November 2018 Testing Thread

[Vintageling]

Oh em sending you massive hugs hun it's so disheartening isn't it but we are here for you hun xxxx

 

[EmmaN27]

Thanks Char and Vintageling x

 

[Stacey89]

Aww so sorry Emma, sending lots of love x

 

[Stacey89]

For me, after a week or so I felt I wanted to try again but it was hard, defintely. And then as my ov was later than I thought we didn't bd on ov day so then I was paranoid that we'd missed it but part of me felt I'd feel better next cycle when I knew where I stood again date wise. Then 11dpo my temp went up considerably. I tested just to rule it out with a cheapo and I got a line. Couldn't bloody belive it. I think today is the only day I've not tested since then - total poas addict here now! Last time my temp shot up 12dpo so I tested frer and the line was there but quite feint. I tested again a couple of days later and it was more like a squinter.
It feels different this time and hopefully some decent knitting is going on (if the soreness of my boobs are anything to go by!)

I guess see how you feel, you may want to, you may not. Whenever you feel ready be it this month, the next or in 3 time - whatever you decide is right for you x

Wow radleycat this is like reading my story!! We mc last cycle.. i ovulated later than i thought so thought we would be out, and i just did a cheapy test for the sake of it and got a line. Iv used frer and clear blues since and all BFP.
Madness!
We must be due around the same time x

 

[Kitana]

So sorry Em, sending you loads of hugs...

 

[chattychar1990]

ChattyChar, your chart really shows a dip, I hope this is the one for you hun!xx

Completely missed this sorry hun.
Thank you x

 

[Rosie2]

I’ve got three days until AF is due, feeling rather impatient this month! Sending lots of positive thoughts to everyone x

 

[chattychar1990]

I’ve got three days until AF is due, feeling rather impatient this month! Sending lots of positive thoughts to everyone x

When are you testing Rosie? x

 

[Kholl]

Congratulations to everyone with a BFP, and sending lots of hugs to the ladies who are out this cycle.

xoxo, I am so sorry about the chemical. I had a very early miscarriage in April (somewhere between 5 and 6 weeks) and it was absolutely devastating. Much worse emotionally than I imagined a loss could be. I was immediately stuck between being terrified to try again and even more terrified to not be pregnant again. Like Radley, I took a cheapie on a whim (had no idea where I was in my cycle, but if I counted the first day of heavy m/c bleeding as CD1 I was CD 27 I think?) and got a faint BFP.

It was SO different being pregnant after a loss... We didn't tell anyone, and I really couldn't imagine it being a successful pregnancy... it felt like deja vu, like I was just reliving the last pregnancy all over again, and all I could see in my mind was bleeding and loss. But now I'm 29 weeks and everything looks great so far, and even though those early months were excruciating (I only really started to relax after the 20-week anatomy scan), I am so glad now that we didn't wait.

Good luck everyone

 

[Rosie2]

I’ve got three days until AF is due, feeling rather impatient this month! Sending lots of positive thoughts to everyone x

When are you testing Rosie? x

Probably Friday night or Saturday morning, if AF hasn’t already arrived. Going away for work for the weekend so would be good to know before I leave!

 

[chattychar1990]

Quite a few of us testing Saturday then
Me, Vintage and you! Lets hope all 3 of us get our bfp or if you decide to test Friday you start the bfp's off for the weekend!!
Good luck hun xx

Also i would say FMU is always best to test rather than the night time but personal preference obviously x

 

[Rosie2]

Quite a few of us testing Saturday then
Me, Vintage and you! Lets hope all 3 of us get our bfp or if you decide to test Friday you start the bfp's off for the weekend!!
Good luck hun xx

Also i would say FMU is always best to test rather than the night time but personal preference obviously x

Ooh exciting! I’ll try and hold off until the morning, particularly if I know we are all waiting... I just have an early start on Saturday and not sure I’ll be in the right frame of mind for it. Not a good time to be going away but oh well

 

[Vintageling]

Yea I'm testing early will be 11dpo though Saturday and I want to know if I'm pregnant before I go to the wedding so I know if I should drink or not. Will have to try and keep it a secret though and just say I don't feel up to drinking so I can then surprise my oh on our anniversary and I'm not announcing that I'm pregnant at my cousins wedding

 

[chattychar1990]

I will be 11DPO on Saturday too. AF due on Sunday/Monday.
I wish i could hold off to see if AF arrived but i just need to know!!! x

 

[princessp]

I'll be testing Saturday too. I think I'll be 9dpo and 4days before expected period. (its hard to say as cycles are a bit irregular) and I had 3 days of positive ovulation tests. I like to test early and know rather than wait. I feel that if I wait until period due then I build myself up thinking. when I strat early, they are uslaly negative then if they continue to be negative I think i'll be fine.

 

[Vintageling]

Yea I'm due on on the Tuesday I think my lp is 13 days

 

[Rosie2]

I also like to know, but if I didn’t set a strict limit on it I’d be testing every day lol. Feels easier for me to just wait until AF is due then I know there’s less chance of a false negative. Urgh why is TTC so hard?!

 

[Loumaro4]

Well Im out this month came on last night, aw sorry em you too!? I'm not temping this cycle, deleted my apps too, going to try to relax and hope the new year brings us all 2 lines ❤️xx

 

[chattychar1990]

I also like to know, but if I didn’t set a strict limit on it I’d be testing every day lol. Feels easier for me to just wait until AF is due then I know there’s less chance of a false negative. Urgh why is TTC so hard?!

Totally get you.
I am actually so done with TTC now. I am on my 6th cycle and i am just so fed up of AF arriving every month
I know i shouldn't be moaning as it takes some ladies so much longer but it is getting me down massively xx

 

[chattychar1990]

Well Im out this month came on last night, aw sorry em you too!? I'm not temping this cycle, deleted my apps too, going to try to relax and hope the new year brings us all 2 lines ❤️xx

I am sorry Lou
Sometime's it really does help when you don't focus on it. That approach got my SIL pregnant after 1 year of trying. xx