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**** October Testing Thread****

I've not stopped crying!! I thought this would never happen. No need to wait for semen analysis results now!

How long have you been trying? I feel like it won't ever happen for us...on to month 11. It must feel amazing ! So happy for you xx

I just don't get what we are doing wrong. Dreading this hsg test. It's just not looking good for us. I am constantly seeing ppl join in the ttc chat and get their bfp but I am always out.

Happy and healthy 9 months to you JemRose ! Xx

:hugs: we WILL both get there Alexis! Each fertility test brings you a step closer to getting your BFP! I can't wait for my first appointment letter to arrive :) I'm feeling much more relaxed now! We were going to do SMEP and start our new vitamins together this month but I have decided to just see how things roll! We are going to start our vitamins once they arrive and continue to dtd but just when the mood takes us and no more opks! I don't see us getting a natural BFP anymore so why should I stress myself out so much every month! I have a strong positive feeling that our assisted coception journey will end in our BFP! Anyway who knows we may get a miracle BFP before that lol

I have the worst af symptoms this cycle. The boob pain woke me up this morning and hasn't stopped. I feel so queasy I can't eat. I am just 100% fed up. I am awaiting the hsg scan next. You sound so positive. I was feeling so positive until af showed up with avengence. Not had af this heavy for months. How long have you been trying now pidge? I feel like I want to agree and say I doubt we will get a natural bfp now but I don't want to give in just yet when we have had great test results...nothing makes sence to me anymore

We've been trying since the day we got married basically, so it's been two years and three months now :( I do think you've been having chemicals like the other girls have been saying Alexis! Do you ever poas early and see if you get faint positives? I've ever had a whiff of a BFP unfortunately so I really don't hold much hope anymore for a natural positive! I do have great faith in our assisted conception journey though and I have a very strong feeling that I will have a baby in my arms in the next couple of years! :)

I've also never had a whiff of a positive over a similar period of time. I never test early though as I just don't see the point. We are going to start the ball rolling for assisted conception again as during that time there have been several issues that have now been resolved so there's always been a good argument to try naturally for a bit longer each time. I hope I can find some of your enthusiasm for that part of the journey as currently I just feel like we're a lost cause. I'm thankful that I'm not really an animal person as I probably would have bought a zoo by now. Though my current weakness seems to be trips away for me and OH. It's good to have something to look forward to.

There are six girls who I know have had difficulty ttc and each one of them has eventually got their baby, so I guess that's why I'm feeling positive right now! I'm sure at times all these girls felt they would never have a child and it has ended well for them all, so I guess I feel like although everything seems so dark now the odds really are in our favour! I'm really only a cat person, I would have loads only OH is there to reign me in lol We have one and he really is my fur baby, I'm glad to have him around I find him so therapeutic! My other weakness is theatre trips for OH and I lol we don't stay over in the city as much now though since it means we can save the money from a hotel fee and use it to buy more tickets lol :)
 
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I never ever thought I would have a baby.. I had a feeling I wouldn't! And I did!
We had lots of trips away when ttc too :) xx
 
I've not stopped crying!! I thought this would never happen. No need to wait for semen analysis results now!

How long have you been trying? I feel like it won't ever happen for us...on to month 11. It must feel amazing ! So happy for you xx

I just don't get what we are doing wrong. Dreading this hsg test. It's just not looking good for us. I am constantly seeing ppl join in the ttc chat and get their bfp but I am always out.

Happy and healthy 9 months to you JemRose ! Xx

:hugs: we WILL both get there Alexis! Each fertility test brings you a step closer to getting your BFP! I can't wait for my first appointment letter to arrive :) I'm feeling much more relaxed now! We were going to do SMEP and start our new vitamins together this month but I have decided to just see how things roll! We are going to start our vitamins once they arrive and continue to dtd but just when the mood takes us and no more opks! I don't see us getting a natural BFP anymore so why should I stress myself out so much every month! I have a strong positive feeling that our assisted coception journey will end in our BFP! Anyway who knows we may get a miracle BFP before that lol

I have the worst af symptoms this cycle. The boob pain woke me up this morning and hasn't stopped. I feel so queasy I can't eat. I am just 100% fed up. I am awaiting the hsg scan next. You sound so positive. I was feeling so positive until af showed up with avengence. Not had af this heavy for months. How long have you been trying now pidge? I feel like I want to agree and say I doubt we will get a natural bfp now but I don't want to give in just yet when we have had great test results...nothing makes sence to me anymore

