Line spotters please!

[Selina13]

My tests havent got any darker but i can see a hidiously faint line still. Still no af and im a week late. X

Big big fingers crossed for you!! Keep us updated,

Im worried its blighted ovum/chemical as im super late and usually i would have a clear line by now. Hmmm its driving me crazy!
Thanks for your support X

 

[sarahmc89]

I didnt mean it to be offensive in any way. I just found it really confusing. I said I'm sorry if it is to do with a loss or was a mistake or something. Delete your account if you want if you take what people say on a forum so seriously that it affects your life in such a way maybe you shouldn't be on a forum anyway....


Selina 13, I am very sorry for your loss and honestly did not mean to make you feel bad/sad at all in anyway. I hope that you are doing okay, and I wish you all the best in ttc again. It wasn't my intention to come across insensitive/rude, so for that I am very sorry.

 

[Selina13]

Thank you for the apology, its fine. As i said previously I hadnt noticed the ticker or my profile as I rush on here to post as i have a nearly 2 year old keeping me busy!

 

[sarahmc89]

It's okay seriously, don't apologise. It was my fault. I was just really confused. I know the feeling got a 3 and a half year old who is never happy. I just think it is disgusting the way I was made out to be a horrific person for asking a question. I have reported the user Blisa and requested she be removed or her posts deleted as it's technically slander. I have been on this forum for a long long time, since early pregnancy with my first.

Again though, I am sorry and I wish you all the best.

 

[Keelygracey]

Please don't take this the wrong way, but your ticker says that you are 29 weeks pregnant already. I'm so sorry if this is wrong or from a loss or something. Just really confusing me...

Seriously? Well if previous posts of genuine questions being attacked by these certain group members hadn't already made my mind up about deleting my account on this... then you certainly have made up my mind for me. What an awful thing to say, really insensitive and rude, in my opinion! Apologies to the person who's post this is and I wish you every luck.. this really boiled my blood!

That's a bit hypercritical, Sarah's question was also a 'genuine' question which she then got attacked for asking.. that was classic 'making a mountain out of a mole hill' and in MY opinion very rude of YOU. She didn't deserve that. Shocked.

 

[ams25]

Aw I don't think Sarah meant any harm, it looked like maybe the OP just hadn't realised the ticker was still showing and she was trying to point it out. Ladies we're all hormonal and Things can come across very different on a forum than how they're meant ♡ I hope everyone is okay and can move forward with no talk of account deletion as this is usually an amazing supportive place and I for one would hate to see anyone lose that support xxx

 

[lisey]

It all seems to be resolved now which is good. Things are easily interpreted in the wrong way when written down xx

 

[BunnyN]

Blisa-I have always found this forum to be friendly an supportive. There is the occasional thread that gets a bit hormonal but I think you can expect that on any forum. I am sorry if you feel like anyone was attacked. There is a difference between attacking and expressing an opinion or questioning something. Sarah's question does seem to have been a genuine one and the OP has been understanding. Honestly your response was quite aggressive. Even when you don't agree with a comment it is usually best to try and see what is behind it and reply in a tactful way otherwise threads get nasty without there really being a need for it. We are all a little insensitive to others at times without meaning to be. We are also all a little over sensitive at times and after loss a comment that otherwise wouldn't have meant anything can be super hurtful. I can sympathise with that feeling myself. Hugs

 

[Blisa]

Not once did I say she was 'attacking' anyone to be honest. I thought it was rude personally, you hadn't commented on this thread anything positive just about that which in my view was actually a negative comment to make. & I have seen other users attack ladies who ask questions, like even if it's a silly question it's still something someone needs answering! Oh and I take things seriously yes because I've also miscarried and struggled so much to conceive this baby, so yes I do. This was my opinion so report me, totally fine by me the only reason I'm still here now is I don't know how to delete my account , anyone care to instruct me? Thanks ��

 

[Blisa]

@Selina this is you're post, I am so very sorry I did not intend to set off a war! I am a girl who expresses her opinion I'm afraid. I am not a horrible or nasty person, I did not attack anyone personally I gave my opinion. Anyway I do certainly wish you, and other ladies the best whether I agree with their way of thought or not. Again Selina I am sorry sweet! Take care x

 

[Blisa]

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[Selina13]

@Selina this is you're post, I am so very sorry I did not intend to set off a war! I am a girl who expresses her opinion I'm afraid. I am not a horrible or nasty person, I did not attack anyone personally I gave my opinion. Anyway I do certainly wish you, and other ladies the best whether I agree with their way of thought or not. Again Selina I am sorry sweet! Take care x

You know what, if people were as passionate as coming on to help me/comment to support i wouldnt be bothered but i feel like my post has been hijacked due to the comment.

