Ttc shit boat - long term ttcers

[Andreax2]

Happy pf anniversary for tomorrow Andrea mine was last month, stil waiting on my bloody upgrade!! Ive just noticed im still only pf savvy nit made it to an addict yet lol

Ive never sold anything on ebay bht keep meaning to as I have loads of dresses etc that I have only worn once or twice and unlikely to wear again, too good for the charity shop!

Its officially lazy Monday.

Lol staces, just goes 2 show how sad I am ! Happy pf bday 4 last month !

 

[lisey]

I joined a year ago 2moz after stalking this site 4 ages , I wanna upgrade 2 first tri !
Def sucks being in here and seeing so many people come and go x

I am feeling like this, so many people join and get pregnant, you see their labour thread pop up on 'todays posts' and the realisation hits that I am still here trying and wonder where the time has gone. I can't imagine being pregnant again, it feels like it won't happen xx

 

[Andreax2]

That's the scary thing I can't imagine being pregnant either I'm sure I didn't feel like this last year I remember thinking it will happen its just taking its time , all I know is I can't b doing the same thing 2 myself this time next year il just b a broken person , I hate 2 put a time limit on ttc put I'm def getting 2 that point , and although I can never c myself being pregnant I can't imagine not having another child , that's the conflict if that makes sense ? X

 

[Sugarpop]

I joined a year ago 2moz after stalking this site 4 ages , I wanna upgrade 2 first tri !
Def sucks being in here and seeing so many people come and go x

I am feeling like this, so many people join and get pregnant, you see their labour thread pop up on 'todays posts' and the realisation hits that I am still here trying and wonder where the time has gone. I can't imagine being pregnant again, it feels like it won't happen xx

I feel the same and tend to stay away from all of the other sections these days...just stay here in TTC. I'm sure it's only natural!

 

[lisey]

That's the scary thing I can't imagine being pregnant either I'm sure I didn't feel like this last year I remember thinking it will happen its just taking its time , all I know is I can't b doing the same thing 2 myself this time next year il just b a broken person , I hate 2 put a time limit on ttc put I'm def getting 2 that point , and although I can never c myself being pregnant I can't imagine not having another child , that's the conflict if that makes sense ? X

I was the same, still hopeful and thought 'it will happen eventually'. Now I am not so sure. I totally get what you mean, I always imagined a house full of children and whilst I know that won't happen now, I would love one more and can't imagine life without more children xx

I joined a year ago 2moz after stalking this site 4 ages , I wanna upgrade 2 first tri !
Def sucks being in here and seeing so many people come and go x

I am feeling like this, so many people join and get pregnant, you see their labour thread pop up on 'todays posts' and the realisation hits that I am still here trying and wonder where the time has gone. I can't imagine being pregnant again, it feels like it won't happen xx

I feel the same and tend to stay away from all of the other sections these days...just stay here in TTC. I'm sure it's only natural!

It is natural, its so hard xx

 

[stacesl3]

I have moments of pure panic when i think its just not gonna happen, I mean i feel nothing ever changes for me so why should it? But the thought of not having my own baby and never being a mum scares me so much, I tend to mentally (sometimes physically lol) slap myself and make myself believe that it will, which does help...sometimes,

It's just the waiting.... I feel my life is on hold, like I am constantly waiting for something to happen, I dont feel like i can move forward or make plans, does that make sense to anyone? or am i rambling again lol!

Another joyful TWW, one things for sure i have given up trying to be healthy in the tww, just sat and ate two bags of crisps and could totally go another

 

[Wishing84]

I can only begin to imagine how you ladies feel. We have only been trying for a few months and it is already taking over my life. I know people say just relax and it will happen. First time TTC so I worry, as I imagine do many women, that there is something wrong.

 

[Hopeful75]

Oh ladies, you type all the thoughts that are in my head!! I can't imagine the possibility that I'll never be a mum, but I also know that I can't sustain this monthly roller coaster indefinitely either.
We all are having a torrid time, each in our own way. I'm in the 'i know it's probably only a matter of time before I get a bfp chain's group, but then I don't know if I've got the strength to go through the stress another pregnancy will bring, with the possibility of more losses.
But can I just admit defeat and face the future childless? Not ready for that yet.
Come on ladies, let's dig out the oars, get stuck in and row this bloody boat to shore!!!