We've been trying since the day we got married basically, so it's been two years and three months now :( I do think you've been having chemicals like the other girls have been saying Alexis! Do you ever poas early and see if you get faint positives? I've ever had a whiff of a BFP unfortunately so I really don't hold much hope anymore for a natural positive! I do have great faith in our assisted conception journey though and I have a very strong feeling that I will have a baby in my arms in the next couple of years! :)

I've also never had a whiff of a positive over a similar period of time. I never test early though as I just don't see the point. We are going to start the ball rolling for assisted conception again as during that time there have been several issues that have now been resolved so there's always been a good argument to try naturally for a bit longer each time. I hope I can find some of your enthusiasm for that part of the journey as currently I just feel like we're a lost cause. I'm thankful that I'm not really an animal person as I probably would have bought a zoo by now. Though my current weakness seems to be trips away for me and OH. It's good to have something to look forward to.

There are six girls who I know have had difficulty ttc and each one of them has eventually got their baby, so I guess that's why I'm feeling positive right now! I'm sure at times all these girls felt they would never have a child and it has ended well for them all, so I guess I feel like although everything seems so dark now the odds really are in our favour! I'm really only a cat person, I would have loads only OH is there to reign me in lol We have one and he really is my fur baby, I'm glad to have him around I find him so therapeutic! My other weakness is theatre trips for OH and I lol we don't stay over in the city as much now though since it means we can save the money from a hotel fee and use it to buy more tickets lol :)

I don't know many people who have had difficulty but let's face it, people don't talk about it. One story ended well, one didn't. The only other person I knew is going through the same miserable journey at the moment but different reasons to us. So I guess that's why I'm less optimistic. We're also a bit guilty when it comes to theatre tickets. Lots of theatres within easy reach for us so it's a good excuse to get out.
 
I never ever thought I would have a baby.. I had a feeling I wouldn't! And I did!
We had lots of trips away when ttc too :) xx

Thanks millielaura. It's nice to hear of a happy ending especially when all our efforts feel so wasted right now.
 
I've not stopped crying!! I thought this would never happen. No need to wait for semen analysis results now!

How long have you been trying? I feel like it won't ever happen for us...on to month 11. It must feel amazing ! So happy for you xx

I just don't get what we are doing wrong. Dreading this hsg test. It's just not looking good for us. I am constantly seeing ppl join in the ttc chat and get their bfp but I am always out.

Happy and healthy 9 months to you JemRose ! Xx

:hugs: we WILL both get there Alexis! Each fertility test brings you a step closer to getting your BFP! I can't wait for my first appointment letter to arrive :) I'm feeling much more relaxed now! We were going to do SMEP and start our new vitamins together this month but I have decided to just see how things roll! We are going to start our vitamins once they arrive and continue to dtd but just when the mood takes us and no more opks! I don't see us getting a natural BFP anymore so why should I stress myself out so much every month! I have a strong positive feeling that our assisted coception journey will end in our BFP! Anyway who knows we may get a miracle BFP before that lol

I have the worst af symptoms this cycle. The boob pain woke me up this morning and hasn't stopped. I feel so queasy I can't eat. I am just 100% fed up. I am awaiting the hsg scan next. You sound so positive. I was feeling so positive until af showed up with avengence. Not had af this heavy for months. How long have you been trying now pidge? I feel like I want to agree and say I doubt we will get a natural bfp now but I don't want to give in just yet when we have had great test results...nothing makes sence to me anymore

We've been trying since the day we got married basically, so it's been two years and three months now :( I do think you've been having chemicals like the other girls have been saying Alexis! Do you ever poas early and see if you get faint positives? I've ever had a whiff of a BFP unfortunately so I really don't hold much hope anymore for a natural positive! I do have great faith in our assisted conception journey though and I have a very strong feeling that I will have a baby in my arms in the next couple of years! :)

I've also never had a whiff of a positive over a similar period of time. I never test early though as I just don't see the point. We are going to start the ball rolling for assisted conception again as during that time there have been several issues that have now been resolved so there's always been a good argument to try naturally for a bit longer each time. I hope I can find some of your enthusiasm for that part of the journey as currently I just feel like we're a lost cause. I'm thankful that I'm not really an animal person as I probably would have bought a zoo by now. Though my current weakness seems to be trips away for me and OH. It's good to have something to look forward to.

