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Thanks for responses! Am so surprised at how many people find out, only because I was ignorant and thought that most people left it for a surprise. I think it must be lovely to know, but equally lovely to leave it as a surprise.
Spoke to DH again last night and he was absolutely adamant, for the first time (before he'd been suggestive, not absolutely decided), that he doesn't want to know. This has made my mind up for me - we'll leave it and have a lovely surprise. However, also shocked at how many people find out 'by accident' particularly with boys! Fully prepared for this to happen, but we'll see.
Feeling depressed as went to my Pregnancy in Mind group and they are all ahead of me. All they kept saying was, "You're not showing yet, are you?" when I've had to get maternity leggings and knickers and my family and work colleagues all say that they can see now that I am. Stupid thing to get upset about, but hey, hormones. I have a bit of a fat belly anyway so I think people just see it as that currently
I want to look pregnant and freaks me out that something is going wrong!
Arg...
Thanks for responses! Am so surprised at how many people find out, only because I was ignorant and thought that most people left it for a surprise. I think it must be lovely to know, but equally lovely to leave it as a surprise.
Spoke to DH again last night and he was absolutely adamant, for the first time (before he'd been suggestive, not absolutely decided), that he doesn't want to know. This has made my mind up for me - we'll leave it and have a lovely surprise. However, also shocked at how many people find out 'by accident' particularly with boys! Fully prepared for this to happen, but we'll see.
Feeling depressed as went to my Pregnancy in Mind group and they are all ahead of me. All they kept saying was, "You're not showing yet, are you?" when I've had to get maternity leggings and knickers and my family and work colleagues all say that they can see now that I am. Stupid thing to get upset about, but hey, hormones. I have a bit of a fat belly anyway so I think people just see it as that currently
I want to look pregnant and freaks me out that something is going wrong!
Arg...