NatEvz
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Well I dont want to sound like a complete and utter cow by posting this but I just dont know who else to talk to. Ive always had a good relationship with my hubbys mates as a lot of them we both went to school with.
His best friend lives with his gf just down the road from us and up until recently we saw them quite regularly, theyve always had a massively turbulant relationship and have had full blown physical punch ups in front of me and hubby. In the 4 years theyve been together theyve been through 4 terminations and a miscarriage.
When i was 11 weeks pregnant we found out that his OH was also 5 weeks pregnant. It was accidental and we were both really supportive.
At 6 weeks she was admitted to hospital after suffering an ectopic pregnancy. After surgical intervention was successful, she had follow up scans and they gave her the all clear. I tried my hardest to be really supportive, i sent her a big bunch of flowers and spoke to her every day to make sure she was feeling ok and listened if she wanted to talk, and I purposely didnt mention anything about me being pregnant for fear of being inconsiderate and upsetting her. But if she asked id always talk to her.
Anyway that was a few months back. Things have just gone downhill since i started showing really. Hubbys best mate wont talk to us or call round because he wont ackowlege my pregnancy now im showing and his gf has started like this secret war on facebook. If i post something about baby she posts something aimed at me regarding her not being pregnant, so much so ive removed her from my news feed because it made me cry. In the early stages i used to hide my little bump if we saw them but now its getting to the stage where i cant really hide it anymore. I honestly really do feel for them, no couple deserves to go through that, but i feel like they hate me for being pregnant.
I dunno the whole thing is just making me feel incredibly guilty for being pregnant and carrying our baby. Maybe its just me being a hormonal pregnant woman!
Thanks for listening ladies xxx
His best friend lives with his gf just down the road from us and up until recently we saw them quite regularly, theyve always had a massively turbulant relationship and have had full blown physical punch ups in front of me and hubby. In the 4 years theyve been together theyve been through 4 terminations and a miscarriage.
When i was 11 weeks pregnant we found out that his OH was also 5 weeks pregnant. It was accidental and we were both really supportive.
At 6 weeks she was admitted to hospital after suffering an ectopic pregnancy. After surgical intervention was successful, she had follow up scans and they gave her the all clear. I tried my hardest to be really supportive, i sent her a big bunch of flowers and spoke to her every day to make sure she was feeling ok and listened if she wanted to talk, and I purposely didnt mention anything about me being pregnant for fear of being inconsiderate and upsetting her. But if she asked id always talk to her.
Anyway that was a few months back. Things have just gone downhill since i started showing really. Hubbys best mate wont talk to us or call round because he wont ackowlege my pregnancy now im showing and his gf has started like this secret war on facebook. If i post something about baby she posts something aimed at me regarding her not being pregnant, so much so ive removed her from my news feed because it made me cry. In the early stages i used to hide my little bump if we saw them but now its getting to the stage where i cant really hide it anymore. I honestly really do feel for them, no couple deserves to go through that, but i feel like they hate me for being pregnant.
I dunno the whole thing is just making me feel incredibly guilty for being pregnant and carrying our baby. Maybe its just me being a hormonal pregnant woman!
Thanks for listening ladies xxx