There are six girls who I know have had difficulty ttc and each one of them has eventually got their baby, so I guess that's why I'm feeling positive right now! I'm sure at times all these girls felt they would never have a child and it has ended well for them all, so I guess I feel like although everything seems so dark now the odds really are in our favour! I'm really only a cat person, I would have loads only OH is there to reign me in lol We have one and he really is my fur baby, I'm glad to have him around I find him so therapeutic! My other weakness is theatre trips for OH and I lol we don't stay over in the city as much now though since it means we can save the money from a hotel fee and use it to buy more tickets lol :)

I don't know many people who have had difficulty but let's face it, people don't talk about it. One story ended well, one didn't. The only other person I knew is going through the same miserable journey at the moment but different reasons to us. So I guess that's why I'm less optimistic. We're also a bit guilty when it comes to theatre tickets. Lots of theatres within easy reach for us so it's a good excuse to get out.

Yes you are so right it's such a taboo subject unfortunately :( I haven't told anyone either, not even my mum and I tell her everything :( I only know that these women had difficulty after they had their babies! Maybe it becomes easier to discuss then since it's ended well and you don't have to worry about making people uncomfortable or the pity everyone will look at you with! :(
 
LL...it always ends up being at least 40 minutes of mostly laughing and messing around, lol.
Hahaha I'm so glad other people do that too. We have the weirdest conversations and giggle most of the time haha or discuss the price of each individual fertilegel pod hahaha

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I've not stopped crying!! I thought this would never happen. No need to wait for semen analysis results now!

How long have you been trying? I feel like it won't ever happen for us...on to month 11. It must feel amazing ! So happy for you xx

I just don't get what we are doing wrong. Dreading this hsg test. It's just not looking good for us. I am constantly seeing ppl join in the ttc chat and get their bfp but I am always out.


Happy and healthy 9 months to you JemRose ! Xx

:hugs: we WILL both get there Alexis! Each fertility test brings you a step closer to getting your BFP! I can't wait for my first appointment letter to arrive :) I'm feeling much more relaxed now! We were going to do SMEP and start our new vitamins together this month but I have decided to just see how things roll! We are going to start our vitamins once they arrive and continue to dtd but just when the mood takes us and no more opks! I don't see us getting a natural BFP anymore so why should I stress myself out so much every month! I have a strong positive feeling that our assisted coception journey will end in our BFP! Anyway who knows we may get a miracle BFP before that lol

I have the worst af symptoms this cycle. The boob pain woke me up this morning and hasn't stopped. I feel so queasy I can't eat. I am just 100% fed up. I am awaiting the hsg scan next. You sound so positive. I was feeling so positive until af showed up with avengence. Not had af this heavy for months. How long have you been trying now pidge? I feel like I want to agree and say I doubt we will get a natural bfp now but I don't want to give in just yet when we have had great test results...nothing makes sence to me anymore

We've been trying since the day we got married basically, so it's been two years and three months now :( I do think you've been having chemicals like the other girls have been saying Alexis! Do you ever poas early and see if you get faint positives? I've ever had a whiff of a BFP unfortunately so I really don't hold much hope anymore for a natural positive! I do have great faith in our assisted conception journey though and I have a very strong feeling that I will have a baby in my arms in the next couple of years! :)

I have only did 1 preggo test and was neg then I havent bothered since tbh. My problem is 2 years seems like so long away...I really want a BFP before I turn 35 in August as I feel our chances will be slim from then on in.
 
AF started today. Guess I'm out again. Oh well, onto cycle no 23....

Sorry Sunflower. We seem to have very similar cycles as I was out again this morning. I don't really know how to feel anymore. Just don't really feel anything right now. Guess that's better than spending the day in tears.

Sorry sunflower and moomin ...I guess your joining me in November girls. Really is so crap. I am tryibg the castor oil thing this cycle
 
I've not stopped crying!! I thought this would never happen. No need to wait for semen analysis results now!

How long have you been trying? I feel like it won't ever happen for us...on to month 11. It must feel amazing ! So happy for you xx

I just don't get what we are doing wrong. Dreading this hsg test. It's just not looking good for us. I am constantly seeing ppl join in the ttc chat and get their bfp but I am always out.


