*** November 2014 Mummies! ***

[MamaUK]

Hi ladies I'm due nov 9th. I am 16 weeks today. Last night I had really bad pains in my lower left abdomen. It seems like it was stretching along with trapped wind. I feel better today but my lower abdomen feels sore and a bit full and heavy. Anyone experience something similar to this. I fled my midwife and gp. They said it's most likely stretching and wind. Anyone exp this and what they did to help them?? Esp for trapped wind... Sorry tmi!! Thanks ladies . It's my first baby and I am freaking out.

 

[chazhavnfun]

Thanks girls we are so excited. We took a new outfit in we purchased after the scan into see the kids and they all screamed yyyyeeeee it's a girl. There all so excited. Especially my littlest she said from the beginning she wanted a tiny baby sister.

 

[Kaa286]

Aw that's lovely Chaz

I'm staying team yellow Katie sorry!

Mama UK I get it a lot huni don't worry. Try going toilet I find bending helps straighten up then bend to help it get out haha.
Went to blow my nose this morn n ouch worst pulling pain across entire lower abdomen. Just ligaments stretching n then uterus stretches too hun don't worry xx

 

[mellie_88]

MamaUK I had this last night too. Moving too much hurt so much. Felt like I needed a massive trip to the toilet but I definitely didnt. Horrible

 

[chazhavnfun]

It's failing EVERYTIME I try add my pics to photobucket and it's making me mad lol.
I got out the car to fast today to go for scan and got that horrible pulling pain in the bottom of my tummy it's sore isn't it.

 

[chickadee1990]

Congrats on team pink chaz

I've got to wait till 2nd of July to find out if I'm having a girl or boy! So long to go. Xxxxx

 

[katiee24]

Hope you the pain has eased chaz!

I decided to finish the clear out under the stairs - been at it for 10 hours lifting all sorts of rubbish and just when I've nearly finished I lifted a suitcase full of rubbish and pulled my hip feeling extremely sore now!

 

[MamaUK]

Thanks ladies my pain did grt better today and once I met to the loo properly (tmi) I actually felt loads better. I have a 16+5 week scan on Friday so I can't wait to see my baby and how it's doing, esp after a horrible few days. Chaz so happy for u again!! Girls are so precious. Hope ur discomfort or pain went away. I took two paracetamols and that seemed to help finally. Gonna try to get done proper sleep now. Gnite ladies and thanks again I feel better knowing I'm not alone.

 

[Kaa286]

Warning...rant in 3, 2, 1.....so hubby goes at 4pm for a few beers with his mates. He still not home. No contact or anything. He will be bladdered n today will now be ruined. I can't cope with it. Can't sleep feel sick got the shakes n everything. I'm so frigging angry it's unbelievable. I have insecurities anyway and trust issues due to something stupid he did a couple years ago but now I'm thinking all sorts!!!

I'm going my mum's tomorrow n thinking about whether or not to come back coz I really can't cope with this and think it's completely out of order!! His mates single but he has a pregnant wife at home so where the fuck is he and why he not even attempted to contact me check I'm ok or anything. If I'm being selfish tell me please but I'm so angry right now honestly it's horrible.

Sorry for rant but needed it off my chest n didn't want to put it all over fb or anything haha xxx

 

[hlc75]

Hi Kaa, I know exactly how you are feeling. My husband was doing exactly the same thing and it was making me so upset. I had to sit down and have a proper talk to him and explain to him how he was making me feel, especially when he wasn't letting me know where he was and not checking to see if he is ok. I said I didn't want to stop him going out and having fun, I used to love nothing more than going out on a bender, but I told him that the baby from the moment we conceived was both our responsibility and he had a responsibility to look after me and baby and not to keep making me upset. So far he has stuck to his promise and changed the way he was behaving, he went out on Friday and came home the time we agreed and brought my supper home with him. Go to your mums today to let him get over his hangover and time for you to unwind and then sit and have a chat with him explaining how you are feeling and fingers crossed things will change xx

 

[Kaa286]

Thanks huni!! I know I said last night when he strolled in hed been out over 12 hours n not even let me know. His phone died apparently. I said well god forbid anything happened to me coz u wouldn't have known. I said I feel I'm the only one putting the baby first and if he wants the single life he can bloody well have it!! My mum will go mad she's already pissed at him coz since being preg he been out constantly n she said it just appears to everyone he not bothered. Like u I want him go have fun his job is stressful and I know he needs the time out but starting to feel like he can't have fun with me and has to be out with lads to do it. None of which have any responsibilities.

Going to get ready in a bit n have a walk round to my mum's see if I can spend some time there and chill. Xxxx

 

[Toffeegirl]

Hi Ladies
I need to ask, I am only 13+6 but I feel so bloated is this normal my jeans fit my waist but are tight on my tummy and I am finding it hard to eat as I feel full all the time, is this ok?

 

[Kaa286]

Toffeegirl I'm very much the same huni being bloated is normal in pregnancy unfortunately. It does suck I can't eat as much as I'd like though :-/ xx

 

[chickadee1990]

Hey girlies well after some much needed sleep after a disastrous 12 hour night shift I'm literally feelin a little human again lol.
My OH is out and about messing around with his car, I don't no about anyone else but for the last 6 months me and OH have been really good and last night we sort of fell out, because Ihe snapped at me because he wouldn't give me a hug, he was in a precision relationship for ten years and has two children, and he told me it's just because he isn't used to giving affection all the time, I have my days where all I want to do is just sit there and hug up with him but he thinks I'm too needy. And I said to him, my hormones are all over the place, and I get emotional easily, when he snapped yesterday he left the room and just said your getting on my tits, I fell asleep for a few hours, then he came up and apologised and said that he knows he needs to give me more love, but I need to not want to be hugged and kissed all the time, then we both had a bit of a heartfelt moment and said it was because we both didn't want to loose each other. Gosh it's so hard when your emotions are all over the place.

Hope all you girlies are ok.

Kaa- men ay! You can't live with them you can't live without them, catch 22 all the time haha! Xxx

 

[twinkletoes87]

Hey ladies, could you change my due date to the 16th please? Also my 20 week scan is 1st July

Nearly cried, went through my tin cupboard looking for custard, couldn't find any, pulled out the baking box and found a tin hidden back there, dated for next month lol. I felt so happy, I emptied the entire can over two Mr Kipling Apple pies and nearly barfed half way through because I wasn't hungry lol. It was so worth it, I feel happy and full for a change. Not just sicky full but content full, as if I could fall asleep in front of the fire with my feet up and blanket on...in fact I might just do that.

Been feeling Shamrock moving quite a bit, it's rather awesome and can't wait for OH to be able to feel it too!!

Hope everyone else is doing ok xx

 

[babyphoenix]

Revealed our little girl today

 

[hlc75]

Hi twinkletoes, just noticed I have same due date as you and my 20 week scan is 1st July. �� I cannot wait to see baby again! We have been out looking at furniture and prams etc today but going to wait til after 20wwek scan before we buy anything.xx

 

[mellie_88]

Mmmm babyphoenix, that cake looks lovely. Was everyone excited to finally find out. Did you get many friends suggesting their name for the baby?!

 

[Kaa286]

Chick what's precision relationship mean hun??

Twinkle I'm jealous I want to feel movements!!! Haha xxx

 

[babyphoenix]

Mmmm babyphoenix, that cake looks lovely. Was everyone excited to finally find out. Did you get many friends suggesting their name for the baby?!

Yeah everyone was glad to finally know! and no they weren't actually haha they all know we've got a name picked we just haven't shared it yet