*** July mummies to be ***

[JulyBug]

Yeah I've been told as long as I'm not itching elsewhere it should be normal but i'll mention it tomorrow.. I've been walking around home with my bump out this afternoon as this lessens the itch so my clothes are obviously irritating it - it's so annoying!

x

 

[Onedaysoon25]

Mine itches occasionally and I also find it worse with clothes on. Take them off put on some cream and it makes it go away.
Sooo baby is Breech anyone have any experience with turning? Il know more tomorrow once I have a more thorough scan x

 

[JulyBug]

Oh naughty baby!.. I know nothing about turning but I know there's lots of website that offer advice, there's one called spinning babies I think??

Was LO breach at your last appointment or did they not say?

xx

 

[violet13]

You know what I think I need a holiday or a break of some kind. I'm doing everything in the house my oh wouldn't remove a bookcase from the living room I said it was a hazard low and behold our toddler climbed on it and lay on the top almost rolling off when I nipped the toilet I hopped the baby gate to grab him. I also then removed the bookcase found places for the dvds and damaged my foot (it slipped and I dropped it on my big toe) massive wound and it's gone black. He's ignored me all night because I had a go at him for not helping me (he works 9-5) I'm seriously struggling and have asked for help before. So I have done all the nappies as we use cloth has he helped me? No has he taken the night nappies up when he went to bed? No. I'm so alone I'm isolated where we live I have no friends due to a horrible person here. I hate my life I'm supposed to be excited for the baby and I'm just not because it's just going to be me alone as per. I'm thinking of booking a section earlier now just so I can plan ago in have baby and come home and arrange for help. Also i had to get his dad's Father's Day cards otherwise he wouldn't of done it!! He also never wished our niece a happy birthday or got her a card nothing so I had to do that too a late card and I said happy birthday on her actual birthday. I'm so fed up and I'm so down. I just want it to stop.
Sorry for ranting just needed to get it all out. Xxx

 

[SalisburyMum]

Violet I can definitely empathise with that.

My husband spends 5 nights a week at his own house, on Monday I asked him to move the hoover from the upstairs of the house to the down because it's big and bulky and I'm always worried about slipping with it on the stairs, he huffs and puffs like a child, like it's such a major thing.

I also asked him to get me the mop and bucket as lifting and tipping them full is painful, so he poured the floor water that I'd just used to mop around the toilet, into the bath I'd just cleaned.

He bought bin bags too small for the bin, so the kids just piled loads of apple cores and crap on top. He said 'don't worry I'll deal with it' and every day this week the dog has got up at six sm and spread litter around the house, so I've just had to lift the 50L bin and empty it as he couldn't be arsed.

He pushes hIs bicycle past the full (of his cans and bottles from cider) recycling bin every night, meaning I have to put the fucking thing on the bin port ready to be taken out.

He literally complains about anything, anything that isn't him sat studying, he winges about. It's getting to the point where I'm just going to ask him to stay away until he's finished his course because I literally can't deal with the stress of it anymore.

Everything is under duress, is a problem, is a fucking inconvenience to him.

I am so angry and passed off at doing the same job six times because I'm getting no help from anywhere

 

[violet13]

Violet I can definitely empathise with that.

My husband spends 5 nights a week at his own house, on Monday I asked him to move the hoover from the upstairs of the house to the down because it's big and bulky and I'm always worried about slipping with it on the stairs, he huffs and puffs like a child, like it's such a major thing.

I also asked him to get me the mop and bucket as lifting and tipping them full is painful, so he poured the floor water that I'd just used to mop around the toilet, into the bath I'd just cleaned.

He bought bin bags too small for the bin, so the kids just piled loads of apple cores and crap on top. He said 'don't worry I'll deal with it' and every day this week the dog has got up at six sm and spread litter around the house, so I've just had to lift the 50L bin and empty it as he couldn't be arsed.

He pushes hIs bicycle past the full (of his cans and bottles from cider) recycling bin every night, meaning I have to put the fucking thing on the bin port ready to be taken out.

He literally complains about anything, anything that isn't him sat studying, he winges about. It's getting to the point where I'm just going to ask him to stay away until he's finished his course because I literally can't deal with the stress of it anymore.

Everything is under duress, is a problem, is a fucking inconvenience to him.