Happy and healthy 9 months to you JemRose ! Xx

:hugs: we WILL both get there Alexis! Each fertility test brings you a step closer to getting your BFP! I can't wait for my first appointment letter to arrive :) I'm feeling much more relaxed now! We were going to do SMEP and start our new vitamins together this month but I have decided to just see how things roll! We are going to start our vitamins once they arrive and continue to dtd but just when the mood takes us and no more opks! I don't see us getting a natural BFP anymore so why should I stress myself out so much every month! I have a strong positive feeling that our assisted coception journey will end in our BFP! Anyway who knows we may get a miracle BFP before that lol

I have the worst af symptoms this cycle. The boob pain woke me up this morning and hasn't stopped. I feel so queasy I can't eat. I am just 100% fed up. I am awaiting the hsg scan next. You sound so positive. I was feeling so positive until af showed up with avengence. Not had af this heavy for months. How long have you been trying now pidge? I feel like I want to agree and say I doubt we will get a natural bfp now but I don't want to give in just yet when we have had great test results...nothing makes sence to me anymore

We've been trying since the day we got married basically, so it's been two years and three months now :( I do think you've been having chemicals like the other girls have been saying Alexis! Do you ever poas early and see if you get faint positives? I've ever had a whiff of a BFP unfortunately so I really don't hold much hope anymore for a natural positive! I do have great faith in our assisted conception journey though and I have a very strong feeling that I will have a baby in my arms in the next couple of years! :)

I have only did 1 preggo test and was neg then I havent bothered since tbh. My problem is 2 years seems like so long away...I really want a BFP before I turn 35 in August as I feel our chances will be slim from then on in.

I was 38 when I first saw my mw for the first pregnancy this year, I said I'd heard I was a geriatric mum now and she laughed and told me 38 is now considered young still as so many women nowadays are naturally having babies well into their 40's. I know it's hard for you to believe because every birthday from 30 onwards I felt like my chances of motherhood were slipping away. At 35 I thought that was it and we hadn't even started trying. You honestly do have a lot of time ahead of you xxx
 
I've not stopped crying!! I thought this would never happen. No need to wait for semen analysis results now!

How long have you been trying? I feel like it won't ever happen for us...on to month 11. It must feel amazing ! So happy for you xx

I just don't get what we are doing wrong. Dreading this hsg test. It's just not looking good for us. I am constantly seeing ppl join in the ttc chat and get their bfp but I am always out.

Happy and healthy 9 months to you JemRose ! Xx

:hugs: we WILL both get there Alexis! Each fertility test brings you a step closer to getting your BFP! I can't wait for my first appointment letter to arrive :) I'm feeling much more relaxed now! We were going to do SMEP and start our new vitamins together this month but I have decided to just see how things roll! We are going to start our vitamins once they arrive and continue to dtd but just when the mood takes us and no more opks! I don't see us getting a natural BFP anymore so why should I stress myself out so much every month! I have a strong positive feeling that our assisted coception journey will end in our BFP! Anyway who knows we may get a miracle BFP before that lol

I have the worst af symptoms this cycle. The boob pain woke me up this morning and hasn't stopped. I feel so queasy I can't eat. I am just 100% fed up. I am awaiting the hsg scan next. You sound so positive. I was feeling so positive until af showed up with avengence. Not had af this heavy for months. How long have you been trying now pidge? I feel like I want to agree and say I doubt we will get a natural bfp now but I don't want to give in just yet when we have had great test results...nothing makes sence to me anymore

We've been trying since the day we got married basically, so it's been two years and three months now :( I do think you've been having chemicals like the other girls have been saying Alexis! Do you ever poas early and see if you get faint positives? I've ever had a whiff of a BFP unfortunately so I really don't hold much hope anymore for a natural positive! I do have great faith in our assisted conception journey though and I have a very strong feeling that I will have a baby in my arms in the next couple of years! :)

I've also never had a whiff of a positive over a similar period of time. I never test early though as I just don't see the point. We are going to start the ball rolling for assisted conception again as during that time there have been several issues that have now been resolved so there's always been a good argument to try naturally for a bit longer each time. I hope I can find some of your enthusiasm for that part of the journey as currently I just feel like we're a lost cause. I'm thankful that I'm not really an animal person as I probably would have bought a zoo by now. Though my current weakness seems to be trips away for me and OH. It's good to have something to look forward to.

