***September 2018 Testing Thread***

[baby.3]

BFN on One Step, think I'm out, but will use FRER in morning to confirm x

Awww I'm sorry Emma. Hope it was just a crappy one step. They've never worked for me. Still hoping for you x

Thank you Smithy, I hope it's just a crap test, but I did get line on one at 10DPO when I conceived my daughter. I'm the same today, 10DPO.

I will be so gutted and annoyed with my body for giving me strong signs with bleed and same CM I got when I conceived my daughter if AF arrives. I handled it much better than I expected last cycle, but I think this time it will really affect me

X

Emma I got a faint positive on a one step at 9dpo with my son. This time I didn't get a clear faint positive this time til 13-14dpo.

Your still in with a very good chance! Good luck for tomorrow

Xxx

Sent from my SM-G960F using Tapatalk

 

[baby.3]

Thanks all you have made me feel a lot better and sorry if I moaned a bit. I am very sensitive lately so that probably doesn't help! Also a bit nervous after the sepsis I got from the last mc, get a bit panicked at the thought of a bfp. Keep thinking what if something bad happens again because let's face it what were the chances of that happening to me? Dont even know if that is normal or not. I will try and post more though. I work long hours so only really catch up early mornings or late at night. A massive good luck to all those testing next couple of days. Hope this is it for you! Sending lots of dust.
I forget how many dpo I am (can you believe?) But I know I can test in a week. Hating this 2WW it seems like a lifetime. Symptom spotting has begun with loads of cramping and bloating going on and had insomnia last night which I haven't had in a really long time.

I think considering what you've been through it's understandable that you'd be worried and nervous. I think I would be too.

Lol I'm genuinely shocked that your don't know how many dpo you are, I wish I could be so relaxed about it! Well, in terms of not checking dates etc.

Wishing you bags of luck for next week xxx

Sent from my SM-G960F using Tapatalk

 

[EmmaN27]

BFN on One Step, think I'm out, but will use FRER in morning to confirm x

Awww I'm sorry Emma. Hope it was just a crappy one step. They've never worked for me. Still hoping for you x

Thank you Smithy, I hope it's just a crap test, but I did get line on one at 10DPO when I conceived my daughter. I'm the same today, 10DPO.

I will be so gutted and annoyed with my body for giving me strong signs with bleed and same CM I got when I conceived my daughter if AF arrives. I handled it much better than I expected last cycle, but I think this time it will really affect me

X

Emma I got a faint positive on a one step at 9dpo with my son. This time I didn't get a clear faint positive this time til 13-14dpo.

Your still in with a very good chance! Good luck for tomorrow

Xxx

Sent from my SM-G960F using Tapatalk

Thanks Emma, I haven't lost all hope yet, if FRER is BFN then I will know for sure I'm out x

 

[Hlouisebaby3]

Smithy, so sorry to hear what an awful time you’ve had of it so far. It would have made you stronger than you realise and hopefully your body has settled down and you will have a happy healthy 9 months of pregnancy! Xx

Emma... I’m gutted for you but 100% not out!! It’s still very early and I can’t stress enough that I didn’t get my bfp til 16dpo!! I just hope tomorrow brings a beautiful line for you

 

[Sunmoonstars]

I wasn't having a go at anyone at all. Perhaps it came across badly. My feelings are that there is a strong friendship group and bond here but I don't feel part of that and sometimes (not always!) get ignored because of it and I have noticed it happen to others. It's only because I obviously haven't known you as long, posted as much and a variety of other reasons. If I was lucky enough to get pregnant, which may not happen at all, I wouldn't want that feeling follow into another thread. I probably would stop posting.
That being said, everyone IS lovely and I never said otherwise and I do wish everyone the best of luck. It doesn't help that I am testing very late in the month with two mcs and no children. All those things have a tendency to have me feel left out as it is. So I'm sorry if my comments offended but it is just how I have felt xx

Only just seen your comment!
Your not alone in feeling like this hun. Your story is heartbreaking and being ignored whether it be accidental (which is more than likely the case because of the close friendship group with some people which is lovely but clearly evident) can make the best of people feel even more lonely. Well done for speaking out and hopefully we can all better support each other and try to keep everyone included in the comments.
We really are all in this together and If this process was going to be an easy ride, this forum probably wouldn't be here! Let's face it we would all be too busy shouting about our pregnancy and being those 'annoying insensitive' people that we all moan about or have experienced lol.
For me its soooo emotionally exhausting and I've not experienced the immense ups and downs that you have so cannot begin to imagine how it is YOU feel. So take care of yourself and I'm always here to chat xx

