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December 2018 Testing Thread

I don't know? I'll test again Thursday. I can literally not stop crying today, went to see my nan with dementia yesterday and was so heartbreaking, she's basically a cabbage now can't speak or do anything.but the odd moment she'd grab my hand and kiss it and speak some clear words. Sorry I know this has nothing to do with here but I'm so upset. I don't know if more emotional cause of the time of month. Have you tried evening primrose oil char? I've heard good things! Also hopefully em, let us know tomorrow. Oh and I've never had the yellow cm it was like snotty sorry tmi,, and only that one day. Xx
 
I don't know? I'll test again Thursday. I can literally not stop crying today, went to see my nan with dementia yesterday and was so heartbreaking, she's basically a cabbage now can't speak or do anything.but the odd moment she'd grab my hand and kiss it and speak some clear words. Sorry I know this has nothing to do with here but I'm so upset. I don't know if more emotional cause of the time of month. Have you tried evening primrose oil char? I've heard good things! Also hopefully em, let us know tomorrow. Oh and I've never had the yellow cm it was like snotty sorry tmi,, and only that one day. Xx

So sorry to hear about your nan hun, i bet that is absolutely heartbreaking to see <3 We are all here for eachother us ladies on here no matter what the topic so don't be sorry!
I have tried EPO and it didn't make much difference for me at all. I suppose i am just one of the odd ones that doesn't get it. Really hope you have a shy bean <3 x
 
I don't know? I'll test again Thursday. I can literally not stop crying today, went to see my nan with dementia yesterday and was so heartbreaking, she's basically a cabbage now can't speak or do anything.but the odd moment she'd grab my hand and kiss it and speak some clear words. Sorry I know this has nothing to do with here but I'm so upset. I don't know if more emotional cause of the time of month. Have you tried evening primrose oil char? I've heard good things! Also hopefully em, let us know tomorrow. Oh and I've never had the yellow cm it was like snotty sorry tmi,, and only that one day. Xx

Aww loumaro04 my nan had dementia and I know exactly how you feel. I’m so sorry your going through this. You can talk about anything on here. It’s such a tough and emotional time to be going through trying to conceive and going through that as well. Don’t be tough on yourself. Having a good cry and letting it out is good for you xx
 
@SockVortex - i think you should go straight in and use your FRER, 12dpo i think you will get the answer hun. Good luck :dust:

Thanks, I’m really not feeling confident. My husband is, strangely, but I think that’s just going to make it more sad when it turns out I’m not pregnant.

I feel like my body is playing tricks on me: I’m hot when everyone else in the office is cold, I have shooting pains in my breasts, twinges in my pelvic area and I’ve felt sick every day since ovulation. This isn’t fair :(

Edit:: My phone really doesn’t like this website
 
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Thanks, I’m really not feeling confident. My husband is, strangely, but I think that’s just going to make it more sad when it turns out I’m not pregnant.

I feel like my body is playing tricks on me: I’m hot when everyone else in the office is cold, I have shooting pains in my breasts, twinges in my pelvic area and I’ve felt sick everyd siovulation. This isn’t fairensn

I’d also say FMU is the best for testing too so unless you’ve saved it in a pot from this morning (I’ve done this before!) then maybe wait until tomorrow with your FRER? X
 
I tested on the 14th but looked negative but still no AF.

What should I do?
 
Sorry to hear about your nan Lou, that must be heartbreaking :hug:

Snot like CM is supposed to be a good sign, but our bodies can also play tricks on us. Test again tomorrow morning maybe. X
 
AF hasn't arrived yet but i'm getting achy legs which i always get when my period is due, so i'm thinking it'll arrive later today or tomorrow.

Why is it that when you're TTC everything you see is baby related? Or it seems to be shoved in your face at every given moment!

I'm going to keep thinking positive thoughts for my next cycle, as the month we did get pregnant, i did seem to relax more and have more of a positive attitude. I'm just so impatient!

I'm hoping at least one of us on here gets a BFP soon. It seems like it's been a while, and especially for Christmas, would be so lovely!!
 
AF hasn't arrived yet but i'm getting achy legs which i always get when my period is due, so i'm thinking it'll arrive later today or tomorrow.

Why is it that when you're TTC everything you see is baby related? Or it seems to be shoved in your face at every given moment!

I'm going to keep thinking positive thoughts for my next cycle, as the month we did get pregnant, i did seem to relax more and have more of a positive attitude. I'm just so impatient!

I'm hoping at least one of us on here gets a BFP soon. It seems like it's been a while, and especially for Christmas, would be so lovely!!

xoxo - I hope AF stays away for you! I totally feel you. I was shopping last Friday and every shop i went in there was a newborn baby. I felt like they were following me round the shopping centre haha!
I have tried to be lot more relaxed this cycle, taking away the temping (which i don't think has helped because now i don't know what the hell is happening lol)
We really need to get some more bfp's ladies. Its been very slow and quiet xx
 
xoxo - I hope AF stays away for you! I totally feel you. I was shopping last Friday and every shop i went in there was a newborn baby. I felt like they were following me round the shopping centre haha!
I have tried to be lot more relaxed this cycle, taking away the temping (which i don't think has helped because now i don't know what the hell is happening lol)
We really need to get some more bfp's ladies. Its been very slow and quiet xx

It really has been slow! Hopefully we get a rush of bfps :)
 
Aw really? So sorry.. Its very hard, it feels like she's trapped in that body, and she wants to get out. She's on stage 6/7 I think so it's just a cruel way to be alive. I feel for all you ladies i really hope we get loads of bfps too. Do you use the fertility lube? I literally didn't do anything this cycle wasn't sure on ov so Did it ever other day or every couple didn't temp either. I've just done another cheap test I'll attach a pic in a min xx
 
Maybe not its not letting me there's a faint line and wanted opinions xx
 
Well i am 14dpo and spotting red / pink blood and have cramps this morning :(
I was shocked & upset as my temp has spike 0.2!
I actually really hate my bbt thermometer as like i said previous i have to take a few readings before its truly accurate but today got same reading twice so went with it only to now be pre af spotting! I finish cycle no 12 and enter cycle no 13 a year ago i was ttc so December cycle / this one now starting marks the official year from where it all began :(

I know how you feel Kirsten as I am in pretty much the same position, I came off the pill at Christmas last year and never thought for one minute that I wouldn't be pregnant by this Christmas :(. Silly I know and lots of people have longer journeys too but it's hard to stay positive after 12 months.
 
Em your temp dip could be implantation? Fingers crossed for you! Xx
 
How are you finding not temping Char? I'm not temping this cycle either and not sure if it's better or worse really! I'm glad not to have seen the tell tale dip that means AF is on the way though!

I caved and tested yesterday, I never test early! BFN at 11DPO. I wasn't feeling particularly positive for this cycle any way so just waiting for AF to arrive now.
 
Looking forward to seeing your potential line Loumaro!
 
I know how you feel Kirsten as I am in pretty much the same position, I came off the pill at Christmas last year and never thought for one minute that I wouldn't be pregnant by this Christmas :(. Silly I know and lots of people have longer journeys too but it's hard to stay positive after 12 months.

yeh it is quite difficult. i hope & pray happens soon, ideally next one! ive always wanted a September baby n' all so never know!
im more upset with my bbt, as it went up 0.20. so i woke up so happy, like yes this is it.. to go to loo & yeh... have you had any tests done?
 

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