I officially declare......baby making now on hold :)

[MissJuly10]

Sounds like it's going to really do you some good hun. Let's not forget what happened to Samsgirl when she decided she wanted to put TTC on the backburner and focus on getting married etc....

x x

 

[Mummy2Adam]

Hope your ok hunny,Ive just send you a message x x

Just seen my lovely, reply be right with you xxxx

Thanks hunny x x

 

[VickyB]

Hey Kezza

Thats very sensible, I think sometimes you need that just to step back take a look at whats happening! You have plenty of time hun, Im 33 in a couple of weeks and this will be my first (FX). The reason we didn't try earlier was because of our wedding engaged 2007 married 2010. We wanted a fantastic honeymoon which we got!!

Im glad your staying around it wouldn't be the same without you! xxx

 

[Kezzamunster]

Sounds like it's going to really do you some good hun. Let's not forget what happened to Samsgirl when she decided she wanted to put TTC on the backburner and focus on getting married etc....

x x

Hehehe I did think about that but not gonna happen I'm afraid as I've gone back on the pill, 2nd day today

Spoke to the OH about it & we've decided that my last pill packet will be March 2013 then from April 2013 to January 2014 will use a fertility monitor & the withdrawal method so we can prepare our bodies for conceiving, with help from the right vitamins & diet & general get super healthy

xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Kezzamunster]

Hey Kezza

Thats very sensible, I think sometimes you need that just to step back take a look at whats happening! You have plenty of time hun, Im 33 in a couple of weeks and this will be my first (FX). The reason we didn't try earlier was because of our wedding engaged 2007 married 2010. We wanted a fantastic honeymoon which we got!!

Im glad your staying around it wouldn't be the same without you! xxx

Awwwww thanks Vicky

Yep your right about the wedding to, by the time we get married we've been together nearly 15 years so we want it to be amazing & this way we can have everything we really want

Soooooooo excited

xxxxx

 

[Kezzamunster]

Hope your ok hunny,Ive just send you a message x x

Just seen my lovely, reply be right with you xxxx

Thanks hunny x x

Replied hun, sorry took a bit longer, my pffting boss needed my help.....how very dare he!!!!

xxxxx

 

[LouiseB]

I know we would get by & I also know that unless your a millionaire you will never be financially stable

That's rubbish. That's exactly what you will be

I'm sad that this is it for your ttc journey for now, but i think you are making the best decision for you and your partner and for your baby so i know you'll be a fantabulous mummy one day!

Not sure about you hanging around PF still, not that i want rid of you but it can be counter productive lol

All the best xx

 

[Kezzamunster]

That's rubbish. That's exactly what you will be

I'm sad that this is it for your ttc journey for now, but i think you are making the best decision for you and your partner and for your baby so i know you'll be a fantabulous mummy one day!

Not sure about you hanging around PF still, not that i want rid of you but it can be counter productive lol

All the best xx

Thanks Louise

Hehehehe I'll keep everyone updated with my progress as to whether to turn into some crazy stealer

xxxx

 

[SunnyGirl]

Kezza omg I've missed this!!! Honey you sound so happy in your decision that I'm 100% behind you with going like the clappers. You're one of the loveliest people and are very altruistic, caring, welcoming and a hundred other wonderful things too. You're going to be a wonderful mum and it's going to be 2014 sooner than you think. You're darn right you're not leaving PF young lady lol! I'd be genuinely heartbroken. You've really got an inspirational attitude to life in all its ups and downs. Glad to call you my friend xxxx

 

[LoopyLouize]

Wow that suprised me!! Kezza I think that's very brave of you!! Good on ya!! I should really adapt the same attitude as you to be honest! I need to get alot sorted in my life before I bring a new born in but sometimes wants and needs collide!! Financially I'm stable! It's the fact we dont see each other only on weekends.. I think me holding onto my career full time and bringing up a child on my own mon - fri will be tough! Havnt fully decided what's going to happen with that one yet!!
I totally agree with the others!! Your guna do what samsgirl did and get your BFP before you planned!! Xx

 

[Kezzamunster]

Thank you so much LoopyLou & SunnyGirl

I'm going to make up a "Team Jennings" notebook with our plans for the future but the most important bit at the front will be everyones messages from the thread, they are just wonderful & make me feel even more positive & truly happy about everything

It's all your kind words that will keep me going strong

xxxxxxxx

 

[EmmBee123]

OMG Kezza, a little shocked but as all previous posters are saying, very sensible.

2013-14 will be here before we all know it!

Keep in touch

 

[Mummy2Adam]

Sounds like it's going to really do you some good hun. Let's not forget what happened to Samsgirl when she decided she wanted to put TTC on the backburner and focus on getting married etc....

x x

Hehehe I did think about that but not gonna happen I'm afraid as I've gone back on the pill, 2nd day today

Spoke to the OH about it & we've decided that my last pill packet will be March 2013 then from April 2013 to January 2014 will use a fertility monitor & the withdrawal method so we can prepare our bodies for conceiving, with help from the right vitamins & diet & general get super healthy

xxxxxxxxxxx

Sounds like you have got everything organised hunny, i think that is great Its good that you have planned to give your body a break inbetween coming off the pill and ttc aswell

Your OH sounds so supportive, you make a great couple as the support that you have given me and alot of other ladies on here has been so helpful and it is greatly appreciated x x

 

[dita_parlo]

Good luck hun, the time is right when the time is right, and I think it's great that you're planning to get everything sorted before thinking about TTC. Shows how great parents you will both be, and how exciting will it be to plan the wedding you've always dreamed of!!! That will make time fly past! xxx

 

[Cazza]

Aww sounds like a good plan Kezza!!

Thank you for being the first to welcome me to PF - you just don't know how much that meant to me hunny xx

 

[yorksmummy]

You sound so focussed with your new plan, your instincts are right and you are doing the right thing to follow them. You seemed to instinctively know that AF was coming (and correct me if I am wrong but some way through that monsterous thread started by AC you said you weren't sure if this was the right time for baby). You will instinctively know when the right time is for baby and you'll feel happy and prepared after following your plan.
Best of luck with everything, have a fabby wedding and better honeymoon. You have got plenty of time for babies I was 32 when I had my first (now just turned 35 and expecting my 3rd eek). Hope you do hang round on here though. x x

 

[Kezzamunster]

Thanks girls

Your right yorksmummy, me & the OH had a fall out about money the other weekend & think that's what started it off without me even realising it & since then I've that something was bugging me but couldn't put my finger on it

It's weird how things all come together but even when I look in the mirror I see a happier me, just look a lot more relaxed

Our dream is to live the River Cottage lifestyle, not sure if you've all seen it but this just brings us one step closer

xxxxxx

 

[SunnyGirl]

That's so lovely to read kezza - you just know when you're on the right path don't you. And you feel niggled when on the not quite right one. Remember my story from posts ages ago where i heard the little voice "you're exactly where you're meant to be"? Xxxx

 

[yorksmummy]

That's deinitely a dream to hold on to, and then babies will just make ot perfection for you. x

 

[positivity :)]

aww just seen this kezza! pleased for you, i wish i was that organised. Pleased to see u are going to be sticking around!! xxx