**January 2018 Mummies, New year Babies**

[elsa16]

So sorry Belfa, how awful for you.

You'd be amazed at what the little bean can withstand. Baby will manage to take what he/she needs however little you are eating.

You will get through this xxxx

 

[Karenb]

So sorry to hear that Belfa, can't even imagine how you're feeling but you will get through this as your little ones give you no choice. If you don't get offered a scan, definitely get a private one as you don't need that stress too. Big hugs x

 

[Sugar10]

Ali - wish I had 10hrs sleep! Think I got about 2, and feeling rotten today stomach and back pain and my throats sore I'll mention the stomach pain to midwife this morning. Xx

 

[Selina13]

Hi guys. I've had a terrible few days as I discovered that my husband has been cheating on me. I'll spare the details but I am a total mess so I can't help alleviate anyone's stresses!

I have my booking in app tomorrow afternoon and I hope she refers me for another scan as I fear my pregnancy has been compromised. I also urgently need therapy as the details of what he has done are worthy of an episode or Coronation Street!!

I feel sick at the thought of raising a toddler and new born on my own x

Belfa Im so sorry.
X

 

[Mariexo]

So sorry to hear Belfa... I really hope you manage to lift your spirits higher and get through this. Remember if you need to talk we are all here and I am sure your family and friends are too. It is the lowest of the low to be cheating on your partner when she's fallen pregnant with your child.

How long has he been doing this if you don't mind me asking? Sounds like the biggest jerk ever to me. I really hope you feel better soon and everything works out xx

 

[Belfa]

So sorry to hear Belfa... I really hope you manage to lift your spirits higher and get through this. Remember if you need to talk we are all here and I am sure your family and friends are too. It is the lowest of the low to be cheating on your partner when she's fallen pregnant with your child.

How long has he been doing this if you don't mind me asking? Sounds like the biggest jerk ever to me. I really hope you feel better soon and everything works out xx

Thanks! Family and friends have been great though obviously no one knows how to guide me.

I am going to let him come back in to the spare room which probably sounds crazy to you but part this grief is two fold, there's the grief of what he's done and then the grief of loosing him and from that stems the difficulty in bringing a new born home alone.

Not long, I think (and again I'm not making excuses) he has a mental problem, whether he's severely depressed or is bipolar I don't know but there's something about the way he conducts life as a whole that isn't right. He basically joined some websites to meet women on and ended up sleeping with one of them - that's playing it down massively!x

 

[Alipops1986]

So sorry to hear Belfa... I really hope you manage to lift your spirits higher and get through this. Remember if you need to talk we are all here and I am sure your family and friends are too. It is the lowest of the low to be cheating on your partner when she's fallen pregnant with your child.

How long has he been doing this if you don't mind me asking? Sounds like the biggest jerk ever to me. I really hope you feel better soon and everything works out xx

Thanks! Family and friends have been great though obviously no one knows how to guide me.

I am going to let him come back in to the spare room which probably sounds crazy to you but part this grief is two fold, there's the grief of what he's done and then the grief of loosing him and from that stems the difficulty in bringing a new born home alone.

Not long, I think (and again I'm not making excuses) he has a mental problem, whether he's severely depressed or is bipolar I don't know but there's something about the way he conducts life as a whole that isn't right. He basically joined some websites to meet women on and ended up sleeping with one of them - that's playing it down massively!x

You seem to be thinking it through Belfa, and taking things into account.
Did you find this out or did he tell you?

I've just caught the end of This Morning, and they were talking about being able to move on after affairs/betrayal, so it can be done if that's what both sides want.

Thinking of you, and here as/when you need.

Alipops x

 

[Alipops1986]

Ali - wish I had 10hrs sleep! Think I got about 2, and feeling rotten today stomach and back pain and my throats sore I'll mention the stomach pain to midwife this morning. Xx

I'm struggling to keep awake at the moment - I don't remember feeling this constant tiredness last time! x

 

[Belfa]

Yeah it was quite spooky that that was on This Morning!

No I found out as I had to use his laptop and because it's a Mac book it syncs with his phone!

Just had my booking in and am going for a scan on Thursday to check everything's okay x

 

[Sugar10]

That's a cruel way to find out belfa but least you know now and can figure out the best way forward for you all. Great news about the scan.
I've had my appointment , it went well. Usual paper work, height weight, etc. Back on 12th June when I'll be 9 weeks, for bloods and more paper work. We're having an early scan, so I'm looking forward to seeing that all is ok.

Still feeling lousy! like I have flu, everything hurts! not good with all kids off school! can't even rest!

 

[JustMe2017]

So sorry to hear your news Belfa it must've been such a shock for you and so so upsetting. Thinking of you and hope the scan goes OK on Thursday. We're here if you want to talk. Glad you've got your family and friends. Hang in there best you can and remember that you're not alone x

 

[Petals21]

So sorry Belfa gentle hugs hun xx

As for me im just sooo tired to the point where i could just sleep all day (if only)and nausea that seems to come and go in waves xx

 

[kathryn85]

So sorry to hear that Belfa. Hope baby is ok and good luck with the scan!

 

[Sugar10]

So feeling very sorry for myself tonight. Feeling really poorly it's not good at all. It's half term, how is this happening!!!
I've managed soup and a honey drink. Limited to what we can actually take in the first 12 weeks.

How is everyone? Apart from the fatigue and sickness! Tri 1 is tough!

Anyone got a bloat bump?! I took a pic, I'll share with you all ha ha x

 

[megsmeadow]

Hi! Belfa I really feel for you, most importantly though, put yourself and your children first! My ex led a double life in the end and ran off to Oz to 'find himself' or rather his other girlfriend who was three months pregnant! Do what's right for you, you're stronger than you think!!!!

I had an early scan this morning which showed a tiny little bean with a fluttering heartbeat all in the right place! Dated at 6+2 which is exactly where I thought we were. Relieved but still in pain so back to the GP for me!

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[Mystery26]

Here's my bloat bump crazy

 

[Alipops1986]

Morning Ladies,

I don't want to sound ungrateful but this first trimester is feeling a lot more difficult than with my son. I'm just so bloody exhausted. Beyond exhausted even! Luckily it's half term so I'm not at work, but I don't actually know how I'm going to manage I'm just so knackered all the time.

OH is away next week so I'm going to stay with my mum with Zac so she am help me out. Least that's meals and washing I don't need to worry about.

I feel like all I'm doing with my week off is sleeping. It's driving me mad!!

 

[clarep1905]

Belfa I'm so sorry you are going through this. I hope you're holding up OK...Look after yourself x

Ah lovely news Megs, It's great to have that early reassurance isn't it!

I am massively suffering with the bloat! I'm really struggling to find clothes to wear to work that hide it! I hope it goes away soon, It's so uncomfortable! x

 

[Petals21]

I have the bloated belly going on too. OH keeps saying it might be twins lol its crazy to look like 3 months prg at just 5 weeks lol

And i so know the feeling with the extreme tiredness all i want to do is sleep all day too thank goodness for half term.

Lovely news Megs xx

 

[Karenb]

Definitely got the exhaustion and bloat here too! I'm on half term too but don't get to nap with an almost two-year-old full of beans!!