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[Demerera]

Hello lovely, just popping in to say hi and sorry you're feeling low... It's such a shit journey, but as others have said its a good thing to have a good cry... It does help to get your emotions out. But do also try to make time for some good things,.. Park with the kids, meal/wine with oh etc. The next few weeks are about self preservation and you will get better. I know that feeling where you just want your baby back, and to be pg again. They do say you can be more fertile straight after a mc, so if you manage to get in the mood you could try some bd later this month and then chill and see what happens.

As you know, many of us in SS are going mad with ttc so just going to relax and see what happens... When you're ready do join us... You will have your rainbow baby I feel sure.

Massive hugs X X X X

 

[Clover]

Thanks Becky
I'm feeling a bit better, I know I'll have ups and downs , I'm back at work next week and being supported by working with someone all week ( we do single and double clinics)

Tomorrow both my girls are out all day and hubby working so I'm going to take my little boy somewhere nice, there is a local farm with a playgym

I will be back over on the SS thread soon hun you girls are so lovely and supportive

xxxxx

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[J9nine]

Hope you have a lovely weekend Gail, enjoy some time with your son xx

 

[Clover]

Thanks Janine
Just seen your news over on the SS thread, I'm so unbelievably happy for you, you've been such a great friend and support to me these past few weeks/months
Please enjoy your your pregnancy, it is
the best feeling ever, cherish every moment


Xxxxxxx


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[J9nine]

Thanks Gail, you've been an inspiration. Huge hugs xx

 

[Clover]

Thanks Janine, it's lovely for you to say that, you have been a great friend and I'm so happy you've got your Bfp

Well I feel really sick today , I'm breaking out & I feel extremely exausted ...... the joy of pregnancy symptoms wouldn't mind of I was actually pregnant

I've bee googling how long a natural miscarriage takes and apparently the avarage time is 4 weeks
So I'm coming up to 4 weeks but if my baby stopped developing at around 5 weeks then it's actually 5/6 weeks as I would of been 10 week 3 days today (sad that I know that)
The more I think about it the more I think I haven't miscarried yet

xxxxxx

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[phonixgirl]

I agree, especially with those symptoms. My friend mc at 8 weeks and hers lasted 4 weeks. Can you go to the hospital and have a scan to see? Xx

 

[Demerera]

I would defo have a scan... You can still opt for the operation if you wanted, but I imagine that would be a last resort, especially if you're half way through it... So gutted you're going through this still Gail... Just want you to be out the other side. X X X X

 

[Clover]

Hey girls
I'm going to have another scan next week, I'm back at work but they said they would let me have time off for a scan , I just hope it shows that things are progressing , it sounds awful but I want to see that I've passed the pregnancy

xxxxx

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[broody2013]

All the best for your scan, it must be heartbreaking but I can understand why you want to know so at least you can start to move on and grieve. It must be awful being in limbo especially with your pregnancy symptoms as well I'm glad work are being supportive. Hugs xxxxx

 

[J9nine]

Hugs sweetie, sorry that the "process" is dragging on so much. Hopefully it will all be over soon.
Lots of love xx

 

[SiameseCatLady]

You could be right, Clover. Not sure how many weeks it took me, but it was quite a few, maybe 6-8. Then again everyeon's different. Let's hope it's not that long for you. Xxx

 

[phonixgirl]

I understand honey. At least if it's passed then you can start to grieve and you will know things should start coming to an end soon Xxx I'm back at work Tuesday. My bleeding has suddenly got a lot lighter - think I have passed it all quite quickly. Just got a headache left now xx

 

[Clover]

I'm glad you're feeling better Katie ,my bleeding is a lot lighter today too, but I know it's been like this stopping and starting so I'm not getting my hopes up that it's over yet

Siamesecatlady wow that was quite a while hun, I'm so sorry that must of been hard, I'm coming up to 4 weeks and that seems too long
I always thought miscarriage would be a lot quicker, I suppose everyone is different

Feeling really tired these past few days and really sick, I just hope I get enough energy to go to work on Tuesday

xxxxxx


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[Demerera]

Hey Gail... One thing I will say from experience, when you have the operation it is over in an hour or so, minimal pain and bleeding and so much more manageable mentally and physically. You may have passed most of it by now and no need any intervention, but it really isn't that bad if you do find you need it. I have found I need a few days off afterwards though, not really because I need it physically, more because I deserve it after the heart ache... I'm really thinking of you lovely. When is your scan? X X X

 

[Clover]

Hi Becky
I'm really regretting not going for the operation but because I passed what in thought was baby I opted not to have it, but now I'm not sure, I will see what the scan shows and tbh I will go for the op or medical management if I haven't miscarried yet as I can't wait much longer
Because I didn't have heavy bleeding or pain I'm not sure? ?
xxxxx

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[SiameseCatLady]

It wasn't nice, but I didn't actually know I was pregnant until the 'last' 3 days.
You have known all along and that is hellish
Let us know how scan goes. Xx

 

[Demerera]

Huge hugs for you Gail. This limbo has gone on long enough, you so need to be out the other side and move on... X X X X

 

[Clover]

Siamesecatlady it's been a long hard few weeks yeah, I don't know if it would have been easier if it had just happened straight away probably but I have had longer to come to terms with my loss, I'm so sorry it must of been a big shock for you xx Big hugs xx

Hey Becky
I've just read your post on the SS thread, thanks so much for being such a lovely friend and thinking of me, you are amazing
I'm going to ring the EPU tomorrow morning and book a scan, the nurse said they would advise a scan but it's up to me, so I spoke to my boss at work (we are friends and text and ring each other out of work) and she said she would make sure I coukd get a scan, so that's good
I'm still bleeding and it's like a normal full flow AF at the moment

Been feeling really down again today, had a sleep this afternoon and read a Danielle steel book ....easy reading not my usual taste now but I used to love them

xxxxxx

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[Charlotte9]

Aw Gail, so sorry you are feeling low. Once the bleeding stops it will get better and better every day! And that happy moment is not far when you get PG again. So all you have to do is continue and never give up no matter how hard it seems at the moment. x


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