Ladies doing IVF or IUI - 2015 (9 BFPs!)

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Oh gosh tiptoes that awful about oh finger! I know the feeling your mind sends you crazy during the 2ww! All those symptoms could be good signs tho!! Are you on progesterone? Sending you lots of luck for that blood test to come back positive! I must admit I have a Very good feeling about you getting your BFP today!!!! Xx
 
Me too!
I haven't experienced that Hevalou, are you still bleeding? Have you contacting the clinic?
 
So sorry tiptoes. Grab a bottle of wine, takeaway put your pj's on and chill out in front of the telly tonight. It's so awful, allow yourself the time to be sad. Big hugs sweetie.

I had my endo scratch today and it's the start of the prepare study. It's a blind trial to do with nutrition. 7 weeks of daily drinks!! Until egg collection anyway.
 
Thanks guys. I'm just so gutted. It's never happened for me ever and I am just starting to think there is something wrong with me. The nurse tried to console me and say we can have counselling. Wasn't really what I wanted to hear. Ah rubbish �� xx
 
So sorry Tiptoes but please don't feel it's never going to happen because it hasn't worked this time. I believe the average number of goes for IVF to work is about 3.7, I don't say this to dishearten you but so that hopefully you can see it is so so common for couples to succeed after more than one cycle. I've got friends personally that succeeded on their second and fourth ivf cycles and neither had had a bfp before. Fertility isn't as well understood as we might think and it's just a case of keep trying. Counselling could help you mentally though, I didn't take it but probably should have to be honest. Good luck xx
 
I agree, I think a lot of it is trial and error and down to chance so Daffo don't give up hope! I have just contacted the counselling service today as I am really struggling after this latest mc and don't want to go into my next cycle feeling sad and expecting the worse! Tiptoes...do what you need to do for yourself!! Look after yourself and allow yourself to feel sad! Big hugs!!! Xx
 
So sorry to hear about the MC Babybump. Its not fair. Hope the counselling is helpful. X x

I have my ERA tomorrow. DH said he's ok with me starting the IVF drugs this month, he didn't have a reason not to!
 
Oh tiptoes I am so sorry it's tough Hun but u will get over this and u must keep trying because there is every chance it will happen on another go. Did u get any frozen? I think now that ok our first did not work but we have 2 frostie and maybe they are stronger and maybe one of those will take... Drink lots of wine eat what u like and just do some nice things whilst u heal xxx

Blueflower good luck today xx
 
Thanks everyone. I just feel so devastated. Did anyone get a picture of their embryo? We did and u think it has made the situation worse. Ivf is so much more of a roller coaster than I was expecting. All the while we are going through the process I feel like I am doing something positive towards everything and now I just feel really lost. Lou we do have 2 frozen and the clinic said we can probably do a FET in sept. I think I am going to ask for both back but in the meantime I am thinking of going to another clinic to get some extra tests done like the immune etc...I know they say wait 2 goes but we only get one try on the NHS and if there is something wrong I would rather know sooner rather than later. Ah rubbish. I'm just going to pick myself up off the floor and start again.
Baby bump I am so so sorry about your mc. Have the clinic suggested more tests? Life is so cruel sometimes. I can't understand how some people can just get pregnant once and they can be the most unhealthy people. Ah we will all get there in the end xx
 
Hey tiptoes, I'm waiting for my follow up app so I have a long list of questions to ask my consultant and suggestions to make as to what next! In my head I am convinced there is a problem there....they just haven't looked hard enough! It's so frustrating! I'm hoping to go ahead with FET in Sept but I will see what my consultant has to say. Everything is making me angry at the mo. I remember telling my consultant that based on my symptoms and experiences and research I think I may have a hormone unbalance and his response was....we'll that doesn't matter in IVF anyway! I'm still fuming at that! Sorry to rant on your thread tiptoes!!! Don't put too much pressure on yourself to feel ok....it's an emotional roller coaster and I think sometimes it's ok to say you know what I'm just gunna feel crap for a while because it is crap! That hope and positivity will come back soon!!! Xx
 
Congratulations Kk, that's a lovely surprise!

The ERA went ok, it didn't hurt any more than the scratch thankfully. Just on our way back from London now, we were kept waiting ages!

I want to admit to something silly! I've only just found out what PUPO means via a Marian Keyes book! I always thought it meant Pupae as in a caterpillar waiting to hatch into a butterfly!!!!
 
Bless you Blueflower! Hope you have a relaxing night... all will be worth it! You'll still find me in journals... feel safe there ;) X
 
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