I'm sorry for your loss Prrfect, sending lots of love to you and your family. You are definitely right about focusing on the new life, I'm sure she would want you to do the same.
I agree, the older you get you realise how lucky you are and to make the most of everything you've got, I especially feel that with being pregnant as I know so many people who are trying for a baby with no success yet.
We tried the icandy peach and apple 2 pear which both convert to tandem, however found out that they are discontinuing the apple 2 pear when the orange is launched this month. The apple 2 pear was much cheaper but we didn't want to be stuck in a few years time for spares so went for the peach, it was on an amazing offer otherwise I think we'd have been a bit more reluctant to order it now!
Misscharli I really want a Chicco next 2 me too but they're so expensive and everyone I speak to has said don't bother as they grow out of them so soon, I keep looking on eBay though! What is everyone else going to do with regards to the baby sleeping in your room? A few people have mentioned pram carrycots but I'm not sure how I feel about that yet!