Bit of a rant...

[Em91]

Well done for not reacting, i'm sure your DH appreciated it because it was his dads funeral, if you see them in a different situation though and they act the same you're well within your rights to say something. How wrong of them! x

 

[Little_angel]

I totally get why you're angry and I definitely wouldn't be inviting them to anything in the future. It must be such a difficult time for you and your husband, why can't people just be supportive?

Look after yourself and your family now - your husband and the baby. Nobody else needs to be important xxx

 

[Spammy]

Wow jayjay what a bunch of weirdos!! Well done though for being so dignified and having the mind to remember the occasion and that it wasn't the time or place to make a scene. You should be proud of yourself!!

These ladies however should be ashamed of themselves! How dare they treat you like that and especially on such a difficult day. You can definitely hold your head up high. They only made themselves look stupid, especially as you and your Hubs are clearly very devoted to each other. I think that speaks volumes without you having to say a word.

 

[Jayjay027]

Really appreciate all ur replies ladies, thanks so much!

I, too, think it speaks volumes that hubby is supporting me 100% and even before he knew how they were acting was still showing me affection by putting his arm around me etc.
I'm sure they are both furious, and no doubt I was on the receiving end of some nasty names in their home during the week lol x

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[Spammy]

If I was you id feel a bit smug. Ha ha

 

[kra0]

How could u hold your tongue?? I know you probably did out of respect for your husband and family but omg I would have burst with anger lol. And secondly I find it very very strange that she's obsessed by her cousin (all be it second but related by blood!) and that her mum is being just as bad. Strange people! Do they not have any respect for your fil at all acting like that at his funeral? I think if your husband had words with dina or her mum maybe and asked what was wrong with them because a lot of people mentioned that they noticed the dirty looks that they might tone it down and back off! Xx

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[Kirsty.Y.84]

Wow, how rude! I can't believe that fully grown adults can behave this way over something so ridiculous. They have never met you before, for goodness sake! I suppose the only good thing is that they are not too closely related so it's not like you will have to see them all the time!
Hope you are ok and have managed to rise above it. At the end of the day,they are not worth getting angry over. The most important thing is that you are your husband are happy and that your baby is healthy
x x

 

[Jayjay027]

The most important thing is that you are your husband are happy and that your baby is healthy
x x

Couldn't agree with you more! x

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[K80]

The mother and daughter double act sound like a couple of weirdos!!! Just hold your head high and don't let them stress you out.
Only thing is - be careful when baby is born and is out for the day with its gran - you dont want horrible people near your baby. Perhaps try and make sure these two nut jobs aren't let anywhere near your gorgeous wee daughter. God knows what crap they might make up about her or you. People like these two sound very cunning.
Welldone for keeping calm.
And I'm terribly sorry to hear of your and your husbands loss. It must be a sad time for you both.
xxx

 

[Loula]

All i can say is WOW, you handled it soo well, i would definately have had a quiet word with both Dina and the mother to see what they had said.
I think your in your right mind to think what you did and its very starnge behaviour.
Sorry for your loss and hope you DH is coping ok xxx

 

[Jayjay027]

K80 - my MIL isn't the type to take baby out for the day, I can't even imagine that she'd ever babysit for us if I'm honest, so that won't be a problem. These people also live over an hours drive away so we'll not be bumping into them thankfully.

Loula - my DH has been doing well all week but he's not having a great day today. He's trying to seem fine, but I can tell he's not himself. I think the reality is hitting him, he's been very clingy with me, always cuddling and holding me. My hearts broken for him x

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[Loula]

aww jayjay maybe its finally just sinking in, all you can do is be there xxx

 

[Jayjay027]

Yeah I'm just trying to support him as much as I can. I wish there was a magic spell I could do to take it all away. Poor soul x

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[Water_Melon]

Thats terrible!!
They need to just accept that your OH married YOU and thats not going to change!
You shouldn't have to be dealing with stress with what happened, and also the fact you're pregnant! You need to be relaxing.
If I were you I would totally forget them! Focus on your own self, your baby and your OH. Thats all that matters.
Hopefully you won't have to see them anytime soon! X

 

[Amylize]

Hats off to you for biting your tongue! I think i would have caused a problem, but like you say given the time and place it wouldnt have to appropriate! At least your Husband is behind you though esp about the baby!

 

[babyelmo]

Oh my goodness, I'm really shocked! I was reading this post and in my head I was getting really angry with this Dina woman and her mother. Who on earth do they think they are???!

I can completely understand why you kept quiet, and I admire you a lot for being able to do so, i'm not sure I would have been able to. Does it sound awful that I hope you get the opportunity to give them a piece of your mind in the future??!! You're absolutely doing the right thing, not involving them in your baby's life. Though I dare say you'll be wrong in their eyes for that too! (you're not!)

So sorry for your loss too. This really is the last thing you need at a time like this

With any luck she'll find another family member to marry and leave you alone!

 

[Jayjay027]

With any luck she'll find another family member to marry and leave you alone!

Lmao!
Here's hoping!!

I've decided I'm not gonna let them get to me. They are just trash and not worth getting annoyed over.

Really appreciate all the replies girls! Thank u xx

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