**** july mummies 2018 *****

[_GG_]

Shan that's wonderful news. I'm really happy for you. If it's a shit shift because of It, at least you know there's an end date now.

Xx

 

[PeanutButter]

I'm in anti biotics till Xmas cos I've had green discharge so they just assumed BV :/ which has to be taken on an empty stomach 4 times a day!! 4th lot of them... Don't wanna take anymore!
Oh I hope your shift goes fast shan, everyone either envies you or pissed of that your leaving, well that's what I found. How much notice do you have to give? X

 

[Shanivy]

Thanks ladies it's 4 weeks :/ It feels so irresponsible but fuck it I only work part time and the baby's coming anyway. We talked about it last night and I've decided it really doesn't work for us with the new management & the flexi bullshit. Eek so nervous! Xx

 

[KHTW]

Oh PB that suckes! What do you mean they assumed?! Would they not do blood/urine test first??
I've had yellow-ish discharge for weeks but bloods and urine came back normal x

 

[Shanivy]

I'm in anti biotics till Xmas cos I've had green discharge so they just assumed BV :/ which has to be taken on an empty stomach 4 times a day!! 4th lot of them... Don't wanna take anymore!
Oh I hope your shift goes fast shan, everyone either envies you or pissed of that your leaving, well that's what I found. How much notice do you have to give? X

Ugh PB that's rubbish! Did they not swab you? Never had bv but I got thrush last time that wouldn't bloody go away lol . Pregnancy is such a miracle eh haha. At least it's only until Xmas. Thanks PB I think I'll get the pissed off more lol xx

 

[Shanivy]

Oh PB that suckes! What do you mean they assumed?! Would they not do blood/urine test first??
I've had yellow-ish discharge for weeks but bloods and urine came back normal x

Me too but mine was fine. Sometimes I think toilet paper makes it look more yellow idk xx

 

[KHTW]

Oh PB that suckes! What do you mean they assumed?! Would they not do blood/urine test first??
I've had yellow-ish discharge for weeks but bloods and urine came back normal x

Me too but mine was fine. Sometimes I think toilet paper makes it look more yellow idk xx

I just assumed it was normal. As long as it doesn smell bad or itches it should be ok x

Just had the jab ouch! x

 

[JemRose]

Oooh toilet paper is always yellow for me and urine is like fluorescent. I read it's because of the vitamins etc it makes your urine fluorescent x

 

[LuckyLaura]

Aw Laura, I had a dream that my dog died and it was devastating, even though it was only a dream. I woke up and just wanted to cuddle her all day, as silly as it seems she has been my rock for the past 5 years.

Who cares what your mum thinks, honestly if you're too ill to go to work then that's that. You are an adult not a child she can go away! xx

Not silly at all! I totally relate, I don't know what I'd do without my dog. I've only had her 2 years and I don't know what I'd do without her. She's been a great comfort to me over the past few years.

I know I should just ignore her and who cares etc But its really hard. Its hard to describe but when someone says the same things to you day in and day out, even if you dont want them to, they start to seep into your mind and into your thoughts Even if im out with hubby I can actually hear her voice in my head sometimes and it holds me back

 

[LuckyLaura]

Laura would you like me to come over and give your mum a smack. I'm kidding (I guess) I get mums like her though, me and mine have only formed a decent relationship since Ivy came along. I moved out at 16 and to Scotland at 18. When my dd came it was like she wised up with a second chance. Hopefully when your baby comes it might help her do the same. hey just noticed your location for some reason. Whereabouts are you from? I'm from Belfast originally xx

Please do, no jokes haha I also moved to scotland when I was 18- to Edinburgh. I miss it there constantly but had to move back to live with them again due to money issues. I'm really hoping that once the baby arrives she will change but I highly doubt it, she doesnt even realise that what she does is crazy.