There are six girls who I know have had difficulty ttc and each one of them has eventually got their baby, so I guess that's why I'm feeling positive right now! I'm sure at times all these girls felt they would never have a child and it has ended well for them all, so I guess I feel like although everything seems so dark now the odds really are in our favour! I'm really only a cat person, I would have loads only OH is there to reign me in lol We have one and he really is my fur baby, I'm glad to have him around I find him so therapeutic! My other weakness is theatre trips for OH and I lol we don't stay over in the city as much now though since it means we can save the money from a hotel fee and use it to buy more tickets lol :)

I don't know many people who have had difficulty but let's face it, people don't talk about it. One story ended well, one didn't. The only other person I knew is going through the same miserable journey at the moment but different reasons to us. So I guess that's why I'm less optimistic. We're also a bit guilty when it comes to theatre tickets. Lots of theatres within easy reach for us so it's a good excuse to get out.

Yes you are so right it's such a taboo subject unfortunately :( I haven't told anyone either, not even my mum and I tell her everything :( I only know that these women had difficulty after they had their babies! Maybe it becomes easier to discuss then since it's ended well and you don't have to worry about making people uncomfortable or the pity everyone will look at you with! :(

The only people who know about us are my mum and sister and the friend who's also struggling. I felt some relief initially and then regretted it and I've actually said to my mum I don't want to discuss it anymore. We've agreed if we decide to do IVF, only me and OH will know. It's not worth the added stress. Though I think if it ever did happen for us, even if it was with help, I wouldn't care who knew. I know that sounds weird!!
 
I've not stopped crying!! I thought this would never happen. No need to wait for semen analysis results now!

How long have you been trying? I feel like it won't ever happen for us...on to month 11. It must feel amazing ! So happy for you xx

I just don't get what we are doing wrong. Dreading this hsg test. It's just not looking good for us. I am constantly seeing ppl join in the ttc chat and get their bfp but I am always out.


Happy and healthy 9 months to you JemRose ! Xx

:hugs: we WILL both get there Alexis! Each fertility test brings you a step closer to getting your BFP! I can't wait for my first appointment letter to arrive :) I'm feeling much more relaxed now! We were going to do SMEP and start our new vitamins together this month but I have decided to just see how things roll! We are going to start our vitamins once they arrive and continue to dtd but just when the mood takes us and no more opks! I don't see us getting a natural BFP anymore so why should I stress myself out so much every month! I have a strong positive feeling that our assisted coception journey will end in our BFP! Anyway who knows we may get a miracle BFP before that lol

I have the worst af symptoms this cycle. The boob pain woke me up this morning and hasn't stopped. I feel so queasy I can't eat. I am just 100% fed up. I am awaiting the hsg scan next. You sound so positive. I was feeling so positive until af showed up with avengence. Not had af this heavy for months. How long have you been trying now pidge? I feel like I want to agree and say I doubt we will get a natural bfp now but I don't want to give in just yet when we have had great test results...nothing makes sence to me anymore

We've been trying since the day we got married basically, so it's been two years and three months now :( I do think you've been having chemicals like the other girls have been saying Alexis! Do you ever poas early and see if you get faint positives? I've ever had a whiff of a BFP unfortunately so I really don't hold much hope anymore for a natural positive! I do have great faith in our assisted conception journey though and I have a very strong feeling that I will have a baby in my arms in the next couple of years! :)

I have only did 1 preggo test and was neg then I havent bothered since tbh. My problem is 2 years seems like so long away...I really want a BFP before I turn 35 in August as I feel our chances will be slim from then on in.

I can't really believe it's been two years myself, I never imagined it would be this long! We were NTNP for the majority of that time though! I think we have only been actively ttc since May this year! I know it always feels like time is running short but two women I work with had their babies in their early forties :) I'm twenty seven now and I get people telling me to hurry up and not to wait much longer and that I should have a baby before I'm thirty, which is such a harsh statement to make in my opinion!
 
AF started today. Guess I'm out again. Oh well, onto cycle no 23....

Sorry Sunflower. We seem to have very similar cycles as I was out again this morning. I don't really know how to feel anymore. Just don't really feel anything right now. Guess that's better than spending the day in tears.

