Guess I belong here for now

[KeelyT90]

So sorry you're no closer to knowing xxx

 

[Demerera]

Absolutely gutted for you Gail. For your own sake I would expect the worst... It's tough going through another week before you can move forward. I just feel so much for you... So much love from all of us... you're an amazing person and will get through this x x x x x

 

[Lilmisshopeful]

So sorry hun. I had the same with having to be rescanned as my sac had grew and they can't act till there's no growth or it reaches 25 mm with no hb. I did mc naturally before they intervened at about 10 weeks. And like you I had been spotting for weeks. I'm so sorry and hope you get your rainbow baby very soon xxx

 

[Slb24]

Gail I'm sorry you still don't have any definite answers. What did you measure on you last scan?

I can't imagine what you're going through. It's such a confusing time.

When will they scan you again? Xx

 

[Clover]

I am expecting the worst now it's like a nightmare I'm just sat crying I just want this to be over



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[MillersMissus]

Oh Gail, I'm so sorry xx

 

[MrsS15]

The fact this is dragging on is making this so much worse for you I feel for you so much xxx

 

[Emily0505]

Oh sweetheart I'm so sorry.

I don't know whether it will help or not, but I don't think you are in limbo anymore really hun. They can't see a heartbeat or a fetal pole and you're measuring so far behind. The only thing that is growing is the sac and you should be able to clearly see a baby by now. You're so certain of your dates too that there's no way you could be so far out.

I think it's so bad that you can't get any help yet but I guess the hospital had to stick to it's policies as they are in place for a reason.

I know it's so hard to accept what's happening and you've been told the worst, then told that was wrong and it's only normal to pray for a miracle. But, for your own sake, for your own self preservation I would try and assume the worst and come to terms with it.

You have fought so long and hard to get here and it's so very unfair that it's been taken from you. You've coped so well and handled yourself with such dignity. You are an inspiration to do many women on here, to never give up on your dream of becoming a mummy.

It all feels so hopeless now but one day, when you hold that tiny baby in your arms and you look down into that little perfect face, all of this will have been worth it. That's what I have to tell myself every day when it all feels too much.

Big hugs sweetheart.

XX

 

[MrsS15]

Emily you put that so perfectly, I 100% agree with you. Gail, I'm so sorry xxx

 

[Jellybean34]

Gail I'm so sorry, I hope whatever is meant to happen happens quickly whatever that might be and that you're not left waiting and are able to move forward.

I'm so so sorry it wasn't more positive news xxx

 

[J9nine]

Sorry lovely, all this confusion and waiting must be so frustrating on top of an already difficult situation. Big hugs, thinking of you xxx

 

[Clover]

Thanks girls to all of you I really appreciate your kindness

Emily I totally agree with what your saying and I was in tears reading your post

I know I will get my baby but not this time, this angel wasn't meant to be, and however much I want to keep her I know I must let her go

goodnight chocolate chip, mummy loves you

xxxxxxx


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[J9nine]

xx

 

[Emily0505]

She'll never really be gone hun.

She'll live on in your heart forever.

XX

 

[MrsS15]

Aw Gail, I'm in tears for you! Say goodbye to your baby however you need to. We know how you feel and feel all your heartache xxx

 

[naomi88]

Gail I am so so sorry. I am in tears for you like others have said it sounds like you have you answer now but frustrating that you still have to wait before you can start the process of moving forward. Hopefully things will start to happen naturally.

Thinking of you and sending a virtual hug your way. Xxxxx

 

[Charlotte9]

Gail, this is so heartbreaking

So sorry my lovely. It's horrible no one can't do anything about this. It's a very sad situation. Try and look around you. You've got loving husband and 3 wonderful children. Give the a big hug and a kiss for being big part of your life . They love you and will help you get through this.
You will have your baby very soon xxx

 

[Crazycatwoman]

Gail, I am really sorry to hear this sad news.
All the girls are completely right what they say, you are an inspiration. You help me forward month after month x
I hope things will get better soon for you rely quick xxx

We all love you to chocolate chip xxxxx

 

[Petit Pois]

Oh no I'm so sorry Clover. As sad as it is I hope you can move forward really soon.

Be kind to yourself, sending you lots of love xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[MrsRoger]

Clover.....I have no words to convey how much admiration I have for your strength, but also complete and utter sadness and heart break for your loss. My heart aches for you

I wish I could come and find you and give you a cuddle.

Stay strong my beautiful friend xxxxx