November 2018 Testing Thread

[baby.3]

So sorry char TTC is a roller coaster of emotions and some months are harder than others. But it will all come good in the end. Rest and take care of yourself. See you in the December thread, much love xxx

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[KatD]

Temp dropped this morning ladies so I won’t be testing.
Think I am going to take some time out from the forum - probably just until af has arrived and gone and I feel ready to join the December thread.
Thank you so much for all your support. xxx

I know the feeling ... it's such a blow and even though AF hasn't arrived, seeing that all too familiar BBT pattern is heartbreaking. That's why I stopped BBT and OPKs and I don't test at all. I took a long break from the forum too.

Be kind to yourself sweetie, take it one day at a time and come back when you are ready. We're all here, rooting for you! xxxx

 

[Princess81]

Aw Char I’m sorry Hun it’s not at all easy. Sending hugs xxx

 

[Lollypop79]

Sorry Char, I had everything crossed for you xx

 

[Lollypop79]

I’m dying to test. Not due till 29th. It’s killing me.

 

[xphoenix]

So sorry Char!! Sending lots of love and hugs XX

 

[xphoenix]

okay so here it is after the allotted time (as in past the time you'd read the test) in bright light. It's easier to see in person however, it could just be an indent or line eyes as I see people call it. But in person, hubby and I see something.

Oh yay, fingers crossed for you...it's so hard to see in pics isn't it.

 

[IVW]

So sorry Char, i think we all thought this was it for you - our bodies are so cruel at times xx

 

[IVW]

okay so here it is after the allotted time (as in past the time you'd read the test) in bright light. It's easier to see in person however, it could just be an indent or line eyes as I see people call it. But in person, hubby and I see something.

I dont think i see anything, but these tests are a bit diff to the other IC's and my eye is always drawn to the area where the second line is, but i cant see anything on this one.

Will you test again today? Seeing the witch hasnt turned up yet, its defo a good sign

 

[Hendy1]

Sorry Char, take your time and we look forward to having you back soon xx

 

[EmmaN27]

So sorry Char, it’s so cruel having that false hope, I do think you could be lucky and get December BFP as you was so close this time x

 

[WinterWolf]

I’m so sorry Char, you had lines on those tests, you definitely had a fertilised eggy there. I think that’s the downside of testing early - you notice chemical pregnancies x

 

[Rosie2]

Sorry Char, I hope you’re ok x

 

[chattychar1990]

Thank you ladies.
Who was i kidding thinking i could stay away from the forum.
I need you all to keep me sane, otherwise i think i might have a break down lol.
So i have been googling and its quite common to conceive after a chemical so i really hope this is the case for me. Fingers crossed.
I have decided i am going to stop with the temping but carry on with the opk's so i can pinpoint ov as i am quite irregular.
Try to be more relaxed about it but at the same time will defo use my conceive plus again.
I am now off to join the ladies on the December thread xx

 

[EmmaN27]

Thank you ladies.
Who was i kidding thinking i could stay away from the forum.
I need you all to keep me sane, otherwise i think i might have a break down lol.
So i have been googling and its quite common to conceive after a chemical so i really hope this is the case for me. Fingers crossed.
I have decided i am going to stop with the temping but carry on with the opk's so i can pinpoint ov as i am quite irregular.
Try to be more relaxed about it but at the same time will defo use my conceive plus again.
I am now off to join the ladies on the December thread xx

always here for you! x

 

[Vintageling]

Thank you ladies.
Who was i kidding thinking i could stay away from the forum.
I need you all to keep me sane, otherwise i think i might have a break down lol.
So i have been googling and its quite common to conceive after a chemical so i really hope this is the case for me. Fingers crossed.
I have decided i am going to stop with the temping but carry on with the opk's so i can pinpoint ov as i am quite irregular.
Try to be more relaxed about it but at the same time will defo use my conceive plus again.
I am now off to join the ladies on the December thread xx

Sending you massive hugs hun xxx

 

[xoxo]

So sorry to hear, Char. The whole TTC can be such a mind f*ck! After my chemical, i read similar things about being more fertile the couple months following, so fingers crossed for more BFPs next month and more sticky beans. xx

 

[IVW]

Thank you ladies.
Who was i kidding thinking i could stay away from the forum.
I need you all to keep me sane, otherwise i think i might have a break down lol.
So i have been googling and its quite common to conceive after a chemical so i really hope this is the case for me. Fingers crossed.
I have decided i am going to stop with the temping but carry on with the opk's so i can pinpoint ov as i am quite irregular.
Try to be more relaxed about it but at the same time will defo use my conceive plus again.
I am now off to join the ladies on the December thread xx

Hehe its so hard to stay away but this place does help, it keeps you sane if anything

I think thats the best way to approach it, opk's just so you can defo pin point it and forget the temping, as i personally think its just added pressure and stress, in my opinion anyway.

I was updating the oh on your testing and it made me think back to when i was ttc and i actually think i had a chemical as well, as i had the most horrendous period EVER! This was before i knew what my cycles were actually doing so never picked it up on a test, but i really do think it is common. As winterwolf said, its the downside to testing early, but we just cant help it we are definately our own worst enemy at times, thats for sure!

Sending you lots and lots of you will 100% get that baby growing soon enough xx

 

[night owl]

Thank you ladies.
Who was i kidding thinking i could stay away from the forum.
I need you all to keep me sane, otherwise i think i might have a break down lol.
So i have been googling and its quite common to conceive after a chemical so i really hope this is the case for me. Fingers crossed.
I have decided i am going to stop with the temping but carry on with the opk's so i can pinpoint ov as i am quite irregular.
Try to be more relaxed about it but at the same time will defo use my conceive plus again.
I am now off to join the ladies on the December thread xx

Yeah I think the conceive plus was a good idea for you, I definitely do think sperm met the egg this month, chemicals are sooo common especially in first pregnancies, I know that’s no consolidation and it’s still shit when it does happen, carrying on with the opks and conceive plus but dropping the temping sounds like a good idea, especially if you are ovulating at different days every month, I’m the same I don’t think I could have got a bfp without the opks, good luck for this cycle hope you get a nice sticky bfp x

 

[chattychar1990]

So sorry to hear, Char. The whole TTC can be such a mind f*ck! After my chemical, i read similar things about being more fertile the couple months following, so fingers crossed for more BFPs next month and more sticky beans. xx

xoxo - did you conceive after your chemical hun? x