I hope you get a BFP soon!
It seems that when you have to try, it is appreciated more, whereas I think when someone falls pregnant straight away or unexpectedly its hard for them to appreciate the stress that other people go through... one of them things I suppose.
We will all get our BFP one day, its just a waiting game, I believe that things will happen a they are meant to, and if i relax then I more likely to conceive.
Although I must say that I have read that some people keep their legs in the air or on a pillow after BBD, I just have to have a shower! I hope this doesn't limit my chances, if it does I will force myself to tolerate not showering straight after ha xxx