**** October Testing Thread****

[KatD]

So..when we weren't TTC my charts lined up beautifully, but now that we are TTC it's just not syncing. This is the second time now, that my charts (FF and Ovagraph) aren't agreeing on the O date. I tend to side with FF on this one, I just don't understand how Ovagraph based my O date on CD17. What do you guys think?





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[LuckyLaura]

Hi. Can I please have the 3rd. I'm not entirely sure where I am this month but 3rd sounds bout right.
Good luck everyone xx

Of course hehe if u need to change it just let me know xx

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[LuckyLaura]

So..when we weren't TTC my charts lined up beautifully, but now that we are TTC it's just not syncing. This is the second time now, that my charts (FF and Ovagraph) aren't agreeing on the O date. I tend to side with FF on this one, I just don't understand how Ovagraph based my O date on CD17. What do you guys think?

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I just wanted to send a virtual hug cuz tbh I'm terrible at charting since I never got into it due to a rubbish basal thermometer that I don't trust haha xx

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[KatD]

This is such a rubbish cycle

 

[MrsLK2017]

I feel so deflated. I test early and get a bfn then I convince myself it was just too early so get my hopes up again. Tested again today*DPO12, still bfn although I think I can see a faint line, pretty sure it's a evap*line but there's always part of me that still holds on to tiny bit of hope. Have bought diff tests to try, don't think I'm pregnant though just me tormenting myself!
AF is due on weds.
I really thought i'd get pregnant this month, says online you are more fertile for next 3 months after miscarriage and everyone else*seems to get pregnant again nearly straight away *
Trying to look on the positive side
Have also now had some brown stuff again, never normally get this before AF. Just wish things would go back to normal
Doesn't help everywhere I look there is babies or pregnant ladies

 

[LuckyLaura]

I feel so deflated. I test early and get a bfn then I convince myself it was just too early so get my hopes up again. Tested again today*DPO12, still bfn although I think I can see a faint line, pretty sure it's a evap*line but there's always part of me that still holds on to tiny bit of hope. Have bought diff tests to try, don't think I'm pregnant though just me tormenting myself!
AF is due on weds.
I really thought i'd get pregnant this month, says online you are more fertile for next 3 months after miscarriage and everyone else*seems to get pregnant again nearly straight away *
Trying to look on the positive side
Have also now had some brown stuff again, never normally get this before AF. Just wish things would go back to normal
Doesn't help everywhere I look there is babies or pregnant ladies

I'm sorry. It's so horrible and I know that the waiting is killer. It's human nature to have a little bit of hope or we'd all give up on the will to live but I know that doesn't make it any easier-what I'm trying to say is that u definitely aren't alone xxx

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[KatD]

I feel so deflated. I test early and get a bfn then I convince myself it was just too early so get my hopes up again. Tested again today*DPO12, still bfn although I think I can see a faint line, pretty sure it's a evap*line but there's always part of me that still holds on to tiny bit of hope. Have bought diff tests to try, don't think I'm pregnant though just me tormenting myself!
AF is due on weds.
I really thought i'd get pregnant this month, says online you are more fertile for next 3 months after miscarriage and everyone else*seems to get pregnant again nearly straight away *
Trying to look on the positive side
Have also now had some brown stuff again, never normally get this before AF. Just wish things would go back to normal
Doesn't help everywhere I look there is babies or pregnant ladies

Oh MrsLK I am so sorry, TTC is really tough especially when what you want most seems to be thrown in your face on a constant basis. I am still FX that there is hope this cycle. So sorry hun xxx

 

[rainbow.23]

Yuk, horrible cystitis today at 5dpo so pretty sure this will stop anything sticking.
Such a catch 22 that when I BD alot I get cystitis but of course this is required to conceive. Baaah
Anyone else had this problem?

 

[MrsLK2017]

Really sorry for such a self pity post.
Wish AF would hurry up now, so I can get on with next month, doesn't help that my cycles are normally nearly 5 weeks, feels like ages away til we try again.
Got a banging headache today. Am going to try and concentrate on decorating the house, hard to get motivated though.



FX for the rest of you.

Sorry to hear you're unwell Rainbow, hope it clears up soon.

 

[KatD]

I did have a cyst on one of my ovaries but the doc said it should go away on its own. I don't have any helpful advice or experience but maybe you should see your doctor again, Rainbow? I mean, if this condition will prevent conception it's best to cut to the chase asap?

 

[KatD]

Any update yet on Hopeful1976? See it's her testing day today...

 

[JemRose]

I feel so deflated. I test early and get a bfn then I convince myself it was just too early so get my hopes up again. Tested again today*DPO12, still bfn although I think I can see a faint line, pretty sure it's a evap*line but there's always part of me that still holds on to tiny bit of hope. Have bought diff tests to try, don't think I'm pregnant though just me tormenting myself!
AF is due on weds.
I really thought i'd get pregnant this month, says online you are more fertile for next 3 months after miscarriage and everyone else*seems to get pregnant again nearly straight away *
Trying to look on the positive side
Have also now had some brown stuff again, never normally get this before AF. Just wish things would go back to normal
Doesn't help everywhere I look there is babies or pregnant ladies

I'm with you!! AF due on Weds. Feeling negative after a stupid early BFN test on Saturday. But been having AF-like cramps since Saturday. Fingers crossed for both of us that AF doesn't show on Wednesday!

