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February testing thread 2019

Aw i’m sorry. It’s awful isn’t it. My dad is coming round and I’ve got to pretend all is ok. He doesn’t get it. Hope work isn’t to bad for you xx
Hope you picked up as the day went on! Xxx
 
Surprise surprise ...AF got me right on time.:censored:
I don’t think we are going to try now until May either. We are going on holiday that month and given my history of mcs I wouldn’t want to be pregnant unless I could be 12+ weeks when we are away.
I’m really disappointed
 
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Surprise surprise ...AF got me right on time.:censored:
I don’t think we are going to try now until May either. We are going on holiday that month and given my history of mcs I wouldn’t want to be pregnant unless I could be 12+ weeks when we are away.
I’m really disappointed
Arrr sorry April. I understand your worry of your previous MC’s but it’s safe to fly early on in pregnancy. You shouldn’t let that stop you from trying for the next couple of cycles x
 
Arrr sorry April. I understand your worry of your previous MC’s but it’s safe to fly early on in pregnancy. You shouldn’t let that stop you from trying for the next couple of cycles x

It’s not so much the fear of flying whilst pregnant it’s the fear of miscarrying before the holiday and having to recover from that. Or miscarrying on holiday.
My mentality that I can’t escape no matter how hard I try is I will MC whenever I next become PG
Don’t think I’ll be able to not try if I know when to BD but we won’t be going out of our way ttc. I’ve looked ahead and I could possibly be in my fertile window whilst abroad to which would be ideal!
 
I am only 2/3dpo and soooo looking forward to testing even though it probably be negative. It's just that we haven't been really trying because of my DH. But somehow we managed to have sex around ovulation 3 times (OMG), I didn't bring it up with him as I just want to leave and not talk about babies , just worried about freaking him out about it.
 
I am only 2/3dpo and soooo looking forward to testing even though it probably be negative. It's just that we haven't been really trying because of my DH. But somehow we managed to have sex around ovulation 3 times (OMG), I didn't bring it up with him as I just want to leave and not talk about babies , just worried about freaking him out about it.
Fingers crossed that’s all you needed. Only needs to no once at right time xx
 
I am only 2/3dpo and soooo looking forward to testing even though it probably be negative. It's just that we haven't been really trying because of my DH. But somehow we managed to have sex around ovulation 3 times (OMG), I didn't bring it up with him as I just want to leave and not talk about babies , just worried about freaking him out about it.
Don't freak out Maximus. Deep down your hubby probably really wants this as much as you but is just so scared it will end in bad news again. Blokes don't seem to show their emotions and feelings often.
So happy you managed to DTD around ovulation though and 3 times thats brilliant :) I will be rooting for you. I am 2DPO today too :) If your testing in March like me then come and join us over there hun <3 x
 
thank you. I think I can test on the 28th of Feb as that would make me 11/12 dpo if not I will join the March thread. The chances of me getting a BFP is very very low though because of my age but it's still excited to be in the 2 week wait, oh how I missed it :)
it's true that my DH doesn't like talking about his feelings and I think he doesn't even know he has them lol I think he would be happy to have another child as he wouldn't be so careless otherwise. I also find that the less I talk about babies the more he relaxes so from now on I am not going to bring it up and if we do have unprotected sex than it's a bonus.
 
by the way, I know it's because of symptom spotting but I am feeling soooo nauseous this morning, which is impossible as I am only 2dpo! , I think the hormones really trick us don't they?
I read somewhere that after ovulation symptoms same every month whether you are pregnant or not as it's your body preparing you for possible pregnancy with increasing progesterone. The hormones start dropping by 12dpo and thats when most people get a BFP as it doesn't drop if pregnant. It was interesting to read this to stop myself from obsessing.
 
thank you. I think I can test on the 28th of Feb as that would make me 11/12 dpo if not I will join the March thread. The chances of me getting a BFP is very very low though because of my age but it's still excited to be in the 2 week wait, oh how I missed it :)
it's true that my DH doesn't like talking about his feelings and I think he doesn't even know he has them lol I think he would be happy to have another child as he wouldn't be so careless otherwise. I also find that the less I talk about babies the more he relaxes so from now on I am not going to bring it up and if we do have unprotected sex than it's a bonus.
Max its not very low at all. You have proved you can fall pregnant but doesnt mean because of bad news previously it will always be bad news. You have as much chance as the rest of us. It has also been proven that older ladies can most definitely fall pregnant and give birth to very healthy babies.
It's nice to have you back on the journey with us all <3 xx
 
Max its not very low at all. You have proved you can fall pregnant but doesnt mean because of bad news previously it will always be bad news. You have as much chance as the rest of us. It has also been proven that older ladies can most definitely fall pregnant and give birth to very healthy babies.
It's nice to have you back on the journey with us all <3 xx

thank you, I think I am desperate to see BFP as I am not sure how long my husband will be careless. I feel like if I get pregnant with an oops moment than at least we won't have to talk about it every again. Than I think whatever meant to be meant to be and I also know deep down I will have my baby how ever long it takes , I just know it and that makes me feel at peace.
 
thank you, I think I am desperate to see BFP as I am not sure how long my husband will be careless. I feel like if I get pregnant with an oops moment than at least we won't have to talk about it every again. Than I think whatever meant to be meant to be and I also know deep down I will have my baby how ever long it takes , I just know it and that makes me feel at peace.
Yes very true. I believe that everything happens for a reason and what is meant to be will be. Always lived by that quote. Even at the time when something bad is happening its hard to believe it at the time.
Just carry on with your unprotected sex and don't let hubby know when you are ovulating and you will get your little miracle.
I hope this 2ww goes quickly for the both of us <3 x
 
Yes very true. I believe that everything happens for a reason and what is meant to be will be. Always lived by that quote. Even at the time when something bad is happening its hard to believe it at the time.
Just carry on with your unprotected sex and don't let hubby know when you are ovulating and you will get your little miracle.
I hope this 2ww goes quickly for the both of us <3 x

yeah I wish he would have unprotected sex through the month but he won't , I think I just got lucky this month as he was relaxed because of his birthday/valentines day etc.. I am sure he will go back to using protection when he is a little stressed and sober lol
So my chances are even lower than someone trying it at all times, but again whats meant to be meant to be right :)
 

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