Sorry sunflower and moomin ...I guess your joining me in November girls. Really is so crap. I am tryibg the castor oil thing this cycle

I just assume I'm joining the next month's thread. We've agreed to continue OPKs. I was considering stopping. I didn't do them last month as we were on holiday but I actually find it more stressful not being able to prepare myself for af. When I looked back, we actually timed dtd perfectly :( Also going to try Preseed as been failing miserably with Conceive Plus for a while. What's the castor oil thing?
 
AF started today. Guess I'm out again. Oh well, onto cycle no 23....

Sorry Sunflower. We seem to have very similar cycles as I was out again this morning. I don't really know how to feel anymore. Just don't really feel anything right now. Guess that's better than spending the day in tears.

Sorry sunflower and moomin ...I guess your joining me in November girls. Really is so crap. I am tryibg the castor oil thing this cycle

I just assume I'm joining the next month's thread. We've agreed to continue OPKs. I was considering stopping. I didn't do them last month as we were on holiday but I actually find it more stressful not being able to prepare myself for af. When I looked back, we actually timed dtd perfectly :( Also going to try Preseed as been failing miserably with Conceive Plus for a while. What's the castor oil thing?

I just bought a massive tube of Conceive Plus but only tried it for 2 months...will switch to Preseed if still no joy after that.
 
AF started today. Guess I'm out again. Oh well, onto cycle no 23....

Sorry Sunflower. We seem to have very similar cycles as I was out again this morning. I don't really know how to feel anymore. Just don't really feel anything right now. Guess that's better than spending the day in tears.

I know how you feel. I had a brief cry and then worked out when my new fertile window is. My cycle was only 24 days, but at least that means more chances. I turn 42 in 3 weeks. Gone a bit numb...don't think this is gonna happen for us. My DH is remaining positive. At least he is seeing the GP about a sperm test on Tuesday.

Guess we just gotta keep going. Difficult to find the motivation sometimes.

Glad you're not in tears. Hugs xx
 
AF started today. Guess I'm out again. Oh well, onto cycle no 23....

Sorry Sunflower. We seem to have very similar cycles as I was out again this morning. I don't really know how to feel anymore. Just don't really feel anything right now. Guess that's better than spending the day in tears.

Sorry sunflower and moomin ...I guess your joining me in November girls. Really is so crap. I am tryibg the castor oil thing this cycle

I just assume I'm joining the next month's thread. We've agreed to continue OPKs. I was considering stopping. I didn't do them last month as we were on holiday but I actually find it more stressful not being able to prepare myself for af. When I looked back, we actually timed dtd perfectly :( Also going to try Preseed as been failing miserably with Conceive Plus for a while. What's the castor oil thing?

You soak a cloth in castor oil and place it on your abdomen then put put a water bottle on top and its support to help circulation to that area. You do it every 2nd day. Google it! I am trying it as tried everything else !
 
Have you tried taking aspirin everyday Alexis? You probably have. I think some of the stuff you have to keep taking for a while or continue taking until you conceive.xxx
 
Have you tried taking aspirin everyday Alexis? You probably have. I think some of the stuff you have to keep taking for a while or continue taking until you conceive.xxx

I took asprin for 3 months and then stopped. Naybe I should try it again. This is the 1st proper af Ive had in a while. Past few have been 1 or 2 days of red inbetween brown at start and days at the end all brown. Not sure if thats a good thing but in a way I am glad.
 
Congratulations Jemrose! hope you have a happy healthy 9 months x

I'm taking aspirin everyday from my consultants advice. I researched it a bit and found that it increases conception dramatically in women with underlying inflammation (which you won't know if you have or not) - but must be worth a try.

The website for the study - https://www.nih.gov/news-events/new...ances-women-high-inflammation-nih-study-finds
 
I've not stopped crying!! I thought this would never happen. No need to wait for semen analysis results now!

How long have you been trying? I feel like it won't ever happen for us...on to month 11. It must feel amazing ! So happy for you xx

I just don't get what we are doing wrong. Dreading this hsg test. It's just not looking good for us. I am constantly seeing ppl join in the ttc chat and get their bfp but I am always out.


