Ttc shit boat - long term ttcers

[angel6901]

Hi Lavinator !!
I'm a newbie to the boat too only been TTC 12 months for #2 but TTC for nearly 2 years for my first
Are you TTC your first baby?
Hope your stay on the boat isn't too long xxxx

 

[snowbee]

Welcome aboard folks, as always hope your stay is as short as possible here!

I'm now on CD28. Couldn't help myself as tested this morning and bfn. My last two cycles were 26 and 27 days. I knew my body wouldn't play ball for long And I didn't opk this cycle so who knows if af is even imminent.

 

[Lavinator]

Hi angel6901! Yes we're trying to conceive our first. I'm hoping it will be a short stay too and I will be off before winter �� did you conceive your first naturally after 2 years?

 

[Blueflower]

Greetings from Turkey! Some very cute babies and toddlers around the pool in adorable little towel cape things with hoods and ears! What are they called? Do they do them for adults? Without the ears of course!

Not too many pregnant bellies luckily but today I saw a pregnant woman smoking, the bitch. Several times. Wanted to hit her. I wonder what she would have said if I'd told her that we've been trying for nearly 4 years, had 3 unsuccessful IVF attempts and have been told that might be it. She'd probably say it wasn't meant to be. Very angry.

 

[millielaura]

Oh Blueflower what a horrid thing to see on your holiday . Some women do not know how lucky they are, I hate seeing pregnant women smoking!! There's beena few women smoking I've seen recently whove had little babies in prams and smokes blowing all over baby. Makes me furious!

Really hope you're having a good holiday awww adult towel capes would be so cool!! Xx

 

[Violet]

Hi Lavinator. I hope your stay is a short one.

Oh blueflower I hate seeing pg women smoke or drink too. Feel sorry for the baby.

I love the hooded towels for kids too . Wanna get one for D for when we go away. Hope you are having a good time and relaxing out there. Would love to have a holiday abroad.

 

[snowbee]

Well I think I'm out again. Spotting a bit today so will either be CD1 today or tomorrow. Poop, I quite fancied a Feb 16 baby. Would settle for March 16 instead I guess! How is everyone else? Anyone close to getting ashore?

 

[millielaura]

Oh I'm sorry snowbee March 16 baby for you I'm sure of it!!

I'm having another scan tomorrow to see if my follies have grown! Fingers crossed that they have and I can be in with a chance this cycle xxx

 

[angel6901]

Aww snowbee
Really hope it's not AF
But if it is Fingers crossed for a March baby

I'm CD 13 just waiting to Ovulate
Had a scan on Friday that showed 3 follicles 15 16 and 18mm and my lining was 10mm

DTD last night and planning on getting as much action as i possibly can for the next few days
Got loads of Ewcm yesterday and today but no positive opk yet

Good luck for your scan Tomorrow Millie I can't wait to hear how big your Follies have grown
If you have already Ovulated will they be able to tell you? xxxx

 

[snowbee]

Thanks ladies, good luck with your follicles! Bit bummed as it is a year this week since our mc and not a hint of a bfp since. I wouldn't mind it taking a long time if I knew for sure we would end up with a baby in the end, it is the not knowing if it will ever happen that is the worst.

 

[millielaura]

Thanks Emma
Really hope they've grown. Doubt I ovd already as they where small but yeah if I have think they will see the ruptures follicle! Eeeek!! Really hope they have grown!

It's definitely the not knowing thats the worst snowbee . Xx

 

[Blueflower]

Thanks ladies, good luck with your follicles! Bit bummed as it is a year this week since our mc and not a hint of a bfp since. I wouldn't mind it taking a long time if I knew for sure we would end up with a baby in the end, it is the not knowing if it will ever happen that is the worst.

So true. People who tell you to relax and it will happen annoy me cos there's the chance it might not. But when I've told people we might have to give up they start asking about adoption! They don't realize you can't just jump from unexplained to acceptance to adoption!

 

[millielaura]

My mum said if it was her she wouldn't even do Clomid and would "just adopt". I'm like you can't "just adopt" ahh.. it's still expensive and time consuming and have to go through lots of process's etc.
Shows how much she does not understand at all if she think thats would be easier than just clomid lol! Xx

 

[Blueflower]

Have you told her everyone keeps their babies these days so you'd only get an older child with problems and still have to be in contact with the birth family? It's not like in the old days where you got a baby of a few weeks old and its as good as yours. That might change her mind.

 

[millielaura]

Nope but think I will tell her that next time she mentions it lol! Xx

 

[Foxy24]

Hey ladies,

Can anyone tell me what raspberry leaf tea does?
Might be a silly thought but I'm having a internal ultrasound done at the end of the month and don't know if I should be drinking it, I here it does something to your lining? I'm having it done because a keep getting spotting.

Xx

 

[Dee28]

It's meant to help tone your uterus and encourage blood flow and a good lining. Only to be taken up to ovulation as it can also cause uterine cramping xx

 

[Foxy24]

So it's still ok to drink even though I'm having a ultrasound? Xx

 

[Dee28]

I don't see why not x

 

[Foxy24]

Ok great thanks! After my blood test and my husband test was messed up I don't want anything to go wrong this time!

Xx