How are all you new mummies doing?

[hayes]

Glad u had a good holiday toria shame u r all unwell now, I'm dreading being ill n having to look after Harry. I doubt know how u do it u r defo supernum!!!!

Harry has decided he know longer likes my food he only wants jars!! Little monkey. He also had q bit of my weight watchers yoghurt n loved it!!

Michelle.x

 

[Pumpkin9]

Oh no toria! Nightmare- hope you all feel better soon

 

[Jojo84]

Like had a busy day today! Bounce and rhyme then a cuppa with me and his aunty Katy then this afternoon spat play with his aunty mary and her daughter Olivia lol

 

[Pumpkin9]

That sounds much nicer than the planned sainsburys trip I'm doing

 

[Jojo84]

It's especially nice because my friend mary is the one who lost her baby and she's never met luke before (she kept cancelling and I think tbh it was just too hard for her) we've known each other for almost 20 years., same with my friend Katy. I always think it's an achieve my. Evacuee hear kind of friendships take real work to maintain.

 

[Jojo84]

Went to bounce and rhyme today and then for breakfast with my friend and then to peacocks
Sale I got him a Hawaiian t-shirt (£2) a swimming costume (£5)- smart arrows jumper with elbow patches (£3) a long sleeve ld tshirr and jogger set (£4) and a long sleeves shirt (£2£ and saves £20 all 9-12 months

My friend for the afternoon cancelled again... I'm starting to wonder if there is a problem at home because she never seems to go out with any friends anymore, only her husband... This is the girl who's husband told her she couldn't come tou wedding because he needed her to be at home then came
Out when he was working and had to get home before he did my other friend said it's coincidence but I'm
Not sure.

 

[tiyashrivastha]

Hi I am going to be new mummy after 7 months

 

[hayes]

Defo sounds a bit suspicious jojo, I got sum peacocks bargains in the sale a dew week's back n can't wait to go shopping with my sis on Monday it's been ages since I had a good shop!!!

Michelle.x

 

[Jojo84]

This is my lot

Also treated myself

guest thing I've bought myself since Luke was born

 

[T84]

Oooh love it jojo, good bargains too!

 

[T84]

Hi I am going to be new mummy after 7 months

Hi! Are you 7 months pregnant or have a 7 month old?

 

[Jojo84]

It's q 14and I have no idea how I got into it lol! I think because it's floaty... I like floaty. It's quite low cut, but that's ok

 

[Kaedin]

Thanks all although we're all spewing or got the shits. Emma has the shits which is luckily containable!lol

Kaedin, glad your meeting went well. Was there anything in the letter about him collecting and dropping Hayley off? From memory you don't drive? Also did the solicitor say anything about maintenance for you while you are caring for Hayley?

Discussed what time he can come get her, from 12 noon on Saturday until 10am on the Sunday and after work on a Wednesday from 40 til 7pm. I don't drive so won't be dropping her off for him.

Never mentioned that, but got a letter back from child maintenance today saying they'll be contacting Craig and will usually get back to me in 2 weeks to say how much they think he should be contributing to Hayley. IT says it will take longer if they have trouble reaching him, but i kinda expect him to make it difficult by refusing to answer his phone or reply to any letters...so I;m doing it all myself at the moment.

I've stopped giving Hayley her ranitidine as it doesn't make much of a difference and i've started using the Cow & Gate anti-reflux formula, but finding it's blocking the teat alot. I've bought size 3 teats but it's still happening. Do you ladies have any advice on how to prevent or reduce it blocking?

 

[Toria111]

Kaedin, fingers crossed he doesn't cause issues. They will get him to back pay you anyway, so he'd only be shooting himself in the foot.

Re the bottles. I use size 3 teats, but also mix the formula with a formula mixer to get rid of most the lumpy bits.

 

[hayes]

That's the swimming costume Harry has got now jojo it's a cute shark isn't it??? Love the dress.

Michelle.z

 

[Jojo84]

I'm a terrible mother!!

Thought Luke was strapped into his rocker and he wasn't... Went up to the loo and to get his stuff ready to take to my mums and he started crying - when I came downstairs he was face down to the floor screaming! I have no idea how!!!

He seems ok one and stopped crying. I gave him big cuddles and he's not crying... Can't feel any unusual bumps and he's following his toys ok... Atoll bearing weight on his legs and things... You think he sounds ok??

God I'm awful!

 

[Maud]

I'm sure he's ok JoJo; he can't have fell far, probably wiggled off the bottom. And you're not a bad mother at all! I leave isabelle in her rocker when I'm out of the room all the time without strapping her in.

 

[Jojo84]

He can't have just wriggled though because he was facing the wrong way!

 

[Toria111]

Maybe he wriggled to the edge, then tipped over and rolled. I'm still trying to figure out how Emma fell off the bed last week. No lasting affects

 

[Mummybexee]

You have to REALLLY shake anti reflux milk

Also I make it with prep not with warm water like it says ?

Can't say I get lumps with the aptamil one ? It does get thrown about though and has a good bloody shake!!