Happy and healthy 9 months to you JemRose ! Xx

:hugs: we WILL both get there Alexis! Each fertility test brings you a step closer to getting your BFP! I can't wait for my first appointment letter to arrive :) I'm feeling much more relaxed now! We were going to do SMEP and start our new vitamins together this month but I have decided to just see how things roll! We are going to start our vitamins once they arrive and continue to dtd but just when the mood takes us and no more opks! I don't see us getting a natural BFP anymore so why should I stress myself out so much every month! I have a strong positive feeling that our assisted coception journey will end in our BFP! Anyway who knows we may get a miracle BFP before that lol

I have the worst af symptoms this cycle. The boob pain woke me up this morning and hasn't stopped. I feel so queasy I can't eat. I am just 100% fed up. I am awaiting the hsg scan next. You sound so positive. I was feeling so positive until af showed up with avengence. Not had af this heavy for months. How long have you been trying now pidge? I feel like I want to agree and say I doubt we will get a natural bfp now but I don't want to give in just yet when we have had great test results...nothing makes sence to me anymore

We've been trying since the day we got married basically, so it's been two years and three months now :( I do think you've been having chemicals like the other girls have been saying Alexis! Do you ever poas early and see if you get faint positives? I've ever had a whiff of a BFP unfortunately so I really don't hold much hope anymore for a natural positive! I do have great faith in our assisted conception journey though and I have a very strong feeling that I will have a baby in my arms in the next couple of years! :)

I have only did 1 preggo test and was neg then I havent bothered since tbh. My problem is 2 years seems like so long away...I really want a BFP before I turn 35 in August as I feel our chances will be slim from then on in.

I can't really believe it's been two years myself, I never imagined it would be this long! We were NTNP for the majority of that time though! I think we have only been actively ttc since May this year! I know it always feels like time is running short but two women I work with had their babies in their early forties :) I'm twenty seven now and I get people telling me to hurry up and not to wait much longer and that I should have a baby before I'm thirty, which is such a harsh statement to make in my opinion!
Oooh my northern Irish buddy is the same age toooo

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I've not stopped crying!! I thought this would never happen. No need to wait for semen analysis results now!

How long have you been trying? I feel like it won't ever happen for us...on to month 11. It must feel amazing ! So happy for you xx

I just don't get what we are doing wrong. Dreading this hsg test. It's just not looking good for us. I am constantly seeing ppl join in the ttc chat and get their bfp but I am always out.


Happy and healthy 9 months to you JemRose ! Xx

:hugs: we WILL both get there Alexis! Each fertility test brings you a step closer to getting your BFP! I can't wait for my first appointment letter to arrive :) I'm feeling much more relaxed now! We were going to do SMEP and start our new vitamins together this month but I have decided to just see how things roll! We are going to start our vitamins once they arrive and continue to dtd but just when the mood takes us and no more opks! I don't see us getting a natural BFP anymore so why should I stress myself out so much every month! I have a strong positive feeling that our assisted coception journey will end in our BFP! Anyway who knows we may get a miracle BFP before that lol

I have the worst af symptoms this cycle. The boob pain woke me up this morning and hasn't stopped. I feel so queasy I can't eat. I am just 100% fed up. I am awaiting the hsg scan next. You sound so positive. I was feeling so positive until af showed up with avengence. Not had af this heavy for months. How long have you been trying now pidge? I feel like I want to agree and say I doubt we will get a natural bfp now but I don't want to give in just yet when we have had great test results...nothing makes sence to me anymore

We've been trying since the day we got married basically, so it's been two years and three months now :( I do think you've been having chemicals like the other girls have been saying Alexis! Do you ever poas early and see if you get faint positives? I've ever had a whiff of a BFP unfortunately so I really don't hold much hope anymore for a natural positive! I do have great faith in our assisted conception journey though and I have a very strong feeling that I will have a baby in my arms in the next couple of years! :)

I have only did 1 preggo test and was neg then I havent bothered since tbh. My problem is 2 years seems like so long away...I really want a BFP before I turn 35 in August as I feel our chances will be slim from then on in.

I can't really believe it's been two years myself, I never imagined it would be this long! We were NTNP for the majority of that time though! I think we have only been actively ttc since May this year! I know it always feels like time is running short but two women I work with had their babies in their early forties :) I'm twenty seven now and I get people telling me to hurry up and not to wait much longer and that I should have a baby before I'm thirty, which is such a harsh statement to make in my opinion!
Oooh my northern Irish buddy is the same age toooo

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No way! How funny! lol twenty eight is getting scarily close though lol :shock:
 

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