 

[snowbee]

stace that is just how I feel too.

I'm 11dpo and I tested this morning, don't know why just setting myself up for disappointment. Of course it was negative. I'm hopeful I did ov as I got a pos opk and had very tender breasts afterwards suggesting I did get the progesterone rise so hopefully I'm just too soon. Def going to do another soy cycle as it seems to have helped so far.

 

[lisey]

Stace, that's how I feel, like my life is on hold. I haven't achieved anything this year, I have just been focused on baby-making. I have wanted to change jobs for two years and haven't 'just in case'. I really hope we are all moving through the tris soon as its just not fair.
Hopeful, I have my oar and I am ready!!!
Sorry about the bfn snowbee, it is still early though so you're not out yet xx

 

[Andreax2]

Snowbee so sorry it was a bfn ,is this ur hsg cycle ? X
Yep would def agree life is on hold and do u Know what I'm giving it 3 month then I'm gunna book a holiday 4 next year i want something 2 look 4ward 2 bugger it !

 

[Sugarpop]

Snowbee so sorry it was a bfn ,is this ur hsg cycle ? X
Yep would def agree life is on hold and do u Know what I'm giving it 3 month then I'm gunna book a holiday 4 next year i want something 2 look 4ward 2 bugger it !

We are booking to go to Florida next year in August! Just going to pay the deposit for now and see what happens. Few of us are going so we have a couple of flight holders IF we are lucky enough to need them!

 

[Andreax2]

Good 4 u sugarpop, we def need somthing else 2 focus on !

 

[stacesl3]

Morning ladies,

Sounds lovely sugarpop, something to look forward to! sorry about the bfn snowbee

It's terrible really how this ttc takes over isn't it, i haven't been on holiday in 2 years, i also want to move from my flat but feel like i am having to wait! I agree Andrea we do need something else to focus on.....hmmm we need a plan!

 

[Andreax2]

Yeah , win the lottery ! X

 

[lisey]

Winning the lottery would be lovely.
I would love to go to Florida again (went when I was really young) and take my son but I don't know how he would handle the flight (autism and sensory processing issues).
Definitely need a new focus, don't know what though, I am trying to lose a few pounds and tone up but really ttc just makes me want to comfort eat cos its full of disappointment. Maybe I will start knitting xx

 

[snowbee]

Yes this is my hsg cycle. Not had af since my mc, had to have an induced bleed to do the hsg so hoping the soy and that will help regulate my stupid cycle.

Lottery plan sounds good, I've been buying my ticket just in case!

Where would everyone like to go on holiday then? I've wanted to go to Malta for ages but it won't be this year. Also hoping to go back to canada in 2016 as I love it there.

We had already started ttc when I went and bought my second horse, I umed and ahed about it for ages but I'm glad I did as I've had her over 18 months now and they are a good distraction and keep me out of trouble and from fretting too much.

 

[Andreax2]

Oooh would love 2 go 2 Canada and stay in a log cabin !! That would b the dream !
Snowbee u lucky thing having horses !! I think if I'm not preggers by Xmas another dog it will b !
Really hope the hsg does it 4 u hun , I know if I get af after having the hsg this month it's gunna hit my harder than other months x

 

[snowbee]

We got married in Canada so going back will be great (would also love to revisit some of the cabins we stayed in). I recommend going if you can.

I do love my horses, they really keep me sane! I'm lucky as I keep them on the farm I work on so can spend lots of time with them and they cost me very little to keep.

Have you had your hsg this month or are you waiting for it at the moment?

 

[lisey]

Oh there are so many places I would love to go to, I want to go to Mexico, Maldives, anywhere exotic but most of all would love to take my boy to Disney, we have been to the paris one which was great when he was younger but been twice now. Need to get there eventually.
Andrea, I would love another dog too but I have two already and OH has said a big fat no to anymore xx