I am so angry and passed off at doing the same job six times because I'm getting no help from anywhere

Shall we ditch them and just move in together? Be bloody easier and at least we can do house work as a team! My toe is so swollen I genuinely think I could of gone and got stitches it's very deep. I just don't get why he's being this way it's hard enough with my toddler climbing everything he can and trying to do the house work. At least the dogs behave xxx

 

[JulyBug]

MEN! I'm sure we've all felt like this at some point. 90% of time my OH is helpful but I do have to ASK, he rarely does anything without me asking!

Had my midwife appointment this morning and im measuring the same as I did two weeks ago so looks like I'll be going for a growth scan, she said not to worry but you do don't you, His still head down and engaged so hopefully everything's ok xx

Also - Fanny daggers.. OUCH! They are painful! Anyone know why we get them??

 

[SalisburyMum]

It's the cervix preparing I think xx

 

[JulyBug]

Still getting them only when I'm standing or walking, ouch!

It's so hot here today, went out early this morning now I'm staying in, too hot for me.

x

 

[SalisburyMum]

I just want ice drinks, somewhere comfortable <hollow laugh> and to be otherwise left the HELL ALONE

 

[JulyBug]

If only eh..

 

[Onedaysoon25]

Ah sorry a few of you are having problems with the OH's. Hopefully they will get their butts in gear when babies are here.

July- midwife wasn't too sure at 34 and still not at 36 weeks so sent me for a scan. I was convinced all would be a waste of time but nope, feet are in my pelvis. I have an ECV booked for Tuesday, so scared! My lo has been measuring two weeks behind at my last few appointments but growth scan showed all fine and they say give or take 3 weeks when doing measurements by tape measure so try not to worry. X

 

[JulyBug]

Oh that's good to know, thank you.

Try not to worry about the ECV, I'm sure it'll be fine and hopefully LO will play ball ! Let us know how you get on xxxx

 

[violet13]

Anyone else emotional? Today is Father's Day and we can't make the trip home to see our dads like we did at mothersday and I feel awful but wrote a massive letter to my dad and put it in his card. Told him how much I love him and thanked him for doing things most dads probably wouldn't do he took me bra shopping got me pads when I got my period, taught me about history of battles that even my teacher didn't show us, drew on my leg with a pen when I wanted tattoos came with me for my first tattoo! Just going through photos of me and him and ended up bawling my eyes out I freaking miss my dad he's been more of a best friend in some ways and he's hilarious. I've been up since 4 cause it's so hot today already. I'm doing a tradition that I did for my dad today for hubby we made up and sorted things not long after our fall out so my son will be helping me bring breakfast in bed to him today I'm doing a fry up for him cause he deserves it after some of the things are toddler has been doing tbh (going through a naught phase)

 

[Aurora_J]

Not been on for a few days as been very busy with going hospital and Doctors for my cyst. Have to see a Dr every day which means alot of waiting around.

I only remembered Fathers day yesterday so had to run in to town to buy cards for Hubby and My Dad, So i feel like the worst person ever.

 

[violet13]

Not been on for a few days as been very busy with going hospital and Doctors for my cyst. Have to see a Dr every day which means alot of waiting around.

I only remembered Fathers day yesterday so had to run in to town to buy cards for Hubby and My Dad, So i feel like the worst person ever.

You aren't I forgot so went out Wednesday and sorted everything. I've got a horribly upset tummy this morning pregnancy sucks. I've got a sweep today at 12 so fingers crossed. Hownis the cyst hun? I can't believe it burst, hope you're not in pain xxx

 

[Aurora_J]

Its still infected so need more antibotics today. The Dr redused to issue a new prescription even though i only had 2 left as he said you need to finnish them before a new one can be issued.

Guess i better get up and make breakfast for fathers day. Dont think weetabix will be good enough but thats all we have lol

 

[JulyBug]

dont think I'll be getting to my dads today either, I'm just so hot I can't bare the idea of sitting in a hot car! I'm staying in and keeping cool.. walked the dogs this morning and it made me feel so sick it was so hot even at 8am.

xx

 

[SalisburyMum]

Anyone else failing to sleep?

I am just blergh.

Can't get comfy, am too bloody hot..

House is clean, kids are snoring having played in pool all day and I've had 2 hours napping today (just too hot to stay awake)

Now I'm dead restless and can't sleep!! No good at all.

 

[Aurora_J]

Did you manange to sleep in the end Salisburymum?

I struggled to get to sleep and kept waking in the night. Been awake since 5am now and no point even trying to get back to sleep. Think i might spend today in the shower to keep cool.