I am from Bangor Not far from Belfast at all haha xx

 

[LuckyLaura]

Shanivy, let us all know how you get on in work today I'm excited for you handing in your notice hehe and very jealous!

xx

 

[JemRose]

oh my god I can't handle my sister anymore. I'm trying to be nice and pregnancy chatty with her. I said to her that her body obviously likes her and is good at being pregnant whereas mine is a bit shit with it.

"I don't think it's anything to do with your body. It's how you are as a person and obviously just deal with it better than you. I have pain too but do things to take my mind off it."

Okay well done you! Good for you that you can take your mind off the pain, can't be that bad then can it! I'm honestly so close to losing my temper with her and just going off on one. How dare she make me feel like she's clearly a much better person than I am and making out my pain is all in my head because I can't deal with it or take my mind off it. Seriously I just want to run away from everyone!

 

[KHTW]

Jem, I don't know why you bother. Just don't talk to her at all x

 

[JemRose]

I'm not overreacting by being angry about it am I? I tried to explain to my mum and she has stuck up for my sister (like always). I want to all get along, but she's being so horrible. Although apparently I'm the only one that thinks she is being horrible?!

 

[KHTW]

She doesn't sound like the most sensitive person... Best keep your distance. And remember you are both driven by crazy pregnancy hormones

 

[_GG_]

Fucks sake!!!

Two, not one, but two fucking horses hopping lame when I went to do pm checks. They had to be in the furthest bloody field and lame enough to only take 4-5 strides and need a rest. The horsey term is "hopping lame" pretty easy to visualise. I'm praying it's just abscesses coming through...because they're in the hoof, which can't swell, the pressure causes severe pain even though it's a fairly easy issue to treat when you can dig it out.

Not needed this week. Really don't have time but bless them, they were really feeling sorry for themselves so are happy to be in nice stables with lots of hay.

 

[_GG_]

Jem, that's the precise comment that would make me just burst into laughter at her...then make and excuse and hang up.

Like..."loud burst of laughter" followed by, "Oooh, I'm gonna be late, speak soon". Then hang up or walk out! Xx

 

[KHTW]

Fucks sake!!!

Two, not one, but two fucking horses hopping lame when I went to do pm checks. They had to be in the furthest bloody field and lame enough to only take 4-5 strides and need a rest. The horsey term is "hopping lame" pretty easy to visualise. I'm praying it's just abscesses coming through...because they're in the hoof, which can't swell, the pressure causes severe pain even though it's a fairly easy issue to treat when you can dig it out.

Not needed this week. Really don't have time but bless them, they were really feeling sorry for themselves so are happy to be in nice stables with lots of hay.

Silly horses! Hope they are ok x

 

[LuckyLaura]

oh my god I can't handle my sister anymore. I'm trying to be nice and pregnancy chatty with her. I said to her that her body obviously likes her and is good at being pregnant whereas mine is a bit shit with it.

"I don't think it's anything to do with your body. It's how you are as a person and obviously just deal with it better than you. I have pain too but do things to take my mind off it."

Okay well done you! Good for you that you can take your mind off the pain, can't be that bad then can it! I'm honestly so close to losing my temper with her and just going off on one. How dare she make me feel like she's clearly a much better person than I am and making out my pain is all in my head because I can't deal with it or take my mind off it. Seriously I just want to run away from everyone!

I don't think you're overreacting at all. She sounds insecure. She obviously needs to validate herself by acting like she's tonnes better than you. I'm with GG that u should show complete indifference to her. I'd minimise her chances to be a dick too by not discussing it with her further. It's not like she's being supportive or helpful in any way.

My mum told me today that I must just not be dealing with it as our family friend who actually has a medical illness still coped better with her pregnancy apparently. People seem to think it's some kind of competition and it's always women who are the worst xx

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[PeanutButter]

Got my 'emergency' scan on Friday. Had to have some blood tests as to why my belly is hurting though (too high to be baby related).
Gonna talk to the midwife tomorrow and see what she says about the Doppler etc.
Jem I wouldn't bother with her anymore, well unless she makes an effort first. Doesn't sound like a sister, sounds like a fake friend. X