 

[Sunmoonstars]

P.s I'm not very active as a person on here so unless you Pm me, I'm more of a dip in and dip out type of lass on these types of feeds! Xx

 

[chattychar1990]

Only just seen your comment!
Your not alone in feeling like this hun. Your story is heartbreaking and being ignored whether it be accidental (which is more than likely the case because of the close friendship group with some people which is lovely but clearly evident) can make the best of people feel even more lonely. Well done for speaking out and hopefully we can all better support each other and try to keep everyone included in the comments.
We really are all in this together and If this process was going to be an easy ride, this forum probably wouldn't be here! Let's face it we would all be too busy shouting about our pregnancy and being those 'annoying insensitive' people that we all moan about or have experienced lol.
For me its soooo emotionally exhausting and I've not experienced the immense ups and downs that you have so cannot begin to imagine how it is YOU feel. So take care of yourself and I'm always here to chat xx

This has been blown massively out of proportion! Smithy was not ignored by nobody! As a number of us have said the traffic on this thread is ridiculous we go through pages a day so it’s more than easy for a post to get missed. There’s been a few times I haven’t been answered to. It’s no big deal and we all support each other in what we are all going through.
I feel like this thread is being ruined with some negative comments by people that are just dipping in and actually not a ‘September’ Tester. Your message to smithy is lovely don’t get me wrong but we are being made to look like bad people because some of us have a close friendship.
Now can we all move on from this and get this thread back to the lovely supportive thread it was when we started.

 

[Hlouisebaby3]

Well said char

 

[EmmaN27]

Yep well said Char, people don't get ignored on purpose, especially those actively participating in conversations. Not sure how a dip in dip out person can make these comments! x

 

[Crumble]

I just want to add something because this is getting ridiculous tbh, if you write just once in the thread we don't know you are here because that comment maybe will be skipped in the millions that are write down here every day....and if you try to write and support the others will be natural to be included in the conversation, isn't just a one way conversation with a one comment every month. It is a "share -support" situation, if you don't say anythinghing you are invisible. So let's not be drama queens and let's support each other that is already an emotional rollercoaster and there is not need to be against nobody.
Here everybody is welcome

 

[Piglet30]

Ok ok......moving on from the drama now.

Anyone else testing today? Fingers crossed for you Emma. If is is a bfn today don’t be too down, CD1 is always the worst.

 

[Hlouisebaby3]

I think we can safely say most of us are on the same page! Fabulous....

Emma... let’s see that frer!!!

 

[Hendy1]

Got everything crossed for you this morning Emma!

 

[chattychar1990]

Fx for you Emma xxx

 

[Crumble]

Come on Emma!!!! We want to know

 

[EmmaN27]

Thanks ladies but it was a BFN. 11DPO today, so safe to say I'm out as AF usually arrives at 12DPO. Gutted. x

 

[chattychar1990]

Oh darling I am so so so gutted for you!
I really do hope AF stays away xx

 

[SmithyBaby]

So sorry Emma, was really hoping it was your cycle xx

 

[Crumble]

Thanks ladies but it was a BFN. 11DPO today, so safe to say I'm out as AF usually arrives at 12DPO. Gutted. x

Can I say that I see something....I feel cruel because I don't want put your hope on as well because on pictures is so difficult, but I can see a very very faint line.....and 11DPO is very early, when I got my BFP in August it was showing up on 12 DPO.....please don't be upset, but I see something there.....maybe is the picture

 

[EmmaN27]

Thanks ladies but it was a BFN. 11DPO today, so safe to say I'm out as AF usually arrives at 12DPO. Gutted. x

Can I say that I see something....I feel cruel because I don't want put your hope on as well because on pictures is so difficult, but I can see a very very faint line.....and 11DPO is very early, when I got my BFP in August it was showing up on 12 DPO.....please don't be upset, but I see something there.....maybe is the picture

Oh Crumble what are you doing to me! To be fair I originally thought I could see a shadow but it looks like it's an indent, no colour to it. X