Im going out of my mind right now and i cant even be bothered to start a new thread just encase no one bothers to comment to give their experiences or advice!

Im sorry that you have had greif for looking out for me. This is a first for me where there has been conflict. Its such a shock as previously theres only been kindness shared here.

I hope your ok x

X

 

[Blisa]

No sweety I am so very sorry! I don't know how to edit posts so they end up being multiple! I've hardly slept last night, things do really get to me. I'll be ok thank you. Don't ever think you can't come here for support even though this has happened, everyone would support you no matter what! And we are all wishing for that BFP for you & a sticky bean! I've got my 2nd early scan Tuesday morning so fingers crossed we see a little bean this time as last time just a sack. Wish you all the best x

 

[Selina13]

Ahh good luck to you. Heres hoping for that baby for you!! To be honest i think ots unlikely that im pregnant. I must have ovulated super late and if thats the case i wont be. X

 

[Blisa]

Thank you! Maybe give yourself another few days to test if your af hadn't come, don't let it get you down hearted, got I could've decorated my house with the amount of tests I took after my loss! Each negative another heartbreak. But one of the most important things I've learnt is getting myself into a state doesn't help and I'm a very anxious person at the best of times! X

 

[sarahmc89]

Selina you should probably start a new thread as I have moderators looking at this one and they will probably shut it down due to Blisas negative comments. Give it a few more days for your hcg levels to rise. Are you seeing your GP/Specialist? I'm sure there's also an area on the forums for pregnancy after loss, which may bring you more comfort and piece if mind and avoid horrible users such as myself.

Baby dust to you and fx

 

[Selina13]

It doesnt matter now, im pregnant or im not. I think ill just wait it out and just get on with it. I dont feel the need to just be in the pregnancy after loss section but thanks anyway. I think this is all being taken to far to be honest. All because my profile and ticker hadnt been updated this has started, actually it was clear that if i was taking tests at 28 wk pregnant i would have been a dumbass!!
I hate that anyone feels upset about all this.

 

[Blisa]

It's been sorted now hun! So focus on what's important and ignore silly people like me. X

 

[BunnyN]

Not once did I say she was 'attacking' anyone to be honest. I thought it was rude personally, you hadn't commented on this thread anything positive just about that which in my view was actually a negative comment to make. & I have seen other users attack ladies who ask questions, like even if it's a silly question it's still something someone needs answering! Oh and I take things seriously yes because I've also miscarried and struggled so much to conceive this baby, so yes I do. This was my opinion so report me, totally fine by me the only reason I'm still here now is I don't know how to delete my account , anyone care to instruct me? Thanks ��

Sorry if you found my comment rude or negative. I was only trying to help. Everyone was getting upset but no one had really looked at it from your point of veiw. I was only trying to clear up a bit of conflict not cause more. Sorry if your commment about people being attacked was nothing to do with this thread. Without knowing what posts you were upset by it seemed like your feelings were directed to this thread. The only other threads with rude replies I've seen on here recent were ones that were fairly obviously started by trolls. Unfortunately we seem to get a few of them on here especially in the 'am I pregnant' form. Maybe I have missed rude comments in other places, I don't read all the threads. If you really want to delete your account contact the moderators. I dont think they usually delete a whole account but I expect it can be deactivated or blocked which will prevent you joining in further threads . You can also undsubscribe to posts so you wont recieve updates. You can delete indavidual posts by pressing the edit button at the bottom of the post and replacing its contents with a dash or dot. If you are able to deactivate your account I dont think you will be able to edit posts after so if thee is any personal information etc you don't want to remain online edit it first.

To the OP. I am really sorry for adding to the arguments. It didnt seem like there was really much to disagree about and that it was more about hurt feelings so I was just hoping to clear some air and maybe help get the thread back on track as threads that remain argumentative do tend to get locked. I didn't want to upset anyone further. I wont bring it up any more. Please dont feel like any of this was your fault, that is the one thing everyone seems to agree on! Are you still getting faint lines?

 

[Selina13]

Thank you. No just negatives. I mustnt be pregnant as previously have tested before now and got positives. So just got to wait for af and continue to be a grump with my hubby! Poor sod! Lol! X