 

[MrsLK2017]

I feel so deflated. I test early and get a bfn then I convince myself it was just too early so get my hopes up again. Tested again today*DPO12, still bfn although I think I can see a faint line, pretty sure it's a evap*line but there's always part of me that still holds on to tiny bit of hope. Have bought diff tests to try, don't think I'm pregnant though just me tormenting myself!
AF is due on weds.
I really thought i'd get pregnant this month, says online you are more fertile for next 3 months after miscarriage and everyone else*seems to get pregnant again nearly straight away *
Trying to look on the positive side
Have also now had some brown stuff again, never normally get this before AF. Just wish things would go back to normal
Doesn't help everywhere I look there is babies or pregnant ladies

I'm with you!! AF due on Weds. Feeling negative after a stupid early BFN test on Saturday. But been having AF-like cramps since Saturday. Fingers crossed for both of us that AF doesn't show on Wednesday!

Ditto, I've also been having tummy pains since Saturday.
Want to know either way now, FX for you, think i'm out this month

 

[hopeful1976]

Well ladies, tested today with FRER and 2 cheapies and it's the Biggest the Fattest Negative in history ! Not a hint of a line. I am about 11-12 dpo actually and I am gutted as having being pregnant 4 times before ( 2 times resulted in babies and 2 miscarriages ) I know that with the way my body works , from 10 dpo I start having quite visible lines when pregnant... sorry girls, I really wanted to give our testing thread a positive start for everybody but I failed. .. gutted gutted gutted.. hopefully you guys will cheer me up by lots of bfp's later on this month. Good luck everyone!! I will be keeping all my fingers and toes and everything crossed for all of you my lovely ladies !!! And to the witch - just hurry up and get here now so that I can start building my hopes up for next month.....
P.S. sad.......

 

[LuckyLaura]

Well ladies, tested today with FRER and 2 cheapies and it's the Biggest the Fattest Negative in history ! Not a hint of a line. I am about 11-12 dpo actually and I am gutted as having being pregnant 4 times before ( 2 times resulted in babies and 2 miscarriages ) I know that with the way my body works , from 10 dpo I start having quite visible lines when pregnant... sorry girls, I really wanted to give our testing thread a positive start for everybody but I failed. .. gutted gutted gutted.. hopefully you guys will cheer me up by lots of bfp's later on this month. Good luck everyone!! I will be keeping all my fingers and toes and everything crossed for all of you my lovely ladies !!! And to the witch - just hurry up and get here now so that I can start building my hopes up for next month.....
P.S. sad.......

Hugssss. I'm really sorry! Don't even think about failing to give a positive start, don't worry about that at all. Hope u are feeling okay and pampering yourself. You deserve it xx

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[LuckyLaura]

Well ladies, tested today with FRER and 2 cheapies and it's the Biggest the Fattest Negative in history ! Not a hint of a line. I am about 11-12 dpo actually and I am gutted as having being pregnant 4 times before ( 2 times resulted in babies and 2 miscarriages ) I know that with the way my body works , from 10 dpo I start having quite visible lines when pregnant... sorry girls, I really wanted to give our testing thread a positive start for everybody but I failed. .. gutted gutted gutted.. hopefully you guys will cheer me up by lots of bfp's later on this month. Good luck everyone!! I will be keeping all my fingers and toes and everything crossed for all of you my lovely ladies !!! And to the witch - just hurry up and get here now so that I can start building my hopes up for next month.....
P.S. sad.......

Also you're not out til the witch shows, I've heard of people not getting the bfp til like 20dpo xx

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[treetrunks]

Yuk, horrible cystitis today at 5dpo so pretty sure this will stop anything sticking.
Such a catch 22 that when I BD alot I get cystitis but of course this is required to conceive. Baaah
Anyone else had this problem?

Yes I get it alot, doesn't last longer than a day but its honeymoon cystitis, have to drink cranberry juice and avoid anything perfumed in the bath or shower. Think its irritation and inflammation of the urinary tract that's from too much sex.
Really annoying but paracetamol helps. Don't think it should affect chances of conceiving though.
Good luck. Im just on the couple of days before ovulation but recently we've been having spooning quickies in the morning before we get up for work as oh working till late and I cba.
At the moment im just preferring this way and apparently I read that the sperm is best at this time early morning....but then I've read alot of things lol! Xxx

 

[hopeful1976]

Thank you LuckyLaura you are lovely !!! Just feeling down because I know how bloody long it took us to conceive our 2nd , it was a real struggle, so I know we are in for a painful ride again.. plus this time I am 40 ... still hoping for a miracle though... lots and lots of baby dust to you Xxxxx

 

[LuckyLaura]

Thank you LuckyLaura you are lovely !!! Just feeling down because I know how bloody long it took us to conceive our 2nd , it was a real struggle, so I know we are in for a painful ride again.. plus this time I am 40 ... still hoping for a miracle though... lots and lots of baby dust to you Xxxxx

I'm a brat really hahaha jkjk I know you are going to get there, we all will get there one way or another I know it xxx

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[KatD]

Well ladies, tested today with FRER and 2 cheapies and it's the Biggest the Fattest Negative in history ! Not a hint of a line. I am about 11-12 dpo actually and I am gutted as having being pregnant 4 times before ( 2 times resulted in babies and 2 miscarriages ) I know that with the way my body works , from 10 dpo I start having quite visible lines when pregnant... sorry girls, I really wanted to give our testing thread a positive start for everybody but I failed. .. gutted gutted gutted.. hopefully you guys will cheer me up by lots of bfp's later on this month. Good luck everyone!! I will be keeping all my fingers and toes and everything crossed for all of you my lovely ladies !!! And to the witch - just hurry up and get here now so that I can start building my hopes up for next month.....
P.S. sad.......

you didn't fail at anything. I am so sorry that this wasn't your cycle, but I'm keeping my FX that your BFP is just around the corner!