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[Unicorn]

Just catching up and so sorry to read this Gail. You look after yourself xx

 

[Demerera]

Morning Gail... This may sound bad but I'm really hoping you've been quiet due to things getting going, and that you are almost out the other side now. That's when the grieving and healing can get started. It's so hard to know how you feel beforehand. We are all thinking of you lots and sending lots and lots of love X X X X

 

[Charlotte9]

Gail, it's been more than a day you haven't posted anything. Hope you are OK. Take your time to heal and rest sweetie. Hope to see you back here soon. Thinking of you. x

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[Clover]

Sorry not having a good few days

I haven't miscarried yet, just waiting for it too happen, felt unwell and shivery last night, tired today, had to put off his auntie and uncle coming round this morning just couldn't face seeing them and their baby today (my hubby was a doner for them )

Thankyou for thinking of me girls

xxxxxxx

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[J9nine]

Hugs sweetie, you know we are all here for us when you need us xx

 

[Clover]

Thanks Janine
My friend just text to say she's coming round, ive said it's fine but... I feel awful saying this but I really don't want to see anyone at the moment

xxxxx

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[Clover]

She's been round and I feel better, I think I need to stop being so misarable!!!

xxxxx

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[J9nine]

Glad you had a nice time, it is hard to face people when we're low but it does often help. xx

 

[Tonks82]

Clover it's hard you can't force yourself to feel happier hun.

2 months after my last miscarriage I went for dinner with friends and I had some kind anxiety attack once everyone was sitting at the table. I had to go to the toilet and cry. I just wasn't ready to socialise and most of them didn't even know what I'd been through.

Just take one day at a time hun.

Thinking of you xxx

 

[Emily0505]

Gail, I lost my last baby three months ago and I still get random crying attacks!

You're quite entitled to not be at your best right now!

Don't be too hard on yourself. What you're going through is awful and however you feel is ok.

XX

 

[Demerera]

Glad you saw your friend... Sometimes it's much better to talk things through and have company... When do you go back for a scan, is it Monday? Seems a long way off, wish they could see you sooner. Hope you're managing to get out and sit in the sun a bit... Your body needs lots of r&r dealing with this. Loads of love and hugs from all of us X X X X

 

[Charlotte9]

Gail, take it slow. One day at the time. Don't think yet about tomorrow, think only about today.

Hope your husband takes care of you.

Decluttering house helps too. Out with an old, in with a new.

Thinking of you xxx

 

[Slb24]

Glad your friend has cheered you up a bit Hun. I can only imagine how hard this is for you.

If you need to talk you know where I am. Xx

 

[Demerera]

Hi Gail... Just checking in to see if anything's happened yet... So worried about you lovely and thinking of you lots! When is your scan on Monday? X X X

 

[Clover]

Hey Becky thanks for worrying about me hun, ive just posted in SS thread but didn't want to go on about myself so thought I'd update here
I've come away to Skipsy sands and we are staying in a gourgous caravan right next to the sea, can see it from the window, so I'm in a much better mood than I was, at the moment it's just me and my little man but my hubby's mum and partner are coming tomorrow

Physically nothing has changed, I'm spotting very lightly no cramps or pain, feel pregnant still felt really sick yesterday after the car journey, and so tired but feel much better this morning

I've got my final scan Monday to determine viability, but as I already know it's over, it just needs confirming

I suppose then I will have to choose how I want to miscarry, it sounds horrible doesn't it?

xxxxxx



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[Demerera]

Oh bless you... It is so hard, and can be a very lonely place to be. You'll find once the physical side is over you will be able to start to get to grips with it and move on... It never leaves you, changes you as a person and makes pg much more fraught... But it also makes becoming a new mum again so very rewarding, and you will get there.

As I've said before, I've mc in all different ways, and recommend the op. Sounds awful to discuss it like this, but I found they really did get everything out and I had minimal bleeding and cramps afterwards. One day and I was up and about and feeling so much better. There are risks though so worth talking it through on Monday and go with your gut.

So hope weather stays on for you guys and your mind is taken off it this weekend. Do you have pads and painkillers with you just in case?

Heaps of love, and fx you're over this v soon X X X

 

[Charlotte9]

Oh Gail. Big hugs sweetie. Soon this will be over whichever way it goes. I hope you get some answers on Monday. Enjoy your break with your family. My thought are with you my friend xxx

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[J9nine]

My friend had the op and conceived triplets the following month - could you imagine!!!! Not sure if that would be be my best dream or worst nightmare lol x

 

[Clover]

Oh triplets! ! That would double my kiddies instantly. ..would love it

Been swimming with my little boy! It was fun and I managed to wear a tampon for an hour without bleeding at all
I know it was a risk but I would of got out of the pool if I'd of had any pains

Had an afternoon nap so now we're up we have decided we are going to the amusement & soft play area (the 4 years olds choice) and then snuggling in the caravan with a fish and chip supper (my idea haha )

Feeling relaxed

xxxxxx

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[Tonks82]

Glad you had a lovely day Clover.

Snuggles sound perfect.

I really hope your doing ok hun.
Lots of hugs xxx