**January 2018 Mummies, New year Babies**

[MrsS15]

I'm so sorry lulla, I've been constantly checking to see if you've come on. I really am so sorry for you, it's so heartbreaking!
Definitely right to be signed off, be kind to yourself and take as much time as you need, you've had a really awful time recently. Sending you hugs xxxx

 

[Carly89]

Hey ladies, Sorry ive been off!
I had my scan and it showed a missed miscarriage at 6 weeks! Literally a day after i had the scan where i saw the heartbeat!
Im not really coping very well so im coming off here, Currently waiting for a appointment for a d&c, Having to wait a extra two weeks is so hard knowing im still carrying my baby!
We've decided to give it a break for now,
This year I lost my nan and had my first miscarriage on the same day, then i got pregnant again, my granddad died and turned out I lost the baby on the same day as he died!
My head isnt in the right place, ive been signed off with server grieving, and depression!
I wish you all the best!
Love to you all x

Oh lulla I am heartbroken reading this I'm so so sorry for all you have been through, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Take care of yourself xxxxx

 

[Ab202]

So sorry to hear this Lulla! Big hugs and thoughts go out to you x

 

[clarep1905]

Lulla Bell, I am so, so sorry. Please look after yourself xxx

 

[Mariexo]

So sorry to hear Lulla. My thoughts are with you xx

 

[Hoping for no2]

Lulla I'm so so sorry how devastating for you. Take the time you need to grieve. Take care xx

 

[Sugar10]

So sorry Lula. I was really worried about you. Take all the time you need, and get yourself right. It's ok to slow down and to grieve and we will all be thinking about you. Xx

 

[Karenb]

So sorry Lulla, take all the time you need to grieve and come to terms with it. Thinking of you xx

 

[megsmeadow]

I'm so sad to hear your news Lula. Take just an hour at a time and find comfort in the small things, that's what got me through some very difficult times. X

 

[Belfa]

So sorry Lulla x

 

[Alipops1986]

Sorry to hear your news Lulla - please be kind to yourself and take the time that you need. Sending love xx

 

[Alipops1986]

Well, Scan day for me this afternoon. Just pottering around the house and relaxing this morning. Zac is at nursery, OH has gone to work until lunchtime.
Feeling nervous & anxious but also relieved the day has finally arrived! xx

 

[Carly89]

Well, Scan day for me this afternoon. Just pottering around the house and relaxing this morning. Zac is at nursery, OH has gone to work until lunchtime.
Feeling nervous & anxious but also relieved the day has finally arrived! xx

Hope all goes well Ali x

Anyone else notice their symptoms come in waves? Felt OK, then today like someone Has zapped the life out of me. I'm exactly 11 weeks. Happened almost as bad as I hit 9 weeks. It's as though baby is having a growth spurt or something and needs all my energy! xx

 

[Alipops1986]

Well, Scan day for me this afternoon. Just pottering around the house and relaxing this morning. Zac is at nursery, OH has gone to work until lunchtime.
Feeling nervous & anxious but also relieved the day has finally arrived! xx

Hope all goes well Ali x

Anyone else notice their symptoms come in waves? Felt OK, then today like someone Has zapped the life out of me. I'm exactly 11 weeks. Happened almost as bad as I hit 9 weeks. It's as though baby is having a growth spurt or something and needs all my energy! xx

I am ALWAYS hanging at the weekend and Monday/Tuesday. Then, I seem to pick up and be better until the weekend. It's very frustrating as I just sit around at the weekend feeling dire.

I've been drinking lots this morning, not sure that's gonna benefit the scan as I always have to have a wee before I leave the house!!

 

[louisa2008sash]

Hello
I had my 12 week scan on Monday. I thought I was less pregnant than I was. So now I am due 4th January 2008.

 

[Carly89]

Well, Scan day for me this afternoon. Just pottering around the house and relaxing this morning. Zac is at nursery, OH has gone to work until lunchtime.
Feeling nervous & anxious but also relieved the day has finally arrived! xx

Hope all goes well Ali x

Anyone else notice their symptoms come in waves? Felt OK, then today like someone Has zapped the life out of me. I'm exactly 11 weeks. Happened almost as bad as I hit 9 weeks. It's as though baby is having a growth spurt or something and needs all my energy! xx

I am ALWAYS hanging at the weekend and Monday/Tuesday. Then, I seem to pick up and be better until the weekend. It's very frustrating as I just sit around at the weekend feeling dire.

I've been drinking lots this morning, not sure that's gonna benefit the scan as I always have to have a wee before I leave the house!!

Mines just every couple of weeks. That sounds awful. I had a huge burst of energy over the last weekend and got so much done round the house. Was gardening and all sorts! I think I over did it massively, I felt a bit of pulling in my tummy.
I had to call in sick today, felt like I couldn't get out of bed, just so drained x

 

[Carly89]

Hello
I had my 12 week scan on Monday. I thought I was less pregnant than I was. So now I am due 4th January 2008.

Glad your scan went well x

 

[Hoping for no2]

So annoyed, arrived for my NT scan snd they said it had been booked at a different hospital so couldn't see me!! Can't be seen now thill next thurs when I'll be 13+5 and literally the day before they can still do the tests. I'm raging - the hospital is 40 mins away and I've got HG so it takes a lot for me to leave the house let alone travel for over 1.5 hours in the car...grrrr

Hope your scan went well Ali xx

 

[Sugar10]

I've just heard baby's heartbeat! ! absolutely love that sound.

How was your scan ali?

Oh no hoping for no2 that's disgraceful. Can either hospital not do an earlier one? Hope you're ok.

Carly I'm the same with the symptoms coming in waves , yesterday I felt sick all morning was awful, we were looking at cars and I wanted to do was lie down! Feel abit like I've got flu today

Xx

 

[Lulla Bell]

Hey Ladies, thank you so much for the messages
Ive just been for my appointment to book in my D&C, The doctor was amazing and is going to send off the tissue for testing and took loads of bloods, She said in 6 weeks time ill have the results back.
She also said that once I fall pregnant again they will scan me every week from 6 weeks to reassure me, and put me under a consultant from day one to test me bloods and hormone levels to try and make sure I have a healthy pregnancy.
I kind of broke down in front of her and told her I knew id lost it when I did but no-one listened to me, Including two doctors at the hospital, which really pissed her off!
She said they need to listen to us more often as we know when something isn't right.
So... yeah, I'm feeling a bit more positive today. I can finally see a end to the waiting around and I'm really happy that I'm being listened to.
Hopefully in the next two weeks I would have stopped bleeding and I can start to enjoy the summer.
Good luck to all of you.
Ill be checking in now and again to make sure you are all okay. xxxx