So iv said its to only be me n hubby in deelivery room and I kinda expected to have the hospital (unless extended stay) and the first day at home just the three of us. Mil has said she is rushing down dropping everything as soon as she hears the news I'm in labour... Its a 2-3hr drive for our familys so she wud potentially be in hospital or at ours when we got home she has a key.... My parents have said they will come when we tell them we are up to visitors which I'm guessing will be day 2/3ish for immediate family? It's less far for his aunt n uncle who are half hr away but think they would prob give us a few days first. I just don't want tovbe mean but I didn't expect family at hospital or at home in first 24hrs as I think il want to rest and spend time just us three?! Am I unreasonable iv asked friends and many of them say their family's came to hospital. I imagine my brother's would wait a few days tho I dunno my older brother is impulsive and may just come straight away ?! It's the first grand child for both sets of parents too I think as its such a long journey for them the problem for me is saying you can only pop by for x amount of time if they lived closer I'd worry less as could say its fine to come but just for an hr Iykwim?