Ttc shit boat - long term ttcers

[Andreax2]

Staces what news ?????
Sugar I'm putting u on a testing ban !! Deck scrubbing if u test again b4 10 dpo ! Thems the rules !!

 

[Andreax2]

Hi all
Stace how did the doctors go? I also went to the doctors today and have been put on norethisterone again to induce a bleed following my mc. Then I can get another lot of bloods done, I've not had the results from my last 4 blood tests yet and the first two were done in November then the second set were done in March.

Aww hun , not often I wish the witch on people , but I hope ur cycle gets back 2 normal soon , good luck with the bloods xx


I really need 2 learn how 2 multi quote !

 

[Sugarpop]

Staces what news ?????
Sugar I'm putting u on a testing ban !! Deck scrubbing if u test again b4 10 dpo ! Thems the rules !!

Haha thanks! I woke up poorly today. Think I've got a bug from kids at work so testing is the last thing on my mind! I don't feel like I have a temperature but my BBT shot up today. Is this cause I'm under the weather?

 

[lisey]

Stace, how did you go at the doctors?

Andrea, I only like willies for the 5 days leading up to ov and then I prefer to drink tea, eat biscuits and watch tv...so rock n roll

Sorry the witch turned up for some of the ttc shipmates, enjoy the drinks but don't fall overboard. You just have an extra month to soak up the sun as we sail the sea and then you will all be getting the lifeboat off of this ship to make your way to the baby train xx

Purple, come and join us lovely, welcome aboard xx

 

[Andreax2]

Staces???? Man overboard !!!!!!

 

[PurpleCloud]

I am TTC but isn't this thread for those of you that have been aboard for a year or over? I'm only 8 months
Ur welcome in here with us lovely it's been a long 8 months !! Plus u really had a shit time of it last cycle xx welcome aboard !! Hopefully u won't b in with us much longer anyway xx

Thank you. I'm hoping 3 miscarriages is as many as I'm going to have. According to my cb opks I'm at peak fertility today so it's operation drag OH off deck to a cabin today!! I didn't realise I ovulated so late, I'm cd20, maybe it's because of the miscarriage? Hiss everyone else doing? Xx

 

[Clementine]

Hi Purplecloud hope you catch an egg

I think my AF is due on Wednesday, which would make today is CD11, I bought a FRER to test tomorrow there was 2 in the packet - so of course I left the engine room unattended and went to pee on a stick this afternoon! And yes you guessed it's a bfn no matter how many times I check it there is only one pink line. Though I've just realised that if I stare at the control line long enough I can make a 2nd line appear - the power of wishful thinking.
So I think I'll be joining Hopeful & Staces in the cocktail bar so we can come up with a checklist for next month & drown my sorrows in Vodka and Cranberry

We will get of this boat eventually even if I have to start rowing to shore!

 

[stacesl3]

Hey ladies

Sorry first chance i have had to get on other than a sneaky peak earlier! Well to update AF came yesterday, was light at first and came in full force today.....I knew this wasn't my month from the start due to getting sore boobs from OV and they didn't let up, not a good sign for me.

Well I went to the doctor's yesterday, was so anxious!! I haven't seen this gp before and afterwards wished I had just waited for my own doc! She had no warmth or empathy at all, She made me feel like some sort of geriatric spinster!! She told me I wouldn't get further help from the nhs due to my age.....which i knew and wasn't what i was asking for. I asked about going for the 3 day and 21 day bloods so she has referred me....although i get the feeling she thought it was a waste of time. She pointed out i need to be proactive (cause im obviously just sat round waiting for immaculate conception!) and suggested IUI as its not that expensive! We talked a bit about my MC, I almost felt like she was blaming that on my age too, it was all so damn negative and matter of fact! All she was short of saying was why are you bothering?? I mean maybe that's just her way, I'm not saying she was nasty but a little bit of empathy would have gone a long way. I'm the sort of person who HATES asking for help, I also hate discussing my personal life, it took a lot for me for to go there and do that and the experience has just proved to me why I dont bother with doctors! I walked out of that surgery feeling so disheartened and depressed, I had to go to my mums straight after so had to try hold it all in and then when i got home last night i just burst out crying. I feel a little better today and trying to get back more of my positivity, also quite pis&sed she made me feel like that, I shant be going back to her ever!!!!!!!!!! If i do i'll be prepared.....

 

[Creature]

Hey all, it sounds like most of you ladies are having a rough time TTC.
We started ttc march-ish last year, though have had a couple of breaks so i dont know if i count as long term ttc.
I dont know if i want to go through all of what you have all had to endure, really. If it doesnt happen on its own, then i dont want to be poked and proded and tested and given meds. I find it hard enough as it is just doing it eu natural, let alone all the doctors help.
You are some very strong ladies and i hope you all get what you want in the end, you all deserve it. Baby dust to everyone.. xx

 

[PurpleCloud]

Sounds like a shitty experience Stace. Even if it was her way to be like that she should show empathy or in the very least give you the support you're asking for. They are meant to help with something that isn't easy to begin with. Not make you feel worse. Hope you're ok. Xx

 

[Clementine]

Hey ladies

Sorry first chance i have had to get on other than a sneaky peak earlier! Well to update AF came yesterday, was light at first and came in full force today.....I knew this wasn't my month from the start due to getting sore boobs from OV and they didn't let up, not a good sign for me.

