Ttc shit boat - long term ttcers

[stacesl3]

Morning all,

Dolly, I do admire your self control I haven't tested yet as I said this month I am going to 'try' not to and just wait for AF! So far so good. Thanks lisey I hope so, lets hope the timing was spot on for us both and we finally get off this damn boat!

I have a thing about looking at car registrations....(i know i am a weirdo lol) a few weeks back i saw one with bfn on it and i thought it was a bad sign! Well today I saw one with BFP!!!! It made me smile, so I'm gonna take it as a good sign

I hope Andrea's okay, she hasn't been on for a while x

 

[Andreax2]

Hey lovely ladies I'm back on board ! Just went 4 a paddle !
Was getting soooo fed up and switched off 4 abit had a great weekend away with my girlfriends 2 Barcelona we belly laughed the whole time it was just what I needed , hope every 1 is doing ok, il catch up on what every1s been doing later just wanted 2 do a quick post x

 

[lisey]

Stace, I am like that with number plates too, always notice ttc abbreviations on them! I think the BFP is a good sign

Yey Andrea, pleased to see you back, was wondering where you had got to. Glad you had a lovely time with friends xx

 

[MelC2011]

Hey girls how is everyone?

I'm cd2 today so another cycle gone.
Getting fed up and sea sick now!
xx

 

[lisey]

Sorry Mel, we all need to get off of here soon, the sea sickness is annoying...I want morning sickness instead xx

 

[dolly26]

Well ladies I had lots of cm yesterday and ov pains today so here's hoping but it's quite an early ov as I am only cd 9 but I am a bit out of whack after my op. But managed to dtd last night as no chance tonight due to oh working late

 

[lisey]

Have you done an opk dolly? Ov could still be a couple of days off, I get twinges sometimes for a couple of days beforehand. Great that you bd'd though so covered either way xx

 

[dolly26]

I used to but not anymore I just sort of go with the signs my body gives me. Just got fedup of knowing and then the symptom spotting drove me nuts so now it's just bd as much as possible and af shows then on to the next month. And I have found I am a lot less stressed about ttc.

 

[snowbee]

CD34 here. Had a 38 day cycle last time so expecting that again as I think I'm 10dpo (apart from not convinced I ovd as no tender breasts that I get after ov and no pos opk only a very nearly pos). Not hopeful for this cycle so just want to get on with the next now. Really hoping my cycles get shorter as I'm running out of time for my natural bfp and want as many chances as possible before Feb.

How is everyone else doing?

 

[snowbee]

How are your ohs coping with ltttc? Mine is getting quite depressed about it all and I'm feeling bad about it as the issues we are having are mine not his.

 

[Sugarpop]

I am in the same boat. Hubby is fine & it's all my fault basically. My hubby doesn't really talk about it. He is a bit of a joker so he'll have a joke or two when I say It's my fault or whatever but he always says its not my fault & theres nothing we can do about it other than get any help available.

It's definitely a difficult situation to be in because I always blame myself & think it's down to me that he isn't a father yet. On the other hand, I KNOW that I will have a child one day because I simply can not and have never imagined my life without children in it. One way or another I will be a mum & that's all that matters really. Shouldn't matter how you get there, as long as we all do.

 

[dolly26]

My oh won't even talk about ttc but that's just his way. And I don't breathe a word about when ov is cause I learnt a long time ago if I do that he then feels under pressure to perform

 

[Dee28]

We both have problems but my hubby just says we'll keep trying...I don't think he knows what else to say really. He hates me being upset.

I did a frer this morning at 11dpo and bfn so no miracle bfp for me this month xx

 

[snowbee]

I'm also 11dpo and also had a bfn this morning. Poop.

 

[Dee28]

Poop indeed

 

[stephfoz]

& me, 11dpo & bfn!!! On 2 october it is then xx

 

[stacesl3]

Morning

Hey Andrea - talk of the devil glad you had a nice break, I really liked Barcelona, sounds like you had a blast.

sorry about the bfn Dee, snowbee & steph big hugs xx

well I realised today I worked my cycles out wring, thought i was due AF Sunday but its Monday....which means if I am determined to wait to test I still have another 4 days........... nooooooooooooooooooooo

 

[lisey]

Sorry about the bfns ladies
Stace, I waited til AF due date last month, don't know how I did it!! The last few days drag. I am going to test at 12dpo this time, I think xx

 

[stacesl3]

I just made a deicsion from the start of the tww not to test this month and hopefully will see it through, I have days where I think 'hmmm could i be' and then today I feel a bit down and convinced Im not! I think next month I may test around 12dpo as well........ providing of course I dont get my bfp this month
x

 

[lisey]

Fingers crossed you wont need to be testing next month xx