Hey Scotch
Thanks hun
Now that everything has been agreed with my creditors it's defo spurring on the determination to get everything sorted
Everything is going great with organising the wedding in Turkey & the OH seems a lot more excited now then when we had the wedding booked in the UK
All the UK bits have been cancelled, the £900 deposit for the venue is refundable based on them selling the date at the price it was sold to us & the £100 deposit for the cake can be used against another order, which works our perfectly as we will have a joint wedding/30th birthday celebration next Oct so can use then
I've started to put adverts on
www.preloved.co.uk for the other bits I bought for the wedding, so far the dress & veil, clear & baby pink table crystals & the crystal butterfly embellishments have been added & after my break I'll add on a couple more bits
From Jan to Aug 2012 we will be paying for the Turkey Wedding/holiday & paying off his step dad for the money the OH borrowed for the deposit on our flat then from Aug/Sept 2012 we will start to save & the best bit of all, I'll be coming off the pill
So that will put us in the NTNP category as ideally we would like so have a years savings behind us & give my body a years rest from being off the pill before we fall pregnant
If someone had asked me at the beginning of the year how I see things changing, I would of said 'on your bike'
I never ever thought that things would work themselves out like this
I'm a great believer in good things come to those who wait......I'm living proof
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