and I did find I had much slower bonding). The other had no suck reflex and basically I tried and failed to feed them myself with breastfeeding, so I had to tube feed instead. It's much harder to get breastfeeding established although it can be done. And all caused by a elective section. At least with an emergency section baby would have decided to arrive themselves, which surely is what you want anyway, by avoiding induction?
I have a numb stomach, which is nice.... but you get used to it. I also have part of my left thigh that is numb on the outside, luckily my left groin area did recover and feeling returned after 1 year post section. Also sorry for TMI, but my the top half of my lady garden has never grown back in the same way and even when looking tidy, I have a two tier effect that is just plain odd!! Oh and a 8 inch scar...
Sorry to be a little blunt, and I know it's your choice and you have your reasons and your trying to work it all out and think it through, but it's really something , I would never opt for, I would love to bend, stand , walk and live normally after birth.. I actually still feel a little robbed of my chance to do this.