Well I went to the doctor's yesterday, was so anxious!! I haven't seen this gp before and afterwards wished I had just waited for my own doc! She had no warmth or empathy at all, She made me feel like some sort of geriatric spinster!! She told me I wouldn't get further help from the nhs due to my age.....which i knew and wasn't what i was asking for. I asked about going for the 3 day and 21 day bloods so she has referred me....although i get the feeling she thought it was a waste of time. She pointed out i need to be proactive (cause im obviously just sat round waiting for immaculate conception!) and suggested IUI as its not that expensive! We talked a bit about my MC, I almost felt like she was blaming that on my age too, it was all so damn negative and matter of fact! All she was short of saying was why are you bothering?? I mean maybe that's just her way, I'm not saying she was nasty but a little bit of empathy would have gone a long way. I'm the sort of person who HATES asking for help, I also hate discussing my personal life, it took a lot for me for to go there and do that and the experience has just proved to me why I dont bother with doctors! I walked out of that surgery feeling so disheartened and depressed, I had to go to my mums straight after so had to try hold it all in and then when i got home last night i just burst out crying. I feel a little better today and trying to get back more of my positivity, also quite pis&sed she made me feel like that, I shant be going back to her ever!!!!!!!!!! If i do i'll be prepared.....

Staces, I am so annoyed reading your email, she sounds like a total mare, you should have told her to bugger off, she's hasn't got much bedside manner. Your MC was nothing to with age, sadly all ages have MC's. I know of 10 women over 40 who all have had healthy children naturally. You are a positive person - keep believing in your body. Hopefully Mother Nature will bless us LTTTC's with babies. The stats might say we're too old, but the stats don't know our resilience. Write out what she said then roll it up into a ball & dump it and try to forget it. I would tell your usual GP that you thought she was very unprofessional. to you from a fellow 42 year old Louise

 

[Andreax2]

Staces this has pissed me off big time what a total bitch , after u were so worried about going aswell , hope u bump in2 her this time next year when ur babies going in 4 it's jabs and give her the dirtiest look ever what a cow !think we should start a " made 2 walk the plank and feed 2 the sharks list"
1.staces crap doctor !
Sorry af came 2 hugs lovely x

 

[Andreax2]

Hey all, it sounds like most of you ladies are having a rough time TTC.
We started ttc march-ish last year, though have had a couple of breaks so i dont know if i count as long term ttc.
I dont know if i want to go through all of what you have all had to endure, really. If it doesnt happen on its own, then i dont want to be poked and proded and tested and given meds. I find it hard enough as it is just doing it eu natural, let alone all the doctors help.
You are some very strong ladies and i hope you all get what you want in the end, you all deserve it. Baby dust to everyone.. xx

Hey! Hopefully u won't need poking and prodded and u get ur bfp soon ! Thanks 4 the baby dust xx

 

[Andreax2]

Clem it looks like nefeeney needs a life boat outta here !! She's just going a digi !!

 

[Andreax2]

Started testing bad girl 10 dpo 2day and I got all excited but turned out 2 b a crappy wonky evap !
The joys of ic can't even get a straight line evap !

 

[lisey]

Stace, sorry AF arrived and that doctor sounds utterly rubbish, it doesn't take much just to have a little compassion for another person going through a tough time xx

Andrea, I just saw your thread with the IC, when are you testing again? Do you have any symptoms.

I am 3dpo, my ticker is wrong, must change it. I feel nothing at all apart from a headache but that's cos of the weather and cos I feel a bit emotional, its my sons last week at his school ready for his new school in September, I am feeling so nervous and I know there will be lots of tears (from me lol) so I think its giving me headache. I usually have sore boobs from ov but nothing unless I press them really hard but that could be the acupuncture as its supposed to make ovulation more smooth, no pain, sore bbs etc xx

 

[Andreax2]

Lissy I'm in same boat at the mo ,my daughter last week 2 and on Friday the did there last play 4 the parents wizard of oz , well as soon as they started signing somewhere over the rainbow I was gone cried my eyes out shoulder shakes the works !
Made such a show of myself the head came up after and ask me if I was all right !! Dreading leavers assembly on wends !
Make me want 2 bawl my eyes out just thinking about it , iv made some of my best friends there aswell and although I will still c them it won't b the same as having a gossip in school playground everyday ! had crap headache the last 2 days just feel really drained from it ! Why r we so bad ? I'm a cryer anyway but this feels really traumatic !

 

[Clementine]

Yippee great news for nfeeney the first lifeboat is being launched

.... Drum roll ....

 

[Andreax2]

Lol Clem !!! I want 1 !!! X

 

[Clementine]

Lol Clem !!! I want 1 !!! X

Hi Andreax, I have one ready to launch for you, FX you get a BFP this week.

I think I can count myself out, I think I'm 12DPO today, I tested with a FRER this morning and it was a big fat negative !! I'm not as depressed about it this month as I don't think we dtd on the right days. My hubby cheered me up yesterday he teaches people to ride motorbikes and yesterday he took me out on a Moped for the first time it was scary to begin with but then it was great fun, I got a great buzz so feeling good today