Guess I belong here for now

[MrsS15]

You've got every right to moan Gail. The limbo feeling must be awful! Stay on bedrest until Monday and go from there. Try not to overthink things at the mo! Still keeping everything crossed for you xx

 

[Clover]

It's doing my head in Leah!!! I thought today I'd rather be at work than off sick I work full time and I'm just not used to laying in bed, I sat on the sofa for a few hours this morning and watched some Breaking bad with Hubby as my LO was at nursery, so that was nice but this afternoon I just feel so down and depressed

Hubby has booked the weekend off work, I normally spend the weekend with my little boy taking him to the park or playgym depending on the weather, I'm going to miss that this weekend, hubby is going to take him out somewhere

I know I shouldn't moan but I just want to know now so I can get back to living

xxxxxxx

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[Slb24]

You will know soon Hun. Waiting is the worst part I know.

No it's stopped again now. It's bloody confusing! Lol

You've waited longer than me so don't worry about it Hun xx

 

[broody2013]

Massive hugs Gail xxxxx

 

[Slb24]

Maybe when they're back you can have cuddles, snacks and a film in bed with your little one? That would make a lovely afternoon xx

 

[Clover]

I'm snuggling in bed with my little boy now, he wanted his mummy

Thanks Broody big hugs to you too my lovely, I know how hard AF is

xxxxxx

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[MrsS15]

I agree with Shelley, that's a fab idea. Don't feel guilty Gail, you spend all your weekends with your boy. He'll probably love a weekend with Daddy spoiling him and you can have a lovely night together when they're back. Its only for a few days hun, just think of all the mental days you have in work and sink back into the sofa!

I totally don't blame you for how you're feeling, you're stuck in total limbo with no idea what's going on. We'd all feel exactly the same! Monday will be here before you know it and you'll hopefully know for definite what's happening. I'm thinking of you lots xx

 

[Slb24]

Aaww I love cuddles in bed with my little girl. She can't sit still longer then 10 minutes though haha xx

 

[Clover]

My little boy fell asleep cuddling

I 've been reading a lot about miscarriage tonight and how long it takes and how much I will bleed etc
I have been bleeding constantly for 12 days but only light bleeding a but heavier at times, I was just wandering if it is possible that I've already miscarried since Monday? I know that I hadn't then as the scan still showed sac and yolk

I'm just paranoid and scared of what's to come ...I think I've got too much time to think about it

xxxxx


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[SiameseCatLady]

Hi Clover. Can't believe this is still going on for you I can so feel your pain about worrying and being in limbo. Hellish.
To be honest, from my experience, I think you would know if you had miscarried. I bled for a long, long time before I did actually miscarry, but no brown at all. In that time, though, I had no idea I was pregnant and was doing all sorts of naughty stuff that I shouldn't have been! I do wonder as to whether or not what I as doing and eating and drinking was part of the cause... All clotty red stuff, much heavier than in your pictures, which is good.
Again, hope you understand that just trying to be honest and still wishing and hoping that all is ok.
I think you have reasons to be hopeful. Babies grow at different rates as you know.
xx

 

[SiameseCatLady]

Also, to remake my point, it is very obvious when you miscarry - it's horrific...and I am so sure that you would know for sure. Details, I won't scare you with, but I feel you would know. Xxx

 

[Demerera]

My experience of mc isn't so bad... Lots of cramping and you would know the day you pass most of it so don't think you've missed it, but mine have been like very heavy periods. Lots of pain killers, hot water bottle and bed and I've not been too bad. My natural mcs have been a little bit earlier though, as had d&c or whatever they call the op now for the 2 I've had around the 10 week mark. I'm so hoping this is your take home baby, but if not and you face a decision on what to do, I would recommend the op, over much faster and not painful at all. Mentally easier to cope with as well I think. Not sure if others will agree but this has been my experience and I've had 2 of these, once taking a tablet to pass it and 4 times I've naturally passed them, normally around the 6 week mark.

I'm willing this to work for you... You do hear stories all the time of ladies who bled right the way through tri 1, and went full term... But often better to keep yourself prepared for the worst until you know more...

Massive hugs to you Gail. You may not feel it at times but you've been so strong, if anyone deserves a happy outcomes it's you X X X

 

[Slb24]

Clover you will know Hun. I had really really sharp pains. I've never felt anything like it before. That was the clue for me. It hurt to put pressure on my stomach and it hurt to go to the toilet. My hcg was being monitored and the blood test after showed my hcg had dropped. So I am pretty certain that was the day I lost the baby. Personally I only spotted. But I had a really heavy bleed before I found out I was pregnant (about 10dpo) and my hcg was going up at this point.


You will defo know Hun. Bleeding is okay sometimes xx

 

[Clover]

Siamesecatlady
Thanks again for bring so kind, I know you've had experience of m/c and I appreciate your support and advice, I'm trying to stay positive and hopeful, it's almost 2 weeks since this nightmare began but it seems like much longer
I don't think I've miscarried yet, my bleeding hadn't been heavy enough
I'm thinking because I'm on bed rest it may be delaying the miscarriage? If that's possible?

Becky thsnks for being so lovely ,I'm thinking about the option of a D&C if it is bad news on Monday as I've heard recovery is better and I would be back to normal quicker, I will definitely consider it as an option if they offer it

I still want to stay hopeful but don't want to be kidding myself either

whatever the outcome pregnancy will never be the same again

xxxxxxx



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[Clover]

Hey Shelly
how are you feeling today?
I've woke up feeling really nauseaus so perhaps a good sign? All my symptoms are still strong, sore boobs peeing a lot, nausea on and off
I know it's because I have hcg in my body and it doesn't mean that my baby is ok but stupidly I feel reassured by my symptoms

xxxxxxx

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[Charlotte9]

Oh Gail, this waiting part is the worst. Also since you can't do much around the house makes the time go slow. Its already weekend and Monday is just around the corner.

I will pray for you and hope its good news hun!

Hugs xxx

 

[Clover]

Thanks Charlotte
I know it's not long to wait now, time just goes so slowly at the moment!

In a way I'm dreading Monday and really don't want to know
xxxx

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[Charlotte9]

Gail, not knowing is very hard cause you are constantly analysing everything. One moment it feels ok, the next not so.

I hope Monday is a good day for you and you get some answers lovely.

Fx for you xxx

 

[Slb24]

I'm okay Hun thanks. Symptoms are a good thing, if your hcg was lower they would be going or less noticeable.

I've just nipped up town with my daughter and got another clear blue. I got my 3+ today (I was 5 weeks yesterday) so I'm hoping that can only be good news xx

 

[xxSparklesxx]

Just checking in on you clover, really hope you get good news on Monday. It certainly seems positive that ur bleeding is light, uv not had bad cramps and still have pg symptoms.

My experience of MC was around the 8-9 week mark (where u are now) I lost all symptoms and the pain / blood loss was awful. I was not prepared at all for it. Iv heard it's worse the further along you are, which may explain why others liken it to a heavy period.

I'm not trying to scare you (or anyone else) but I really don't think u have MC without knowing

Keep resting and don't lose hope xxxx

Congratulations on ur 3+ slb xxx