A few weeks ago my Dad confirmed him, his wife and my baby brother would be coming down for a week on the 19th of august which is great I have only seen my brother once since he was born and miss my Dad loads cant wait to see them all they're not staying with me and will be 36 weeks then and only just starting my maternity leave so is good timing not too near due date but gives me something to do on maternity. Then my sister said she wants to come to stay with me with my nephew who will be 1 in October, I miss them both loads and am so excited to see them so thats also great shes coming last weekend of august so will be 38 weeks pregnant and could technically go into labour whilst shes here which would be abit of a nightmare in alot of ways but not the end of the world I actually think it would be a nice distraction in the early stages when Im at home to have her and my nephew to distract me from the pain but I think baby will be late not early anyway.
What does start to be a worry is my friend also wants to come down not staying with me but in a b&b coming on the 2nd or 3rd sept til 5th/6th Im due on the 12th and I really really dont want to go into labour whilst shes here I love her dearly and shes my best friend has been for years so feel bad saying this but I just couldn't cope with her whilst I was in labour she doesn't mean to be but she can be quite pushy and take over things her way is always the right way and I think she would expect to come to hospital with us too when I just want it to be me and DH I'd also feel bad then that she was stuck in b&b with no transport and if baby came when she was here I think she'd be tempted to stay longer and DH is adament whilst hes on his two weeks paternity leave he wants it to just be me him and baby so we can get to know each other as a family and make the most of it etc which I totally agree with! I think the likelyhood is I wont go early and then it will be nice to have all these visitors to stop me from being sat at home borred and frustrated for my maternity leave but I also find having people visiting quite tiring especially my friend cause shes alergic to my dog and its a nightmare trying to keep him away from her and keep the house hoovered loads to try and keep dog hairs to a minimum, but I haven't seen her for months it would be great to see her and she's having problems and needs to get away from home and to talk to me so I can't ask her not to come and with everyone else visiting I can't even ask her to come earlier. I just hope baby is on time that way all visits will be out the way and I will get a week to relax by myself and get ready before baby makes her entrance!
Sorry for long post that doesn't really have much point just wanted to write down my worries makes me feel beter lol, does anyone else not live near family and suddenly become popular nearer their due date? Funny how no ones visited before really durring this pregnancy
What does start to be a worry is my friend also wants to come down not staying with me but in a b&b coming on the 2nd or 3rd sept til 5th/6th Im due on the 12th and I really really dont want to go into labour whilst shes here I love her dearly and shes my best friend has been for years so feel bad saying this but I just couldn't cope with her whilst I was in labour she doesn't mean to be but she can be quite pushy and take over things her way is always the right way and I think she would expect to come to hospital with us too when I just want it to be me and DH I'd also feel bad then that she was stuck in b&b with no transport and if baby came when she was here I think she'd be tempted to stay longer and DH is adament whilst hes on his two weeks paternity leave he wants it to just be me him and baby so we can get to know each other as a family and make the most of it etc which I totally agree with! I think the likelyhood is I wont go early and then it will be nice to have all these visitors to stop me from being sat at home borred and frustrated for my maternity leave but I also find having people visiting quite tiring especially my friend cause shes alergic to my dog and its a nightmare trying to keep him away from her and keep the house hoovered loads to try and keep dog hairs to a minimum, but I haven't seen her for months it would be great to see her and she's having problems and needs to get away from home and to talk to me so I can't ask her not to come and with everyone else visiting I can't even ask her to come earlier. I just hope baby is on time that way all visits will be out the way and I will get a week to relax by myself and get ready before baby makes her entrance!
Sorry for long post that doesn't really have much point just wanted to write down my worries makes me feel beter lol, does anyone else not live near family and suddenly become popular nearer their due date? Funny how no ones visited before really durring this pregnancy
(My Mum stayed last weekend, I popped out to work and by the time I'd come back she cleaned the kitchen, bathroom and done the washing up!)
