soffphie
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My mum told me that my ‘problem’ with my 2 MCs is that I found out I was pregnant too soon?!? I said that when you’re late for your period and AF comes like clockwork who isn’t going to test when TTC??? She said she just ‘waited’ for a few weeks before testing. I reminded her that this was nearly 30 years ago and so the tests wouldn’t have been as sensitive then so maybe that’s what she had to do but when you want something so much and you’re trying for it to happen, it’s all you can think about, it consumes you and there’s no bloody way I could wait weeks to test haha. I know she was just trying to be supportive and say the right thing but it really wasn’t what I wanted to hear at the time.
Yeh bless, she was probably just trying to be as supportive as she could given the circumstances.
I dont think my mum can totally get it either, i mean she wants me to have a child i know she does, but i dont think it crossed her mind once that past year we had been trying unsuccessfully, i think she just thought we wasnt trying sorta thing..
I have a degree of understanding with the testing early. Its something that i think to myself now i got to be very rational and if i am pregnant i will be pregnant if i test slightly late etc and testing before af due etc wont help me. Trust me i know its very hard to not get near AF stage and be wanting to know like now! but as someone said to me, why test early when if you are pregnant youll be pregnant and trying to squint and find lines is just maddening and stressful and i get what they are trying to say to me. I also get why people test before AF due tho so.. haha