So sorry sjf, I get the feeling I'm going to be joining you this week, no sign of af yet but I don't feel like a test would be positive either so I haven't bothered testingAunt Flo is a bloody sneaky sod isn’t she??
Cycle Day 1 for me which came out of no were!!
but don’t worry if you’ve DTD enough because you only need to do it once for it to be your lucky cycle! Xx
Can I just say ladies, please don’t stress about how many times you DTD over your ovulation and fertile window. This last cycle I ovulated on CD 18 - we DTD on CD 10, 11, 13, 15, 17, 18, 19 and 21 but got a BFN. The months when I’ve got my BFP (but MC) we DTD once around 2-3 days before ovulation so it really is just luck a lot of the time. Obviously DTD more makes the odds better but there’s no use stressing about it (easier said than done)! I think we all need reminding at times that the TTC journey is hard enough without putting too much pressure on ourselves. Obviously DTD as much as possible and as much as you want to
Completely agree, 3 times for us we have had a positive having only dtd once, one daughter, one early miscarriage and one tfmr.Can I just say ladies, please don’t stress about how many times you DTD over your ovulation and fertile window. This last cycle I ovulated on CD 18 - we DTD on CD 10, 11, 13, 15, 17, 18, 19 and 21 but got a BFN. The months when I’ve got my BFP (but MC) we DTD once around 2-3 days before ovulation so it really is just luck a lot of the time. Obviously DTD more makes the odds better but there’s no use stressing about it (easier said than done)! I think we all need reminding at times that the TTC journey is hard enough without putting too much pressure on ourselves. Obviously DTD as much as possible and as much as you want to
I’ve just looked at it again and I really do think it’s a positive
I’m sure the other ladies on here will get their best eyes out and see what they think of it too!
Oh how exciting! Depends on how many tests you’ve got whether you test tomorrow or leave it till weds, I know after my chemical and blighted ovum when I got my bfp I told myself I would not test, I would see if my period was at least a week late then do one digital only,well as you can imagine I was testing at 8dpo that cycle, lol, if you have more frers and want to check line progression then go for it tomorrow, but it may not give you much of a darker line really so if you don’t have many frers maybe wait until weds xx
Can I just say ladies, please don’t stress about how many times you DTD over your ovulation and fertile window. This last cycle I ovulated on CD 18 - we DTD on CD 10, 11, 13, 15, 17, 18, 19 and 21 but got a BFN. The months when I’ve got my BFP (but MC) we DTD once around 2-3 days before ovulation so it really is just luck a lot of the time. Obviously DTD more makes the odds better but there’s no use stressing about it (easier said than done)! I think we all need reminding at times that the TTC journey is hard enough without putting too much pressure on ourselves. Obviously DTD as much as possible and as much as you want to
Can I just say ladies, please don’t stress about how many times you DTD over your ovulation and fertile window. This last cycle I ovulated on CD 18 - we DTD on CD 10, 11, 13, 15, 17, 18, 19 and 21 but got a BFN. The months when I’ve got my BFP (but MC) we DTD once around 2-3 days before ovulation so it really is just luck a lot of the time. Obviously DTD more makes the odds better but there’s no use stressing about it (easier said than done)! I think we all need reminding at times that the TTC journey is hard enough without putting too much pressure on ourselves. Obviously DTD as much as possible and as much as you want to
as for some reason i didnt get a positive opk till cd:15 / 31st dec and i usually get 3 days + , 1 day - on - day i ovulate.. however this time i get cd:15 blazing + and cd:16 blazing cd:17 is it / isnt it? cd:18 negative.. turns out i ovulated 1st jan, cd:16 accord to temps atleast meaning i only hit -1 and O day and like many others i was like crap that is not enough time bla bla
and as for the dtd theory, i definitely agree however i am not sure when I ovulate so decided to bd more this month just not to miss that egg... I wish people could just choose, whenever they are ready to have a baby press a button and boom! pregnant!!!
Yes I mean DTD as you get to your very near peak and then your peak.
Just so everyone knows the egg only lives 24 hrs after ovulation and it takes sperm 12 hrs to get to the Fallopian tube, so if you’re waiting till you ovulate to bd it’s already too late, you need to be doing it for the 5 days before you actually ovulate so that you get as many sperm up into the Fallopian tubes waiting on the egg as you can get.
Oh ZeniSo I'm so upset right now!
