Guess I belong here for now

[Clover]

Don't post much but wanted to add extra reassurance ive had three miscarriages and although none were pleasant when they were happening my body felt like it knew how to deal with them and get me threw it . I went on to have my littlest princess after the third and we are TTC now . It will make u more wary when TTC but it also will give u a strength that only people who have lost will understand and if ur like me it will make u more determined.

Thanks for sharing your experience my lovely and I'm so sorry for your losses

xxxx

Gail I am so sorry, I honestly thought it would be good news today, I am so upset for you. My thoughts are with you and your family xxx

Thanks so much for your kind words Lillith you have been such an amazing support to me xxxx

You are within your rights to asks about your options and discuss d&c if you want to go down that route. It really isn't that bad, and you might want to try to understand if they'll consider it next week if there's no growth. It's your choice and everyone feels differently about what they want, but I would opt for that every time.

Thinking of you so so much... Huge hugs X X X X

Hey Becky think it would be an option I will consider if nothing has happened naturally by next week, thanks for your support as always sweetie , you are an inspiration to me, hugs xxxx

Gail, hope this is soon in the past whichever way it goes and you can move on and enjoy your life again. Defo have a glass of wine to relax for a moment xxx

Charlotte my lovely friend, you are so amazing I really hope I'm TTC back with you soon, but hopefully you'll get your Bfp this time and you can keep my seat warm in Tri 1


xxxxxx

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[schell]

So sorry Clover. All my love xxxx

 

[Clementine]

So sorry to read your update Clover xxxx

 

[MayBMore]

I'm so sorry to be reading your update Clover I've welled up reading that ...I hope this stage will be over for you quickly and you can move on from it xx a get away break sounds perfect xx sending hugs

 

[Clover]

Thanks girls
Woke up feeling very pregnant this morning, boobs really sore feel sick
A bit of a kick in the teeth tbh no bleeding either

xxxxxx

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[Demerera]

Aw Gail, it takes an age for hcg to go down, yours might still be rising slightly too... Nature is v v cruel sometimes. No matter how hard you try you still have that voice saying "but I still feel pg!!" For your sake I hope it happens for you quickly and you don't have to wait. Good luck today Hun, will check in with you while I'm working X X X

 

[Clover]

Thanks Becky
I've been resting and dreading going to the loo all week and got excited when my bleeding stopped, but now I just want it to happen, I want to bleed I want it over with, does that sound really awful?

I don't want to feel pregnant, last night I tried to have a glass of wine and had half a glass & felt really sick, I just couldn't stomach it lol


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[Slb24]

Aaw Hun I'm sorry. I hope it happens quickly for you Hun. I would probably forget the resting and do as much activity as possible if you want to get things moving.

I really wanted this to work out positive for you, and I'm really gutted to hear what's happening

You will get your rainbow Hun. Try and focus on that at this difficult time

So sorry again. Xx

 

[Clover]

I'm not resting now I'm doing everything I can to get it moving, the strange thing is I'm actually bleeding less than I have the past week!
I'm focusing on getting through this then getting healthy so I'm in a better position to TTC

I'm thinking of buying a necklace to remember my baby, ive seen one I like, I can't wear rings at work but a small delicate necklace would be ok

How are you doing Shelly? I'm sorry I'm not going over to Tri 1 at the moment so haven't seen how you're doing, please still come on here and let me know how your scan goes

xxxxxx

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[Charlotte9]

Gail, I'm thinking of you sweetie. It's a very good idea about a small necklace. Maybe you can buy the beads and make it yourself. It will be very special one. Made with love and new hopes. xxxx

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[J9nine]

My friend named her baby and has a necklace with the baby's initials on it. I thought that was very sweet x

 

[lillith112]

I'm not resting now I'm doing everything I can to get it moving, the strange thing is I'm actually bleeding less than I have the past week!
I'm focusing on getting through this then getting healthy so I'm in a better position to TTC

I'm thinking of buying a necklace to remember my baby, ive seen one I like, I can't wear rings at work but a small delicate necklace would be ok

How are you doing Shelly? I'm sorry I'm not going over to Tri 1 at the moment so haven't seen how you're doing, please still come on here and let me know how your scan goes

xxxxxx

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I would do exactly the same Gail, you need to move on and grieve. I would do lots of exercise, eat plenty of healthy foods and smoothies to get things moving as awful as it sounds, I would want closure. Resting may of prolonged the inevitable. I miscarried while at my mums house, it wasn't pleasant but after it was all over you can grieve and move on. I had to have counselling too as it destroyed me for a while and I blamed myself. We are all here for you hunny and we feel your pain. I wrote a letter to my baby, it was painful but it really helps. A little memory box is a good idea too. My inbox is there if you need me. Hugs to you xxxxxxxx

 

[Slb24]

I love the necklace idea I'm pretty sure you can get them with a baby foot charm? That would be lovely.

I hope everything happens a naturally for you Hun. I agree you should carry on as normal and get as healthy as possible

I wish you the best of luck Hun.

I'm okay thanks. The spotting comes and goes. I'm just anxiously waiting for my scan. I will do Hun. Thank you for your support. It must be difficult especially with what's happening and I really do appreciate it.
Xx

 

[J9nine]

What date is your scan booked for Shelley? x

 

[Slb24]

The 22nd at 9:45. So not too far away now xx

 

[MelH999]

So sorry, even tho I'm having a break I've been dipping in and following your story. Very similar to mine in Jan. You sound very strong and determined, which is so very brave of you. I hope things soon start to move forward for you. It's weird once you know it's over, you can still think what if- but I also just wanted it to end/come away ASAP. Sex can help i read, and it got things moving for me.

I was about 5/6 weeks, and it came away at 8wk 4 days.

Take care and hope you heal well xx

 

[Demerera]

How are you this evening Gail? Any bleeding today? I hope you've been able to take your mind off it today... How are work being... Are you ok to have some time off? Thinking of you lots x X X

 

[Charlotte9]

Gail, you are very quiet today. Are you OK lovely? x

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[Jellybean34]

Thinking of you Gail xxx

 

[scn]

Just checking in to see how you're doing xx hugs xx