Hi Ladies,
Not been on here for nearly a year. Found all of this very overwhelming....
OH and I been trying since 2009. OH had undescended testicles as a child and confirmed to have very low (4mil) count. I could cope, just about, with this.
What I couldn't cope with was, for some reason, 2 out of a total 6 tests came back at 0. He was referred to Urology dept and immediately put on a list for a Testicula Biopsy.
He had the op, he found it a massive ordeal. He wouldn't talk. It was hell. He even threatened to leave me a few times!
We happened to have a fertility apt, whilst waiting for the biopsy results, only to be told that the last result was at 4mil and was lost in my files. There was no need for op and we would be able to have ICSI. No problem.
We couldn't believe it. I was virtually on the sick from work, we were prepping ourselves for adoption or sperm donation and all for nothing!!!
We were then told that due to my BMI at 37 (I am size 18, quite tall, but stocky/muscular and therefore heavier than I look. I am also diabetic and hugely struggle to loose weight) we couldn't be put on a waiting list untill I was at BMI 32. That meant loosing 2 stone.
I also had to bring my sugar levels down dramaticaly.
In the time scales that we were looking at, to do both of the above at the same time, could take up to 12-24 months!!! We were desperate to get on that list NOW!
Waaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!
So, we have gone private and have our consultation/scans/further sperm tests etc tomorrow. We could be looking at Sept for the ICSI treatment as I have managed to loose a stone and have my BMI down to 34. Blood sugars doing well too.
All this has been going on and we have kept it quite low profile. Parents, sister know. No friends know. Although, weirdly, a few people in work know... Think its due to them not being a part of my personal life, don't know my friends/family etc and know that they won't sit around a table, drinking wine and fling sorry for us. Unforunately, most of my friends would revel in discussing 'poor old Em'. I couldn't cope with that. I am an incredibly proud person!!
Wawee, this is the most open I have been about this in ages!! Needed to let it out!
Thanks guys
Wish us luck for tomorrow!!
Em
xxx
Not been on here for nearly a year. Found all of this very overwhelming....
OH and I been trying since 2009. OH had undescended testicles as a child and confirmed to have very low (4mil) count. I could cope, just about, with this.
What I couldn't cope with was, for some reason, 2 out of a total 6 tests came back at 0. He was referred to Urology dept and immediately put on a list for a Testicula Biopsy.
He had the op, he found it a massive ordeal. He wouldn't talk. It was hell. He even threatened to leave me a few times!
We happened to have a fertility apt, whilst waiting for the biopsy results, only to be told that the last result was at 4mil and was lost in my files. There was no need for op and we would be able to have ICSI. No problem.
We couldn't believe it. I was virtually on the sick from work, we were prepping ourselves for adoption or sperm donation and all for nothing!!!
We were then told that due to my BMI at 37 (I am size 18, quite tall, but stocky/muscular and therefore heavier than I look. I am also diabetic and hugely struggle to loose weight) we couldn't be put on a waiting list untill I was at BMI 32. That meant loosing 2 stone.
I also had to bring my sugar levels down dramaticaly.
In the time scales that we were looking at, to do both of the above at the same time, could take up to 12-24 months!!! We were desperate to get on that list NOW!
Waaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!
So, we have gone private and have our consultation/scans/further sperm tests etc tomorrow. We could be looking at Sept for the ICSI treatment as I have managed to loose a stone and have my BMI down to 34. Blood sugars doing well too.
All this has been going on and we have kept it quite low profile. Parents, sister know. No friends know. Although, weirdly, a few people in work know... Think its due to them not being a part of my personal life, don't know my friends/family etc and know that they won't sit around a table, drinking wine and fling sorry for us. Unforunately, most of my friends would revel in discussing 'poor old Em'. I couldn't cope with that. I am an incredibly proud person!!
Wawee, this is the most open I have been about this in ages!! Needed to let it out!
Thanks guys
Wish us luck for tomorrow!!
Em
xxx