Well I have come over to the dark side then ladies, hello to your IVF/IUI thread, thanks to our lovely Lou for bashing me into submission... (she is very pursuasive!).
Thanks for all being so lovely already
Please can I be added to your listing, IVF first cycle, (June/july) , i'm from berkshire, lower AMH of 5.3 , and age will turn 39 before this ivf is done! ( just to get this in the open - I do have children already, and this would be my last if sucessful).
I have started already so heres my backdated update! (apologys if I am a beginner telling you stuff you more experiance ivf ladies know already, but maybee useful to someone with ivf coming up perhaps).
I had my AF 19th May, waited 21 days and started sniffing Synarel 2x in the am and 2x in the evening to down regulate, (bit chemically after 5 mins in back of throat, but if you down loads of water soon goes). My period arrived on day 7 , 2 days early , (yayyy as you need to have a bleed when DR), it was heavier than normal for a few days and in total lasted 9 days!! arghh. I am now on day 18 of 20 days of DR, and so I have my scan on tuesday morning to check for cysts (due to DR drug) and to make sure I am menopausal! (Well the proper paddy this morning, when things were not going to plan - while tiling the bathroom, tells me I am there!!)
Mild sideeffects - I have had headaches, mood swings, a bit of dizzyness, some tiredness after week one of DR and a few day hotflushes, and night sweats/hotflushes when I move suddenly, all those sound bad, but actually they were more than manageable , just a little odd! I really thought DR would be harder than that, sooo brilliant.
I can't believe I am nearly at the business end of IVF already.... Tuesday I may get the ok to start stimming my folicles...from wed. They should also show me how to mix drugs and inject. I am on 225iu doesage of menopur per day, comes in 3x vials so a bit of mixing involved for one jab, but hope once I have done one, it will fall into place. I still have the sniffing, just one sniff each morning and eve instead of two, to stop me releasing/ovulating with my stash of folic
The over welming feeling from the start has and is being excited, now i'm getting towards the other end, it's really dawning on me, how high up on this rollercoaster I am right now, and just how hard a fall it would and is for people when they get a bfn at the end of the cycle, it's so much more than just a normal month of TTC and waiting for AF.
IVF is not something that you really want to talk about to people around you on a daily basis, as it's a bit out there , unless your in that place too, (sure you all know what I mean!) , so having space in a forum to talk together is brilliant
I am wishing you all well with your cycles and upcoming cycles, Tinkerbell and myself are almost bang on close in cycle dates which is lovely...
and there sounds like loads of us started or going through this soon - I really hope we can build a stack of BFP's while supporting each other in this.. XX