How are all you new mummies doing?

[Kaedin]

Great news for Thomas! Can't imagine how scared I'd be to think of Hayley under general anaesthetic for an op!

sometimes Hayleys been going to bed at 6:30 as she's just so tired! She's starting to nap around the same time now and not being as fussing as she used to. But she's napped a few times around 5 which makes me nervous that she won't wake up until very early, but so far she's been sticking to sleeping through the night mostly.

 

[Pumpkin9]

I'm so chuffed, it still keeps doing abit of a hiding act but I'm hoping now it will slowly descend and stay there. Its very strange having to check his balls every week or so, feel abit wrong poking around down there.

He still goes to bed at 8.30 (which has gone forward 30 mins). Not sure what will happen when the clicks go back at the end of October and we'll need to change his routine when I go back to work too.

 

[Jojo84]

Luke has more or las stayed asleep since 6 so maybe 6pm is a better bedtime instead if trying to mouse it until 7pm.

I'm actually managing to watch our girl now as every time I've tried Luke has been unsettled or cries thre ugh it if I try during the day. Love army stuff for some reason.

 

[Natalilly1288]

That was brill Jo I really enjoyed it! I'm dead lucky with Macie she has bath at 6 bottle at 6.30 n bed around 7 ish n she sleeps until 7.30 I'm dreading her going through an unsettled phase cus u just start getting used to sleep n bam! Lol xxx

 

[Kaedin]

Hayley will be away with my ex from 12 noon tomorrow, really wish she could stay with me and we could spend the day together - go out a nice walk or something. If he was nicer I guess it wouldn't be so much of an issue for me. I'll be out tomorrow to keep my mind off from missing her.

got my wage slip by email today, depressing when the figure is lower than last month! Thankfully bought bug box of nappies from aldi baby & toddler event! My ex should be contributing financially soon, so less stress & pressure all on me. Especially knowing she doesn't have many 6-9 or + clothes at all eek!

 

[Jojo84]

Luckily Luke's unsettled period has just been in the evening - I don't moline it if I get sleep at night. I had a self indulgent nap earlier for like an hour which was nice lol

 

[Jojo84]

Hayley will be away with my ex from 12 noon tomorrow, really wish she could stay with me and we could spend the day together - go out a nice walk or something. If he was nicer I guess it wouldn't be so much of an issue for me. I'll be out tomorrow to keep my mind off from missing her.

got my wage slip by email today, depressing when the figure is lower than last month! Thankfully bought bug box of nappies from aldi baby & toddler event! My ex should be contributing financially soon, so less stress & pressure all on me. Especially knowing she doesn't have many 6-9 or + clothes at all eek!

It's a shame he's a dixk, otherwise you could've managed a family day once in a while to benifit Hayley but he just not that big is aan it would seem!

 

[Kaedin]

Still can't believe it's been 11 weeks and he's refused to give anything toward Hayley, stole my money, and ask me to provide stuff for her. Last Sunday he didn't bring back her clothes I put on her on Saturday (he said he'd bring them on Wed when he had 3 hours with her - he didn't) so I'm not giving her a change of clothes tomorrow as I'm getting bled dry here!

Thankfully Hayley has always been a pretty good sleeper overall. She does have some nightmare nights, like last night she woke at 2am, but she was quickly back asleep. Shame I was tossing and turning for ages after haha!

 

[Natalilly1288]

Sorry Kerry but he really does sound like the biggest dick head ever! He needs to grow up where does he think u get your money from?! A tree in your garden?! He needs a good hiding! I think ur def best out if it! I'm rubbish without sleep! But I never get a nap in day anymore id love one tho l! Lol xxx

 

[Kaedin]

Sorry Kerry but he really does sound like the biggest dick head ever! He needs to grow up where does he think u get your money from?! A tree in your garden?! He needs a good hiding! I think ur def best out if it! I'm rubbish without sleep! But I never get a nap in day anymore id love one tho l! Lol xxx

He's said a few times that he hasn't "asked for Hayleys child benefit money" as thought he thinks he's entitled to it somehow?
He showed up to my door the other day to collect Hayley and he had a new tattoo around his "Hayley" tattoo. It's soooooo laughable! He got a tattoo with her name when she was just born so left me with her for hours. Surely after being at work for hours you'd want to spend the evening with your daughter - nope not him, he buggers off to spend money to have her name written on his body whilst actively ignoring and avoiding her.
I am soo much happier without him, I'm more free now than I have been for the last 5 years. Unfortunately I didn't realise it whilst I was in that situation!

Whenever I start to fall asleep for a nap, Hayley wakes up! Think she can sense me nodding off

 

[Natalilly1288]

He's a Joke Hun if he carries on when Hayley gets bigger she will know all this he really does make me angry he should be ashamed id tell him Hayley needs new 6-9 month clothes do u think he would buy some off his own back? Xxxx

 

[Jojo84]

I think I'd have slapped him by now.

I'm thinking of getting a luke tattoo but not his name, but a representation of him. Maybe his Pisces sign entwined with my Taurus sign or something. - I like that idea also because he shares a sign with my late grandad who I was very close to

 

[Kaedin]

If I told him Hayley needs clothes he'd just tell me to buy some and walk away.

I don't have any tattoos, I don't even have my ears pierced! I said I'd get a tattoo for Hayley, as I had been thinking about it, but he got his first using our money when together. What a waste! The intertwined tattoo sounds nice Jojo! Especially as it has 2 sentimental meanings for you

 

[Jojo84]

I have three tattoos and they all mean things. The first us a welsh tattoo on my wrist saying brwydrwr meaning fighter, then i got a skull/codon/keys/roses tattoo on my foot symbolising the balance between nature, life, death and security and I have a tattoo on my back which is a moon and stars with "nos da cariad" which means goodnight my love and ingot it after my grandad died a few years ago.

 

[Toria111]

Ooo he makes me angry Kerry. Why does he think he's entitled to any of Hayley's child benefit? He has to buy formula, nappies etc for when she's with him so he should know how expensive having a baby is!

Well we definitely need to get on with the baby proofing today. Was getting so etching in the kitchen after putting Emma on the floor where her toys are. Quickly checked on her to find she's got across the room and pulled herself up on to her knees and was trying to pull herself on to the coffee table! We pushed it in to the corner thinking it would be out of the way. No chance.

 

[Pumpkin9]

Omg toria, this scares me! Thomas is still happy sitting down, but looking forward to the movement!!

Kerry, words fail me, he's ridiculous - I want to spoil thomas rotten I can't see how he just treats her as a possession and doesn't actually want to enjoy her becoming a little person!

 

[Mummybexee]

He really winds me up!!!!

I'd just stop access! Cheeky ******* needs to be put in his place! Was his manipulative when you were in a relashionship?

 

[Kaedin]

He really winds me up!!!!

I'd just stop access! Cheeky ******* needs to be put in his place! Was his manipulative when you were in a relashionship?

He was at times, but fine at others. Guess I just ignored the bad and concentrated on the good. Looking back I realise how daft I was.

Hayley woke at 6am, which is earlier than normal so gave her a bottle in my room then put her in cot. She wouldn't sleep so brought her into my bed and we both fell asleep until 8! Success

 

[Pumpkin9]

Love a good lie in till 8 lol. Can't even imagine sleeping till 11 or 12 like I used to.

I can remember getting annoyed when people
Phoned me at 9 on my day off

 

[Kaedin]

Changed days that 8am counts as a long lie! haha

Thats Hayley away, so im getting ready to go out with a couple of my friends