Ladies doing IUI or IVF - 2016 (11 BFPs so far!)

phonixgirl · May 1, 2018

1sttimer I'm so sorry xx

Syd - you're not the only one, as I prefer them too. Only they stop my period. Hurt my bank account though!

xMillie I can totally understand the artificial insemination thing xx

xMillie · May 1, 2018

We did our first go at AI yesterday and tonight. Had peak on clear blue digi opk yesterday so I guess tomorrow is officially tww? Its so hard to tell if I ovulate sometimes. I dont temp as dont do mornings lol. So Ill just count tomorrow as 1dpo and Im sure on 15dpo Ill get my period like always. Hubby was okay with the whole AI process, I dont think he likes sex for baby making either and he said even if it doesnt work this cycle we can just do it again.

I havent even begun to think about where we go next on treatment or tests.. last time I tried thinking about it I felt overwhelmed and stressed out about the costs. Also was around the time of what would have been due date. Its weird but I actually feel loads better now that the date has been and gone. Sure it sucks but Im doing okay at the moment. Its nice to feel okay.

1sttimer · May 2, 2018

Hey ladies, just wanted to send some thanks to you all for your thoughts, this forum is so good for times like this and you're lovely. As a brief update our little dalliance with possible IVF is now off the table. The clinic have said to put it on the back burner for now and get a referral to a recurrent MC clinic. I finally MC on Monday after lots of pain and a hot bath....and tonight I plan to book a trip to Barcelona for next week. What a difference a week makes! Alas, a week of drinking, eating, laughing and remembering who we are for me and the hubs might just help reset the clock I think.

Anyway, I wanted to wish all of you good luck...Millie I've got everything crossed for your AI but NOOOOO pressure. Keep it chilled (haha as if!) and positive thoughts, remember you don't fall any harder from thinking positively.

Crazycatwoman, Syd, Phonix, Luhappymatters etc etc etc my thoughts are with you all I am rooting for you and will check in on here to see how you're all doing.. onwards and upwards! xx

Crazycatwoman · May 2, 2018

Isttimer, omg I’m realky sad and sorry to hear your bad news. I hope you are ok. I can’t imagine how you feel. Lots hugs your way xxxxxx

Millie, so first round AI fine. Fingers crossed!

I’m 9 dp IUI today really strong cramps, started mild last 2 days. Feel like she’s coming, but 5 days early ?
Lots feelings and pressure/tugging/twinges on my right side.

How is everyone else ? Xx

xMillie · May 3, 2018

Crazycatwoman said:
Isttimer, omg Im realky sad and sorry to hear your bad news. I hope you are ok. I cant imagine how you feel. Lots hugs your way xxxxxx

Millie, so first round AI fine. Fingers crossed!

Im 9 dp IUI today really strong cramps, started mild last 2 days. Feel like shes coming, but 5 days early ?
Lots feelings and pressure/tugging/twinges on my right side.

How is everyone else ? Xx

Good luck CCW. Not long left for you to wait! Do you plan on testing early? Or will you wait? xx

Im 2dpo today. Little worried we didnt cover this cycle enough but then it probably wouldnt make a difference anyway. Hoping this tww doesnt drag.

phonixgirl · May 3, 2018

CCW could be good signs?

Millie everything you write, I could too. Hubby doesn't really like sex for baby making. Thinking about next steps (costs, stress of it all) is depressing and we haven't done it much. Argghhh xx

Crazycatwoman · May 4, 2018

The cramps continue but still no bleed
Yesterday I had a 50p size blob of yellow snotty looking ewcm and then later on a bit of rusty lcoloured ewcm.
Anyone experience this ?

How is everyone ?

xMillie · May 4, 2018

Crazycatwoman said:
The cramps continue but still no bleed
Yesterday I had a 50p size blob of yellow snotty looking ewcm and then later on a bit of rusty lcoloured ewcm.
Anyone experience this ?

How is everyone ?

Hope this is a good sign, I never had anything unusual with my only bfp, just a missed period and period like cramps for days, but I know its different everyone. *Fingers crossed still* xx

Nothing new here. Just the wait til my next period I guess. Done all we could do. Im pretty tired but havent been sleeping well, think I just need some really good nights sleep!

phonixgirl · May 5, 2018

I had different CM with my chemical, I think it was similar to how you've described. I didn't have cramps as it didn't implant properly! It all sounds very positive xxx

xMillie · May 6, 2018

Any news CCW? xx

I feel like Im just counting down to af.. 5dpo. 9 more days..

