*March 2019 Testing Thread*

[SockVortex]

Sorry for the ladies whose AFs have arrived

I’m lucky that I only have a small handful of friends who are girls, the rest are bachelor boys, haha. I’m sure I’d be massively jealous of a pregnant friend.

I wasn’t sure if I’d ovulated at all this month but yesterday my boobs started to get sore so I’m definitely coming to end of this cycle whatever that may be Nice to be having a ‘short’ cycle for once!

 

[EmmaN27]

Aww ladies, big

It must be really hard when you've been ttc for a long time and keep hearing about BFPs all around you. I consider myself very lucky to have conceived by 6 months.

On the flip side, I actually felt guilty for being pregnant because my closest friend struggled and finally ended up getting pregnant on her 2nd round of IVF treatment, only to lose the baby during birth! I was there for her through it all, it was very traumatic and upsetting, so I was really anxious to tell her my news. I called her up a week before my scan (as we wasn't able to meet face to face), and surprisingly she was really happy for me and talked to me a lot about it. I know that it must also have bought back a lot of painful memories for her which does make me feel sad and a bit guilty. I felt bad again when I found out it was a boy, as her baby was a boy, but again when I told her, she was brilliant and made me feel a lot more at ease. She truly is an amazing woman to have gone through what she did and be so strong. x

 

[Sjf0709]

Sorry to hear AF has arrived @Hendy1 and @chattychar1990 sorry to hear you’re unwell. If I’d have been sick before work I’d have phoned in work sick and curled up at home to hats off to you for going in.

I deffo get the jealousy and then feeling like a bitch because I am haha. My colleague at work has been TTC for 4 years and had her egg transfer at the weekend with her 1st round of IVF... I’m jealous that she actually has a fertilised egg, even though she doesn’t know if it will be successful... it’s just the fact she is 1 step ahead of knowing where I am... how ridiculous am I?!? We are also going through the TWW together at least so we can wait together... x

 

[Kickingk]

All updated ladies xx

Thank u x

 

[babylove2016]

 

[chattychar1990]

Sorry to hear AF has arrived @Hendy1 and @chattychar1990 sorry to hear you’re unwell. If I’d have been sick before work I’d have phoned in work sick and curled up at home to hats off to you for going in.

I deffo get the jealousy and then feeling like a bitch because I am haha. My colleague at work has been TTC for 4 years and had her egg transfer at the weekend with her 1st round of IVF... I’m jealous that she actually has a fertilised egg, even though she doesn’t know if it will be successful... it’s just the fact she is 1 step ahead of knowing where I am... how ridiculous am I?!? We are also going through the TWW together at least so we can wait together... x

I only managed to stay at work until lunch time and I came home and laid on the sofa since
Feeling a bit sorry for myself right now.
Massive hugs to you all ladies, it’s nice to let it all out sometimes and especially on this forum because we all have each other’s back no matter what xx

 

[Hendy1]

Agreed, much love to you all, you are the only thing that has made me feel better today and your post made me laugh SJF. It's definitely not because you're a bitch but the fact that you can be jealous of someone who is on her second round of IVF made me think it is reasonable to be jealous of my friend who conceived on her second month of trying naturally!

 

[Hendy1]

Big hugs to you Char, it's rubbish being on AND being poorly xx

 

[chattychar1990]

Big hugs to you Char, it's rubbish being on AND being poorly xx

Thank you so much Hendy xx

 

[EmmaN27]

Agreed, much love to you all, you are the only thing that has made me feel better today and your post made me laugh SJF. It's definitely not because you're a bitch but the fact that you can be jealous of someone who is on her second round of IVF made me think it is reasonable to be jealous of my friend who conceived on her second month of trying naturally!

this made me really laugh too Sjf x

 

[Mandy119]

So sorry to hear that AF arrived Hendy and that youre feeling rubbish at the moment Char, sending you both lots of hugs

 

[Mandy119]

I havent had any symptoms so far but holy moly for the past half hour Ive been sitting on the couch and Im having really weird cramps. Nothing like AF cramps at all, its a little higher up and more on the right side. Its not painful I can just notice it. Really weird.

You should have seen me yesterday by the way. I went to the toilet and saw a tiny pink spot on my toilet paper when I wiped. My heart skipped a beat only to realize shortly after that its just a bit of fluff from my pink undies. Will make sure to wear white or black undies in my 2ww from now on haha.

 

[Vintageling]

Hi char can you take me off the 11th please hun I won't be testing this cycle. Not a majorly bad reason like but I know I won't be pregnant after getting some awnsers from the fertility clinic on Monday

 

[Mandy119]

Hi char can you take me off the 11th please hun I won't be testing this cycle. Not a majorly bad reason like but I know I won't be pregnant after getting some awnsers from the fertility clinic on Monday

Sorry to hear Vintage, sending hugs to you! I hope youre okay xx

 

[Sjf0709]

Hi char can you take me off the 11th please hun I won't be testing this cycle. Not a majorly bad reason like but I know I won't be pregnant after getting some awnsers from the fertility clinic on Monday

Aw I hope you’re ok? We are here if you want to talk about it x

 

[Sjf0709]

I’m glad a make you ladies laugh anyway haha

 

[Kickingk]

I hope u r ok @Vintageling xx

 

[Vintageling]

I'm fine honestly I've been diagnosed with an under active thyroid and the fertility doctor said that she believes this is the reason I'm not getting pregnant as it can actually stop you from getting pregnant !! So we have started meds becuase I had an abnormal result over a year ago aswell other wise I was going to have to wait 6 months to get my thyroid tested again urgh. So on the meds the fertility doctor said she is sure I will be pregnant in 2 months after taking the meds so this cycle I'm out becuase my thyroid makes me infertile and possibly next cycle I'll be out but hopefully th3 cycle after we are good to go

 

[Mandy119]

Thats good news Vintage, at least you have some answers now and hopefully she is right and you'll get your BFP soon!!

 

[Vintageling]

Thats good news Vintage, at least you have some answers now and hopefully she is right and you'll get your BFP soon!!

Yea I'm so happy we have some awnsers that could be the cause it has given me hope again and if we don't get our bfp they only want us to wait 6 months till we go back to the fertility clinic