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Hi all.
I am 15+5 today and so 20 weeks scan not for a few weeks, but I am finding it so hard to decide as to whether or not we should find out whether we are blue or pink!
Sounds crazy, but one of hardest things to think about so far.
Before I got pregnant, I always thought I wouldn't find out, but my DH really wanted to. Then, he spoke to his friend and he said they didn't find out with first and won't with current baby and now he doesn't want to know anymore. Think he'd be alright if I decide I want to find out, but want to respect his views too.
Just at this point, I have had a change of heart and I think I might want to find out.
DH says if we find out we won't tell anyone, but I don't think I could keep it a secret if I found out, especially not from my parents or his.
Arg. This shouldn't be so hard.
Anyway, getting to the point, what are people's opinions and experiences?
Has anyone not found out and regretted it or found out and regretted it? Or are you glad you didn't did?
I think it's so hard because I had given up on becoming pregnant and it feels so unreal. Therefore, if I find out which sex, I might actually believe that it's all happening.
Thanks in advance. Xx
I am 15+5 today and so 20 weeks scan not for a few weeks, but I am finding it so hard to decide as to whether or not we should find out whether we are blue or pink!
Sounds crazy, but one of hardest things to think about so far.
Before I got pregnant, I always thought I wouldn't find out, but my DH really wanted to. Then, he spoke to his friend and he said they didn't find out with first and won't with current baby and now he doesn't want to know anymore. Think he'd be alright if I decide I want to find out, but want to respect his views too.
Just at this point, I have had a change of heart and I think I might want to find out.
DH says if we find out we won't tell anyone, but I don't think I could keep it a secret if I found out, especially not from my parents or his.
Arg. This shouldn't be so hard.
Anyway, getting to the point, what are people's opinions and experiences?
Has anyone not found out and regretted it or found out and regretted it? Or are you glad you didn't did?
I think it's so hard because I had given up on becoming pregnant and it feels so unreal. Therefore, if I find out which sex, I might actually believe that it's all happening.
Thanks in advance. Xx
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