I need a forum break again I think.. I probably do myself no favours hanging out in the regular ttc part of the forum. Getting green with envy everytime someone gets a bfp in their first year of trying. I started the May testing thread but its not going to do me any good.. Ill just have to stick running it until the month is up and then keep away from here.

A lot of the ladies Ive spoke to over the last year or so have got their bfp and they are then gone to the pregnancy threads. I dont know if they dont come and say hi to me because they dont want to upset me or rub it in my face or what? But Im not going over to the pregnancy part of the forum to find them.. for obvious reasons.

tinselcat · May 6, 2018

Ccw & Millie - good luck to both of you.

Millie - back in 2011 I was a major forum contributor, cheering on everyone in their journey at every stage, offering what I thought was emotional support, commenting on loads of ttc journals... Only to never hear again from those same people as they steamed through tri 1-3, gave birth and completely ignored/forgot about me. Which looking back, makes sense. They didn't owe me anything. I just regard it now a major waste of my life.

Wishing you love xx

xMillie · May 6, 2018

tinselcat said:
Ccw & Millie - good luck to both of you.

Millie - back in 2011 I was a major forum contributor, cheering on everyone in their journey at every stage, offering what I thought was emotional support, commenting on loads of ttc journals... Only to never hear again from those same people as they steamed through tri 1-3, gave birth and completely ignored/forgot about me. Which looking back, makes sense. They didn't owe me anything. I just regard it now a major waste of my life.

Wishing you love xx

Thank you xx

Ive noticed over the last few months there are ladies that I remember getting their first bfp now trying for second (and not long back one going for their 3rd!). Its no competition of course.. but I know theyll be out of the ttc threads again very soon.
Which is great for them. I just wish it were that easy for us all.

Crazycatwoman · May 6, 2018

13 dpIUI, got this this morning!
Ive had spotting yesterday, which had gotten bit heavier, still quite dark in colour.
Test day Wednesday but Im not sure weve done it.

xMillie · May 6, 2018

Crazycatwoman said:
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13 dpIUI, got this this morning!
Ive had spotting yesterday, which had gotten bit heavier, still quite dark in colour.
Test day Wednesday but Im not sure weve done it.

I see something very faint. I hope the spotting is nothing xx

tigerpaws · May 7, 2018

Crazycatwoman said:
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13 dpIUI, got this this morning!
Ive had spotting yesterday, which had gotten bit heavier, still quite dark in colour.
Test day Wednesday but Im not sure weve done it.

I also think I see something, crossing my fingers for you!

tinselcat · May 8, 2018

ccw - that line is pretty visible, I didn't even need to click on the tiny image to see it! I hope the spotting is nothing bad xxx

Syd43 · May 8, 2018

Millie/tinsel, I hear you re the main part of the forum!

CCW, I see a faint line there, everything crossed. I spotted fairly heavily from just before 6 weeks until 8 weeks and a had a tiny bit of spotting between weeks 8 and 9. I'm guessing they've got you on progesterone suppositories, those can irritate the cervix and cause spotting.

Hi and good luck to everyone else.

Syd43 · May 8, 2018

isttimer, I really hope you get some answers from the mc testing and are able to formulate a plan to move forward.

xMillie · May 8, 2018

Hope everything is going well with you Syd xx

Crazycatwoman · May 8, 2018

Syd43 said:
Millie/tinsel, I hear you re the main part of the forum!

CCW, I see a faint line there, everything crossed. I spotted fairly heavily from just before 6 weeks until 8 weeks and a had a tiny bit of spotting between weeks 8 and 9. I'm guessing they've got you on progesterone suppositories, those can irritate the cervix and cause spotting.

Hi and good luck to everyone else.

Hey,

Im so glad things are going good for you.
The bleeding has stopped, its day 4 of a real strange bleed. Cant even call it a period.
It was dark to start but it then went to like a watered down red blood colour but very thin like. Not passed any clots.
Not been well today. Strange feelings in my tummy, backache, nausea, very hungry, lethargic and tired.

Im on progesterone shots as they think my progesterone let me down last time as I was not absorbing it.

Will test in the morning and go from there xx

Huwbus everyone ?

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