June mummies :)

[midnight]

i think im more relaxed because i know i will never get this again she is my last baby im going to treasure every little moment whilst pregnant as soon as she is born i know she will grow so quick and before i know it i will be buying her a school uniorm why do they grow so quickly

 

[xx emma xx]

Midnight you are so right, it's just so hard waiting on them coming.

When I put it into perspective that I've been pregnant for 39 weeks and only need to wait a maximum of 3 weeks if he's late then I think oh for gods sake you can wait a few weeks lol. I think it's the unknown too, that we have no idea when there going to arrive. This is by far the hardest part of pregnancy. Well apart from the heartburn and sickness lol x

 

[xx emma xx]

My little ones movements have been a lot quieter the last few days, maybe he's getting ready lol.

He still moves but not as much, that's ok though isn't it? X

 

[midnight]

it is the hardest part if you had a date it would be so much easier haha

yeah the tend to slow down so long as you are still feeling movement throught the dat ect all is fine mine goes nuts when i go bed haha i think i may have a night owl on my hands

 

[xx emma xx]

Yeah mine tends to do most of his moving at night. Yeah he defo still moves he's probably got no room in there since my bump has hardly grown to accommodate him haha.
I've decided I'm going to go buy that clary sage oil this week. Even if it doesn't bring on labour which I doubt it will, I have read its quite relaxing and helps you chill out. I could really do with that lol x

 

[snr1982]

our babies will be born soon we are near the end so try to enjoy having your baby all to yourself because soon she/he will be their own little person who is alot more demading on the outside than on the inside
enjoy feeling the movements
enjoys each little hiccup he or she makes knowing she/he is practicing their breathing techniques ready for the big wide world

when he or she is born and your eyes meet for the very 1st time you will know your baby loves you unconditionally

take your last few weeks to remember and write down little details so when your babies are older they will have a little knowledge of what they was like before being born

stock up on cooking and freeze meals

and most of all enjoy this time as its the end of your old life your new life will be filled with plenty of magical moments xxxx

aww thats lovely I'm too busy willing it to come out on time to think about that. It really isn't that long to go at all.

 

[midnight]

they come when they are ready i know its annoying hearing that but no amount of forcing eviction will work unless your baby sends that signal to your body unless of course your medically induced or c section lol

best thing to do is be relaxed and ready

 

[Lou_1]

i thought a couple of days ago im just going to enjoy last little bit, ive been rushing the days along and wishing he wld come now but on thinking about it apart from being uncomfortable and slower i love him wriggling about in there and sitting rubbing my belly and talking to him- I look at my 5 year old and cant beleive how fast his life is flashing b4 my eyes and im guessing when this little man out my life going to go even faster and b4 i know it il be sitting thinking i wish they were babies again lol xx

 

[xx emma xx]

They will come when there ready and it is so annoying to hear it but is so so true.
My dad goes on holiday a few days after my due date, I just don't want him to be away on holiday when my man arrives cos he will be upset to not be here x

 

[cherelle]

They will come when there ready and it is so annoying to hear it but is so so true.
My dad goes on holiday a few days after my due date, I just don't want him to be away on holiday when my man arrives cos he will be upset to not be here x

Ive got a similar thing - my mum is coming to visit on the train (its a 3 and a half hour journey) on friday for the weekend and we will both be very dissapointed if she doesnt get to meet her grandson!

She has a 9 year old herself, works full time and doesnt drive so she hardly ever visits x

 

[midnight]

aww i he makes an appearance before then for you xx

 

[Lou_1]

They will come when there ready and it is so annoying to hear it but is so so true.
My dad goes on holiday a few days after my due date, I just don't want him to be away on holiday when my man arrives cos he will be upset to not be here x

My oh parents away 2moro till next sund then my mum away june 11th for a week so we always joked it wld be one of those weeks prob when my mum away as my little dude pretty cosy in here i think lol x

 

[Roo3]

OH's parents and brother have booked a week in Spain the week leading up to my due date and the week I'm likely to be induced. OH's mum was too scared to ring OH up and tell him so she rang me saying that they'd only booked that week cos I said that I'd be late. How the hell do I know I'm going to be late???
I think she was expecting me to say oh it's ok, I'll tell my consultant that I don't want to be induced before you get back. I know OH is a bit gutted about it. I couldn't care less if they are here or not as I've told them and my Dad that there's no point in anyone coming to the hospital he arrives.
We went for a meal with OH's parents on Thursday and his mum kept saying to me I want a picture sending straight away if he comes when we are away. I told her to talk to OH about that as I'll be a bit preoccupied! If she's that bothered she shouldn't have booked a holiday for that week.

Rant over!!

 

[xx emma xx]

I know how you feel. Tbh I was a bit pissed off that my dad booked the holiday but my mum will be here and that's good. My dad goes on a golf holiday every year and being a typical man he just assumes I won't be over due. I think it has hit him though that he may be away when I have the baby cos he looked a bit gutted when I said I think I will be over due. His friend asked him what's he going to do if it is when he's on holiday and he said he will have a cry on holiday, aww. X

 

[midnight]

aww bless him

 

[cherelle]

Roo i know how you feel, im getting a bit sick of the constant texts from my MIL, shes always demanding to know as soon as i get the slightest twinge so she can come to hospital but i dont want to see anyone until ive had my skin to skin time and im showered and slightly recovered! Plus shes bringing her professional camera

 

[xx emma xx]

My mil aint getting near the hospital until visiting time. She keeps phoning asking if I've had twinges... F**k off!!! X

 

[Roo3]

I've made it clear to OH that I don't want anyone at the hospital until visiting time and when I've had a chance to shower and sort myself out a bit. Plus I want time on our own to bond with our baby before he gets passed from pillar to post.

The only people asking me if anything is happening are my friends so that doesn't bother me.

OH's parents are going on holiday with OH's brother and daughter who's 5. Their excuse for booking that week is because it's half term and wouldn't get the chance to take her away. Fair enough, but that week is the week where their other son is going to be a daddy for the first time and might need their support. I think OH is getting nervous about it all and could really have done with them at least being in this country.

On the opposite side of things, my Dad is refusing to go anywhere just in case I need him!!

 

[midnight]

i dont think they allow any1 in until visiting unless you have them in with you i wish people would understand you need time just you and dh with the baby without everyone else sticking their beak in

 

[Roo3]

Exactly. Hope I give birth in the middle of the night so we don't have that problem and people have to wait until the following afternoon to see him! That'll solve the problem