Ladies doing their first cycle of IUI or IVF.

[MissJuly10]

I'm so sorry hun. Keeping my fx for you both as like you say, you never know. Big hugs to you both. xx

 

[LD1978]

So sorry blueflower I've been routing for you. What test did you use x

 

[Blueflower]

A First Response one. Didn't bother to try a 2nd one cos the control line came up ok.

 

[tinselcat]

So sorry to hear this blueflower, it's not fair. Fingers crossed for tomorrow in case it's just a slow start x wishing you well in all cases xx

 

[flisstebbs]

So sorry blueflower.

 

[Blueflower]

I feel quite bereft. But not giving up hope. Wee might not have been very concentrated because I woke up at 3 and had to go, but I suppose it should have shown a faint line. Not going to start on the wine until AF arrives.

 

[gemmainthesun]

Was it 14dpo? If so I wouldn't hold out much hope theres akways a little chance but I really hated people giving false hope. It doesn't happen too often first try what u need to take from this is that u can produce good quantity and quality eggs and this is the beginning not the end. All of this is crap but what ive found is its a long hard slog and u have to pick yourself up and carry on. I however sorry for u as I know what its like to have an ivf attempt fail and you meed to take time to get your head around it xx

 

[Blueflower]

Yes it is 14 days. Thanks for the advice! Why is it so hard for some of us?

 

[Lucyboo]

Hope you are ok blueflower. So sorry xxx

I'm feeling so bloated this cycle. I've gained about half a stone in about 3 days...its so uncomfortable. ..

Had my scan yest. Got some Lil follies growing nice and slow. They have reduced my nafarlin so hopefully follies will speed up a bit now xx

 

[mishi]

Sorry to hear it's a bfn Blueflower. It seems there are not many of us on here who have success with our first ivf cycle. Fingers crossed for next one.

Sorry to hear about hubby too, and I hope it's not too serious.

Have a lovely, relaxing holiday.

xxxx

 

[MissJuly10]

I'm so sorry blue flower. Was so hoping for a positive result for you. x

Lucy - glad things are rolling for you this cycle, I felt bloated when my follies were growing too, it's uncomfy but I kind of liked it in a way because I knew something was happening lol.

Well ladies, my holiday is in just a few days, I won't be able to get on here when I'm away and to be honest it'll probably do some good to have time away from everything ttc and just enjoy being us again. Looking forward to quality time with DH! We called the clinic to let them know our koans and they're happy for us to have a holiday, they said I'll need a chat and plan appointment when we get back as we might need to induce af.

My dilemma is: do we book for the week after our holiday and induce af and go ahead with round 6? Or do we hope and pray that my body behaves, my potential ov dates are actually during the week we are away but that's really hoping we ov on time.... In which case, do we put off our chat and plan a couple more weeks just in case we get a miracle BFP? Does that make sense lol. When I get back I'll be cd 21 so.... Not sure what to do really. Opinions? Not forgetting by the way, that they will probably put me on norethisterone for 10 days then I'll have to wait for af then start round 6... So it's not like we will start right away, there's more waiting involved.

The kind of person I am, I'd probably want to make sure we weren't pregnant naturally before starting again....hmm. X

 

[Blueflower]

Miss July I would wait till you get back if I were you and not think about it. It would be nice if you got a BFP on holiday, I'd like one too, but I think if you want it, it won't happen!

I had a good chat with the fertility nurse yesterday, she was so lovely it was almost like a counselling session! And we're seeing the consultant next week. I've stopped the progesterone so hopefully AF will arrive and be over before we go away.

DH has been diagnosed with a heart defect, we can't believe it. He is really healthy and only 36 and its come on suddenly. He might have to have heart surgery and we'd need to do that before continuing with IVF. What a horrible week. The only good thing is that they didn't actually do the procedure yesterday so we can still go on holiday! We so need it!

 

[Lucyboo]

Feeling bit frustrated today. Back from my day 10 scan and still not much growth. Still bleeding slightly too so my lining not up to much... They have kept me on same dose of menopur as don't want to send my ovaries into shock. Wasn't really what I was expecting to hear today. Hope Tues has better news. ��

 

[hayes]

I'm so sorry to hear that ur hubby is so unwell blueflower, I really hope u have a nice holiday n that he can treatment started as soon as he gets back. Always thinking of u hun.

Michelle.x

 

[Blueflower]

Feeling bit frustrated today. Back from my day 10 scan and still not much growth. Still bleeding slightly too so my lining not up to much... They have kept me on same dose of menopur as don't want to send my ovaries into shock. Wasn't really what I was expecting to hear today. Hope Tues has better news. ��

That's really frustrating for you. Was it similar last time? I can't remember.

 

[Lucyboo]

I didn't bleed last time this far In to stimms, AF stopped on about day 6-7 but I'm now on roughly day 12/13 of bleeding even though it's v light... On last appt saw a different lady who said I had the start of some follies though small... But today they are saying still not enough. So I've ordered another 10 days worth of menopur as almost out of it.. They want to keep me on same dosage though.. I got the one crazy follie last time which popped before egg collection... I was on 450 I us last time this time just 225.., I'm not sure whether to feel upset or what... I treated myself to some clothes in Victoria STn to cheer me up...

Sorry to hear about your hubby too blue flower... It must be a worry with everything else, a work mate of mine, her hubby had to have heart surgery last year, he was 32 and all back to normal now... Thought I'd give you a bit of positivity xxx

 

[Blueflower]

Thank you! The last thing we expected was IVF and heart surgery at the same time!
Cheering on those ovaries for you!

 

[Lucyboo]

Thanks blue flower, the bleeding has got a bit heavier this evening, like a second AF. It's got me really worried...

 

[Blueflower]

Oh no. Have you called the clinic?

 

[Lucyboo]

Left them a message but they haven't called back yet xx