***December babies! Tri 2 :) ***

[1sttimer]

Hi ladies, I just wanted to let you all know that my husband and I lost our little miracle last weekend. My waters broke last Thursday for no apparent reason at 15+4 and so by the time I got to the hospital there was no amniotic fluid left for the baby to survive. I then had to go through a managed miscarriage including labour 2 days later on the Saturday. I've just been at home for the week and today am back at work. I'm completely heart broken and if I'm honest I'm not sure how we will get over this after a previous MC and a 3 year wait for our little miracle which will now never be. It just seems so unfair. So, as you can imagine I will be staying off the pregnancy forum for a while. I need to get my head on straight and just try and get back to a place where we can start again although I don't think it's likely that I will ever be able to enjoy a pregnancy now.

I wish you all the very best of luck with your little bundles and hope to back one day in the future with some good news. God knows we need it. xxx

 

[Skyeway]

I'm so sorry to hear that 1st timer. Must be so awful for you and your partner. I'm thinking of you and praying for you in this hard time xo

 

[vic30]

I'm incredibly sorry to read this. I'm absolutely devastated for you. I'll light a candle for your little one tonight. Sending lots of love xxx

 

[MrsS15]

Helen, I think my heart just broke a little for you. Sorry just doesn't seem enough what a cruel cruel world after what you went through! I'm so so sad for you
If you aren't ready to be at work then take more time, although I understand if it gives you distraction. Be as kind to yourself as you can! It's going to take you time to get to a point you want to try again, but I do hope you manage to get there and don't have as long to wait.

I'll be thinking of you loads. Sending you every hug xxxxx

 

[Joeypops]

I'm so sorry to read this. I really don't know what to say but I'm thinking of you. Take care of yourself, it'll take time to heal x

 

[Baby Pickle]

Helen, there are no words I am so, so sorry, I cannot even begin to imagine what you've been through and how you must be feeling. Thinking of you xx

 

[CLL94]

Oh I'm so sorry to hear this.... Can't even begin to imagine what your going through xxxxx

 

[sunshinekim]

1sttimer I am so so sorry to hear what you and your partner are going through, my thoughts are with you xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Lulu90]

Helen, I honestly have no words. I'm truly sorry this happened to you and your OH. Sending you all my love xx

 

[imo]

I am so sorry to hear that. Xxx

 

[GF91]

So very sorry Helen ❤️❤️❤️❤️

 

[Debz34]

So sorry to hear this 1st timer. My thoughts are with you xx

 

[Belfa]

So sorry, my heart goes out to you xx

 

[claireyt]

1sttimer I am so sorry, words are not enough, you are in my thoughts xx

 

[candymycandy]

So so sorry 1sttimer. I don't have any words of comfort but just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you. Please take care of yourself xx

 

[LisaFletcher]

I'm due 5th December

 

[emma241179]

Helen I am absolutely devastated for you- reading your post through tears.. I am so, so sorry. I know there is nothing anyone can do or say to take away your pain but I hope that time will heal some of the hurt and that you and your husband can come to a decision that you're both comfortable with in terms of the future. You can and will get through this- us women are made of pretty amazing stuff. Believe in yourself.. The sun will shine again, its just going to take time. Rest in peace to your little angel xxx

 

[Mumbear]

omg Helen I'm so sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you xxxx

 

[Ser19]

Hi all, later to join but due on 22nd if I could be added to the list please!

1sttimer, I am so sorry to hear about your loss, and my thoughts are with you and your partner! I lost a baby at 15 weeks and went through the labour miscarriage so know how awful and emotional it is! It took me a long time, and many counselling visits, and I've never 'got over it' but it really does get easier! Keep strong and I'm sure you'll get through it!

 

[sunshinekim]

I'm due 30th December, can I please be added x